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  1. Wiseman I'm wondering if he has NPD ( NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER). It's all about him and his needs , then his children, then me instead of creating a happy home life for his kids who he claims to love. He loves himself first, then his kids and I don't think I feature. I just feel like his slave.
  2. Thanks Wiseman. Great insight. I just joined yesterday how or when can I send a private message do you know?
  3. Thank you Holly. I have just joined this site how do I send a private message ?
  4. When my baby was born he withdrew all affection and moved out of our room. No support with feeding baby. Emailed him about issues as there is no talking to him. We talk about kids and mundane things. I have used the words emotional abuse lots of times....
  5. Thank you Mari and Danzee great advice. I like the sound of the chores with consequences and will certainly look into Gottman's four hoursemen. He has not engaged or communicated with me now for over 4 months. Have written him emails, tried talking to him to no avail. I have asked him to engage with me on finances as I will need a childminder when I return to work but he refuses to discuss money. He thinks he is a multiimillionaire but is on an average saalry not a million miles from mine. I forgot to add he stole my phone, broke into it and then pretended to help me find it in the bin bu
  6. Not sure where to start as three children in ...
  7. Hi dancing fool. Yes he is worse than useless.If he just sat in the corner and said nothing that would be better but he thinks he has the right to criticize and comment when he has no right to! Good point you make though about not being his victim. I have tried just leaving his clothes on the floor not doing his washing, cooking etc he would happily have no beds made, dirty dishes pile up , grass not cut ...... He has a weird sense of entitlement which perhaps he got from his own upbringing. I just hope my son does not turn out like him.
  8. Hi Alchemist re acting like his servant he will say things such as whats the point in being married if you don't do this or that for me....Really upsetting and am akind and giving person by my nature and have put 100% into this marriage..
  9. Thanks for all the replies..Contributing very little dancing fool. He is continuing to refuse to engage with me in spite of his promises and apologies. He never takes responsibility for anything and its all about him and his needs. He has astrange view on the role of a woman too. I feel I am walking on eggshells all the time. In terms of engagement nothing has changed. In fact he is worse.This is having a very detrimental effect on my well being. He has stopped talking / communicating with me .I'm terrified that it is the kids who will suffer in the long run.
  10. Hi there, I'm looking for advice on abusive relationships please . I have been married for 8 years, have three children and am at the end of my tether. I'm just exhausted. I have itemised aspects of my relationship that are bothering me. Would love some advice. Can people change? Should say I have a full time job Mon-Fri. I basically work full time do everything in the home. How can I get my husband to have insight- there is no talking to him. Never compliments me. Slags my shoes asks me why I'm not wearing high heels instead of flats If wearing a top he might say where did yo
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