Last year, my mum died unexpected and everyone who said they would support me and that i always could turn to them when i have hard time dissapeared on me.
Like for example, i had a best friend (S) for over 10 years, well at least i tought she was my best friend. But a few months after my mum died i went camping with a couple of friends and my brother and he's girlfriend (T) where there to. So T. asked me to go some place elsewhere and take her car, because my brother and a friend of him where drunk. I let my brother know that we were going to another place for a couple of hours. after an hour i received an angry phone call from "my best friend" (S) who wasn't with us at the camping place btw, saying that i should immediatly take the car and go back to the camping place. She was demanding it. i told her she should mind her own business and cutt off the phone. she than messaged me that she had called the cops saying we stoled a car?? I mean, i was just devastated by her actions. What kind of "friend"does this?
Now she is bad talking me against my own brother, and since she started to do that i feel like my brother is drifting further away from me... i mean he is the only family member i got left since my mum past away.
I tried talking to him but everytime i try he just ignores me, puts he's music louder in the car or starts to dial a friends number and phone them. This is so not respectful behiavor from him.
Anyway i am starting to doubt myself because of this. I am always nice to people and whenever they ask something i am always the first one to listen or do any favors for them. So i do not understand why people close to me are behaving so towards me.
What am i doing wrong?