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  1. my gut says it is an odd thing to say, particularly in the circumstances
  2. I am a 38 year old man. 5 months ago I met a woman online. She is 34. We began dating. Things were going really well. We got on well. 4 months into the relationship I did the most awful thing. I got drunk one night and visited a prostitute. No excuses. It was an awful thing to do. I immediately felt terrible guilt and broke it off with my girlfriend within days saying she would be better off without me. I didn't tell her at the time about what I had done. I just broke it off. She continued to contact me for a few weeks and I her. So then 2 weeks ago I thought I should confess everything if we were still in contact. So I confessed what I had done. She was shocked but said we could work things out. She suggests we go away for a week to discuss things. So last week we went away to discuss things. ON the third day, she said she wanted to talk to me about something. So i said fine. She then brought up the topic of a baby. She said and I quote:' I want a baby by you whether we are together or not. You can still be part of the baby's life if we are not together. And if you don't want to part of the baby's life if you are gone before the child if 3 they won't miss you." I really need peoples advice/ opinions on what she said. Is it normal? Is it strange? What do people think about what she said? Please tell me what you think.
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