Pakman

I know this is a real late reply, but Hillarie, if I was in that guy's position I would have figured you had no interest in me. First of all, you were the one that ended the dinner and was the first to suggest leaving. Granted, it was 2 hours but he may have thought you were loosing interest and wanted to get rid of this "looser" Just because the guy wasn't willing to risk getting fired from his job does not mean he doesn't like you either... And this was after a few months of not talking to him you said? If you were to call me up first and ask me out on a date, then never call/talk to me for a few months I would automatically presume you had a bad experience and had no interest in me. Also you never went out of your way to meet with him either. It's only been when you were around his area. I would also take that as disinterest, at least for a relationship. You also blew off the conversations that involved him... Big big assumption here, but maybe they were probes he set to see if you like him or not? *shrug* Also I don't know how exactly your friend acts/feelts, but I tend to ignore people I had interests in that blew me off. So go to him and tell him about your feelings, and why you acted the way you did. If he has even the faintest interest in you still he'll forget about the past and try to start a new beginning with you. Now let me ask you this Hillarie.. Do a lot of women act like you do when you like a guy? I sure hope so. Since my prom date acts exactly the same way you do. So technically I speak from experience. =p

First, do you hang out with other guys during the day? Or have any good guy friends? Might be why he ignores you sometimes. *Shrug* Not a good thing to do, but I do it if I see the girl I like/dating with another guy, friend or not. Or maybe he just knows how to play the game. You do seem to be thinking about him an awful lot... But probably the best thing to do is actually sit down with the guy and talk to him about your relationship. Usually guys don't sit down and cuddle with girls they don't like, or are not comfortable around.. unless they're players of course. But your guy doesn't seem like the type.

Wait for a full week before actually calling her. Gives her time to think about you, and builds up her emotions. Don't constantly call the girl everyday. Even though you think it's the nice thing to do, girls, for some reason, don't seem to like it. Keep in mind this is my opinion. So do whatever that floats your boat.

Thanks for the input, but the thing is that I don't want to invite her to do something with friends. The group of friends I hang out with are pretty close and if we basically do everything together. One of my friends is basically a basterd and hits on every girl he thinks is attractive. If I bring her along he'll basically probably end up getting in my way, which only ends up agitating the crap out of me and I start getting moody. I doubt I can talk to him and tell him to back off. He's that much of an arrogant basterd he'd just most likely end up laughing at me and tell me I have no chance with her or something. Great friend eh? Everyone in the group hates him a little in one way or another. Yet, not enough to stop being friends with him. He did have an interest in her as well so I guess I'm scared he'd snatch her away from me.

Yes, I know there's plenty of threads like this. But this is the first time I've ever posted a girl problem on a forum and don't want to see it go ignored. =p There's this girl that I've recently started to talk to a lot. She's in 2 of my classes, and frankly I'm extremely interested in her. The thing is, I can't really use the advice you guys gave in other "Does she like me posts". She's... different. Most of her current friends don't go to the school, most seem to be people who work with her. I remember in Middle school she did hang out with "the" popular girls, but now seems disinterested in that stuff. So there's no girls that can really start talking to me more often to show possible interest. She's one of those girls who's nice to everyone she knows. She does always smile when I talk to her, but she seems to be a.. smiley type of person towards people she knows. When I look up I *think* she's looking at me at times.. (I've never confirmed by smiling or something since when it comes to her I'm a complete wuss) But hell, she may just be looking behind me. She's told me what she plans on during the summer, such as bungie jumping, and sky diving on her bday, and she hinted that I was invited if I wanted to come. I told her I was tempted to go sky diving with her on her bday, but the reality is I'm gone that whole week. I read somewhere that chicks will start grooming a lot when their near a guy they like. Well she does that, but hell that's to broad of an assumption imo. Like I said I have 2 classes with her, I sit right next to her in the 1st class. Yet in the 2nd class unless I plop myself down next to her, she rarely will come sit down by me. Then again the 2nd class I have with her seems to be a bit childish. All the guys except 1 (who's a bit odd), or me at times, tend to sit on one side, and the girls on the other. Like I said, childish. Mind you we're seniors in HS. But it did help make obvious to the whole damn class I have some sort of interest in her. When I see her out of class I see her looking at me, but I always have to say the first, "Hey" all the time. I'm extremely nice to her, but I've come to realize most girls only want to be friends with my extremely nice type. And I'm no stud, but I'm certainly not ugly, or overweight. (no offense intended) So frankly she's confusing the crap out of me. I'm pretty sure she knows I like her in some way but I have no idea if she's interested in me or not. Any input would be appreciated and sorry for the lengthy post.