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"HEY, I'm in a friends/more than friends bine. I have seeked advice and help from people and hey all say the same thing. I wanna ya'll opinons. here's the story: i'm 19. me and my female friend, she 18, are really cool. we have been friends for about 3 years. I have never called a girl beautiful in my life, but I think she is. We always talk about each other, like teasing, crackin jokes etc. It's the basis of our friendship. But there is 1 problem, she Always mentioned that she thinks I think she likes me but she doesn't!!! I was at my friends house and she calls me up its like 12:30am and shes like come over!!! So I end up her crib till like 2am. We just talk and laugh and hit each other and stuff. We talk like twice a week and everytime she will say that. EVERYTIME!! So after 2 and half years of hearing that, she says it again one night on the phone and I get a bit upset. I ask why is she always stressing over that and how I never have said that I think she like me. I have always had deep down incredibly strong feelings for her but since she always sayin that statement, I never acted on it. so during this call, she says that i too upset and asks to speak wit my sister until I calm down. She ends tellin my sister to calm me down and stuff. So I do and she wants to talk to me again, I get back on da phone and she says she was sorry and in truth we should go see a movie. She asked me out. we talk everyday this week and she that was serious about the movie deal. Friday comes and I didn't have no paper cuz of books, I call her and wanted me to pay 4 everything!!! She gets an attitude dat I couldn't go and hangs up in my face. I call her back and leave a voice mail sayin why I can't go. She calls back like 10 minutes sayin dat she was sorry and that she just really wanted to go out with me. I didn't talk to her for like a week because that's how we are. the I call her and leave a voice mail sayin I did want to take her out and that this was my official asking her out deal. She calls me back and is talking about how she is a lady pimp and she got all these dudes on her trail and ow she want some dude and he so cool and she wanna settle down wit him, Then she ask if I wanna talk about my voicemail, I'm a bit pissed and its way past midnight, so I say no. we dont call e/o for a while, like 3 weeks. The she sees my ncle at a basketbal game and he asks her about me and her, get this, she says to him, she would stop talkin to all those guys If I ask, and she's waiting on me but I like I'm scared!!! this was on a sat. b4 xmas. Her b-day is xmas eve. we chat dat week, and I end up sending her 12 roses and a candy cane on her b-day/xmas eve. She calls me right when she get em says she loves them. I;m going to da game dat night, and she call me later dat night while I'm there. I tell i'm at da game and gets mad and says dat she would of come if she knew I was going. Then she says she wants to go to mexico for new years eve now she 18 and wants to go with me. A week rolls around I call her a day b4 ny eve. She say her moms is makin her go with her cousins to a party but I should take my sister wherever I go, just make sure my sister there at all times. Me and my sister need quality time. I see my sister everyday at home!! So da next day is new yers eve and 6:00 come she calls and says what are WE doing tonight? I;m like some girl wants me at did party so I'm headin there, She is a bit pissed and hangs up. She call me back and I say I'm going wit my Homies to a party, not with the girl. She says her and her cousins feel like stoppin by there so I'm like alright. But I fell asleep and I never went and she went with her cousins. We talk like every other day, one night on da phone she says when I'm going to admit I love her!! And she says that she thinks I think at times I stress over her but I adore her. She makes he listen to some poem this guy left on her voicemail and and she clowns him. we talk more and more then she calls me up says why I aint my sis game and I say cuz I'm handlin biz, she get mad and beg me to come. I ask her if she going to tues. game cuz I am in she like, yeah. 5 minutes later, she call and ask me to da movies!!! We go and we get up to da booth and I'm like you can go pay 4 yo ticket and she like dis is a date you pay 4 it. But da flick is sold out. I'm like oh well. She say she cold and want somethin to eat. I'm Like and? She she say lets hit up Red Lobster I call her bluff and be like fine. She like lets take yo car, I'm like naw I'll meet you there .She calls me again and sayss lets go to this other place, I'm like cool. She call me again as I'm Parking and is like were you at? I'm like i'm up front. we in da restaraunt and she says its a 45min wait. Then she fing two seats. We end up staying at this place for 2 and a half hours!!! It was grea!!! We ate, the just sat and chatted. Afterwards we were walking out and she like i'm cold i need someone to keep me warm.I'm like, wear a bigger jacket, then she like my hands is cold Ineed them to get warm, i'm like you should wore some mittens. Then She like lets go to Target and get some mittens. we get in my ca and she inside sayin this car could be good for us, i mean you!!! We get in Target and i'm like theres gloves at da clearance rack. she like fine. But its like 10pm and she like dats cool we can come back. That was on a friday, most times like b4 mentioned its a week b4 each side calls cuz we so busy. She call me Monday. She says I was in da middle of doing homework and I wanted to give you a call, she never does that stuff in da past. We chatted then she tells me to hold on. She gone for like 5-10min. She come back and I'm like where were you, she like I went to use da bathroom!! I'm like so why didn't you just call me back or somethin she gets mad and be like I can't go use da b-room while talkin to you!! Then at da game tues, I'm walkin accross da gym and I don't hear callin me. When she first came in, she was lookin 4 me butdidn't see and sat wit some friends. But n-e ways, she get mad and say I'm ignorin her. We end watchin da rest of da game wit e/o. Then this morning she call me at 7:40am and be like can I comeover cuz yo uncle needs to look at my car. I'm yeah, she come over and we check her car out she like can I come back after school? Cuz its a short day and ya uncle can wash my car. We like yeah. She come back at 12:45 and we chilll while unc hook her car up and we talk and laugh. She says that the next time I come to her house I need to come upstairs.She sits at my house, her 1st time there, and lays on my couch, drinks my Kool-aid and grabs the remote from my hand and turns the chanel. She leave at 2:15. So here's my deal. I'm head over heels for this girl But I'm not sure if she like me or not. I want to be with her, no doubt. I cherish every moment spent wit her. Everybody say she REALLY LIKE me but I aint sure. What should I do? Please help me!!! sorry for da lond read but I felt da whole story is important." Since then we've talked every other day. After that thursday thing with her car, she called me a 9:00am Sunday morning. She said she hadn't talked to me in while and wanted to check up on me, (something in the past she would never do) we talked for like 40min. She was on the freeway and was listening to Tevin Cambell ( a singer) and then she went on to start singing me the song of "The way you touch me, and the way you love me" or something with those lyrics. She's so funny. My sis had another game and I walked into the Gym and I see my mom I sit with my mom for like 5min. I then Stand up and she was chatting with my uncle, then she calls me over there and I go sit above her. I think she wanted me to sit right by her, but I sat 1 row above her. After like 5min. She turns and says Why are you sittin up there. I say Were should I really be sittin, She taps the open space right next to her and I say oh I see. Something happened during the game that stopped me from movin, Damn I wanted to too. She looked good as hell. Halftime came and she and takes a pom-pom and just slaps me for no reason. I slap her with mine and we fight and laugh. We then start talkin but we can't cuz its obvious that when we look at eachother we can't keep a straight face. We ended up flirting for like another 30min. My uncle said after the game, all she did the whole time was watch me.We haven't talked much for about a week now. My mom tells me that I should listen to her ( my mom). She said she can tell, from a fmale's p.o.v. that she likes me. This is what everybody that I have asked says also. I wanna believe the girl of my dreams likes me, but until it comes out her mouth. I'm still unsure. Your advice is greatly appreciated, again.

yeah I kind of thought that she was wanting me to hold her and stuff but she been cryin out forever that she don't like me. So I'm all nonchalant now cuz she been sayin that for a long time, I guess its true. You think she like me though? I saw at the game 2nite and she kept hittin me and kickin me askin a bunch of questions. I wanna spill my guts but I aint sure if she feelin me.

HEY, I'm in a friends/more than friends bine. I have seeked advice and help from people and hey all say the same thing. I wanna ya'll opinons. here's the story: i'm 19. me and my female friend, she 18, are really cool. we have been friends for about 3 years. I have never called a girl beautiful in my life, but I think she is. We always talk about each other, like teasing, crackin jokes etc. It's the basis of our friendship. But there is 1 problem, she Always mentioned that she thinks I think she likes me but she doesn't!!! I was at my friends house and she calls me up its like 12:30am and shes like come over!!! So I end up her crib till like 2am. We just talk and laugh and hit each other and stuff. We talk like twice a week and everytime she will say that. EVERYTIME!! So after 2 and half years of hearing that, she says it again one night on the phone and I get a bit upset. I ask why is she always stressing over that and how I never have said that I think she like me. I have always had deep down incredibly strong feelings for her but since she always sayin that statement, I never acted on it. so during this call, she says that i too upset and asks to speak wit my sister until I calm down. She ends tellin my sister to calm me down and stuff. So I do and she wants to talk to me again, I get back on da phone and she says she was sorry and in truth we should go see a movie. She asked me out. we talk everyday this week and she that was serious about the movie deal. Friday comes and I didn't have no paper cuz of books, I call her and wanted me to pay 4 everything!!! She gets an attitude dat I couldn't go and hangs up in my face. I call her back and leave a voice mail sayin why I can't go. She calls back like 10 minutes sayin dat she was sorry and that she just really wanted to go out with me. I didn't talk to her for like a week because that's how we are. the I call her and leave a voice mail sayin I did want to take her out and that this was my official asking her out deal. She calls me back and is talking about how she is a lady pimp and she got all these dudes on her trail and ow she want some dude and he so cool and she wanna settle down wit him, Then she ask if I wanna talk about my voicemail, I'm a bit pissed and its way past midnight, so I say no. we dont call e/o for a while, like 3 weeks. The she sees my ncle at a basketbal game and he asks her about me and her, get this, she says to him, she would stop talkin to all those guys If I ask, and she's waiting on me but I like I'm scared!!! this was on a sat. b4 xmas. Her b-day is xmas eve. we chat dat week, and I end up sending her 12 roses and a candy cane on her b-day/xmas eve. She calls me right when she get em says she loves them. I;m going to da game dat night, and she call me later dat night while I'm there. I tell i'm at da game and gets mad and says dat she would of come if she knew I was going. Then she says she wants to go to mexico for new years eve now she 18 and wants to go with me. A week rolls around I call her a day b4 ny eve. She say her moms is makin her go with her cousins to a party but I should take my sister wherever I go, just make sure my sister there at all times. Me and my sister need quality time. I see my sister everyday at home!! So da next day is new yers eve and 6:00 come she calls and says what are WE doing tonight? I;m like some girl wants me at did party so I'm headin there, She is a bit pissed and hangs up. She call me back and I say I'm going wit my Homies to a party, not with the girl. She says her and her cousins feel like stoppin by there so I'm like alright. But I fell asleep and I never went and she went with her cousins. We talk like every other day, one night on da phone she says when I'm going to admit I love her!! And she says that she thinks I think at times I stress over her but I adore her. She makes he listen to some poem this guy left on her voicemail and and she clowns him. we talk more and more then she calls me up says why I aint my sis game and I say cuz I'm handlin biz, she get mad and beg me to come. I ask her if she going to tues. game cuz I am in she like, yeah. 5 minutes later, she call and ask me to da movies!!! We go and we get up to da booth and I'm like you can go pay 4 yo ticket and she like dis is a date you pay 4 it. But da flick is sold out. I'm like oh well. She say she cold and want somethin to eat. I'm Like and? She she say lets hit up Red Lobster I call her bluff and be like fine. She like lets take yo car, I'm like naw I'll meet you there .She calls me again and sayss lets go to this other place, I'm like cool. She call me again as I'm Parking and is like were you at? I'm like i'm up front. we in da restaraunt and she says its a 45min wait. Then she fing two seats. We end up staying at this place for 2 and a half hours!!! It was grea!!! We ate, the just sat and chatted. Afterwards we were walking out and she like i'm cold i need someone to keep me warm.I'm like, wear a bigger jacket, then she like my hands is cold Ineed them to get warm, i'm like you should wore some mittens. Then She like lets go to Target and get some mittens. we get in my ca and she inside sayin this car could be good for us, i mean you!!! We get in Target and i'm like theres gloves at da clearance rack. she like fine. But its like 10pm and she like dats cool we can come back. That was on a friday, most times like b4 mentioned its a week b4 each side calls cuz we so busy. She call me Monday. She says I was in da middle of doing homework and I wanted to give you a call, she never does that stuff in da past. We chatted then she tells me to hold on. She gone for like 5-10min. She come back and I'm like where were you, she like I went to use da bathroom!! I'm like so why didn't you just call me back or somethin she gets mad and be like I can't go use da b-room while talkin to you!! Then at da game tues, I'm walkin accross da gym and I don't hear callin me. When she first came in, she was lookin 4 me butdidn't see and sat wit some friends. But n-e ways, she get mad and say I'm ignorin her. We end watchin da rest of da game wit e/o. Then this morning she call me at 7:40am and be like can I comeover cuz yo uncle needs to look at my car. I'm yeah, she come over and we check her car out she like can I come back after school? Cuz its a short day and ya uncle can wash my car. We like yeah. She come back at 12:45 and we chilll while unc hook her car up and we talk and laugh. She leave at 2:15. So here's my deal. I'm head over heels for this girl But I'm not sure if she like me or not. I want to be with her, no doubt. I cherich every moment spent wit her. Everybody say she REALLY LIKE me but I aint sure. What should I do? Please help me!!! sorry for da lond read but I felt da whole story is important.