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Tuff one I wouldnt know I find friction from clothing irritating so I dont even know how she does it I guess be gentle and she should wear thin clothing so it gives u the best feel. Good luck and just have fun with it

A 3 some can be a great thing between 3 consenting adults CONSENTING and your not he should be more whilling to listen to how you feel about this he wants to end a relationship of 3 years over this than his priorities are all messed up and needs to snap back into reality. Maybe try putting it another way to him like ok what if I wanted a 3 some with 2 men and let it go from there (not that there is anything wrong with that). Hopefully this will past and he will come back to his scences a 3some can even be toxic to a monogamous and long term relationship. So good luck and keep us posted

Are you married or getting married I am trying to really get were you are coming from? What is it that you feel you must do?

I like this is a good one Kita.

I am with rain on this one. and also its not the quantity but the quality of the time that you spend on the phone.

They say honesty will set you free! What a load of crap. I have been the cheater before never married though so it should be allot harder when I came clean it was horrible I was so scared but at the same time relieved like I didn't have this constant what if he finds out we lived together so he just got mad and left and came back a couple of day's later. Everything changed there was the silent treatment then the sarcasm then there was the awkwardness of the questions who was it, why, was he better then me, do you love him, do you still think of him etc. or we would laugh and small talk end up having an intimate moment and then bam its over because all he can think about its you and him your sex life is none existent then comes reality check time do we stay together and try to work it out and you realize that what you have done to this person is never really going to go away that no matter what this person is not going to forget even though they open their arms and forgive you. You have to accept that you did this and you have to be strong their will be good day's and their will be bad days. You have to gain trust little by little you gain that back and realize that it isn't just going to be given to you, you really have to work for it. In the end it didn't work out for me I wasn't strong enough and I gave up I realize that what happened was my fault and it doesn't just end there what I did is gonna affect this person during their future relationships believe me I have been called and told how I constantly affect their life. So my advise to you is this, this man deserves the truth right now the both of you are living a lie and you either tell him or you run the chance of him finding through someone else and when you do tell him realize what it really means and be ready to deal with the consequences of your actions after all you did this and no excuse or reason is going to change that fact. I hope you guys can be strong enough and that your relationship can survive this god bless good luck.

If he is with someone and is happy I wouldn't come between that its just not right but of course its up to you but its funny cause what goes around comes around believe me I have been on both sides I have cheated and been cheated on and have been the other woman it always ends up ugly. But what if he is not happy would you want to be the rebound girl? It just seems like an all around sticky situation and I wouldn't want no part of it but life is funny what's meant to be will be and if you guy's have had this magical connection during all these years maybe somehow you guy's will meet up again when he is available.

I am sorry to hear you are not feeling so great but it sounds like you plan to make some positive changes in your life. Try to take it easy and recover from whatever it is that is making you sick And I am sure that other things like a girl will come along in good time.

Donster I am so feeling what you are saying and I am sorry to hear about your heartbreak hugs.

Stand your ground and be honest if your not ready and if that is not the type of relationship that is gonna work for you (friends with benefits) let it be known and dont hold of on let him know asap. There is nothing wrong with being shy or not ready I am sure there are plenty of good guys around that would appreciate a girl like that.

Isnt venting the best thing ever I think I was made to vent. I am glad you feel better now.

That was just honest and beautiful I hope you help a lot of people and give them strength to come out because the thought is so sad that so many people feel forced to stay trapped living the acceptable straight life for years in the closet in pain and living in shame.

I couldn't really tell you whether he still wants you or not my opinion is that for your best interest that you nc him asap for the sake of you and your feelings I just wouldn't want to see hope take you all the way back to the beginning of pain because that can happen you know you start hoping then little by little you start to forget the good reasons why you shouldn't be with this person then all those good memories cover up the bad ones then your not even really sure that he wants to be with you I wouldn't put myself through this I would move on and heal.

Its a plus that you are gonna have some training and that should give you the basics. Its ok to have the butterfly effect its kindda like the first day of school type of thing your new you dont know your way around but dont worry I am sure you will get hang of things in no time and fit it in like a glove. And dont be scared to ask as many questions as you feel you need to and make sure that at the same time you come accross as confident and willing to learn. Good luck and keep us posted.

I am 100% puerto rican I know I dont look like it but anyway my daughter is biracial she is puerto rican and black and for a long time I thought about what this meant and for me at the beginning it was scary cause I thought of of her having to deal with racism but now I have a different view my daughters has two history's to learn to very different cultures and she is now becoming the majority biracial children and interracial couples is becoming the norm, and to me that its a beautiful thing because it forces us to see that we are all in many ways the same and in the ways that we are different we can share together and make this a better place to live.