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  1. Hi OG, I still believe that one can't talk oneself into and out of love, or fight to keep that emotion. It's either there or it isn't on his part but I won't belabour the point, I do understand why you are very angry. In any event, as I said, you need to concentrate on you, not on him and whatever his emotions are. That is exactly the attitude you should carry forward. Thanks Fudgie, but no, I won't be posting any more. I just felt so sorry for OG, whom I really like, and felt she needed a different perspective than she was getting on here. Insults and vindictiveness towards L are
  2. Hi OG, It is a long time since I have posted on ENA, but, as I said when I sent you a pm sympathizing with you over this, a friend told me what had happened and I came to read your journal myself. I think you need someone to bring a different view. It is totally understandable that you feel angry, but remember that anger is a secondary emotion, driven by one or more primary emotions, usually fear, often hurt, often bewilderment, and I think all three apply in this sort of scenario. Anger may help you in the immediate short term but it won’t any longer than that. Stoking that ange
  3. Spiders are good - they kill and dispose of all sorts of other nasty bugs.
  4. Congratulations - very pleased to hear that. It must be a great relief.
  5. You can contact the administrator by email using the contact icon on the ENA main page:
  6. If you take him out but he never takes you out he is taking financial advantage of you. Never let anyone do that.
  7. I don't agree it's necessarily selfish. Sometimes people still care about the person they left and want to make sure they are OK. Nothing wrong with that - not everything that people do has a base or selfish motive.
  8. Your friend is right and yoi are right to choose option #1.
  9. What you do is simple - walk away and don't look back.
  10. If you stay you will end up being arrested. Good chance you will be charged and convicted.
  11. Yes, it absolutely is. You see yourself defined by her actions and that is lack of self-esteem.
  12. Yes, - you should never be with someone you are scared of. You should not have gone back but now this has happened don't go back again no matter what. I suggest you get some counseling to do something about your self-esteem - it that was in a healthy state you would not be in this position right now.
  13. Actually that isn't true, but you are right to say the advice should always be the same - get out.
  14. She would be doing you a favour if she did dump you. You need to gather your courage and make your own life.
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