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  1. Limichelle, Thanks so much for your reply, it's very useful and I appreciate it. I would just want to ask - how do you find closure?
  2. I broke up with my ex around a year and a half ago. It was devastating, and took a long time to get over. I started dating my current partner a year ago, so basically 6 months ish after. It's been going good. Except I've more or less kept in touch with my ex the whole time we've been broken up, with the exception of a month or two no contact. We always talk, platonically because even though we broke up, we've been friends for years, even before we were together. Anyway, they are in a LDR since we broke up, but recently we've completely cut ties. We haven't talked for around 2 months now, a
  3. Yeah, he's aware that I consider myself bisexual. I've always had this attraction to girls, the same way I've been attracted to guys, however it's difficult to find girls in my area so I've just naturally fell into relationships with guys. Usually it doesn't affect my relationships of course but lately it's very hard to suppress the curiosity.. And I'm afraid in case it is being just that. Curiosity. My boyfriend wouldn't be interested in a FMF threesome, I have casually suggested it before, however he is quite shy and isn't comfortable with the idea.
  4. I a bisexual woman in a relationship of 7 months with a straight male. We have a very loving relationship, although I can't help but think about other women everytime we have sex to reach climax. It's gotten so bad that I don't even know if I'm sexually attracted to him, and completely zone out and think about other women which will make me orgasm instantly. Even romantically, I can't help but feel like I want to be with a woman sometimes, as I feel that maybe in some ways women are easier to connect with. It's worth noting that I have never been in a relationship with a woman so don't
  5. Thank you sputnik, I'm starting to accept it for what it is. It's been a full week since we've broken up now, and I'm starting to see that my ex has accepted this a long time ago, I have to accept it now. My friend contacted them yesterday and asked about the situation, to which my ex replied "it was really tough decision to make and I'm upset about it, but I think i needed to make that decision to find out who I am." Whatever that means, it can't be good in regards to getting back together. So I should accept that. As for being friends, I'm struggling to know if it's a good idea or not.
  6. Hi catfeeder, The problems were that the family are quite controlling and manipulative. My ex was 22 and living at home, and so they sort of used that against them by saying things like "you're going out too much, you never help around the house when (I'm) around " and eventually they kicked my ex out for a month. In that month my ex stayed with me at my place, and it was a whirlwind of emotions. I tried my best to make them comfortable and happy but the confusion of when they will be able to return to their house and the uncertainty of their family dynamic was evident with my ex. I think
  7. Sputnik123, That sounds like a devastating situation to be in. I'm sorry you had to experience that, I really am. It's so cruel to think that people are capable of treating their partners like that. I'm trying to come to terms with it by taking your advice, thinking about what you said with "if something doesn't feel right then it isnt" is probably the best piece of advice I've been given. It doesn't feel right, therefore it isnt. I should accept that it isn't and just leave it at that, and move on. Who knows, maybe I'll get the confirmation that I need somewhere down the line if I hap
  8. Sputnik123, Can I ask how the split happened if that's ok? Did you initiate it because you felt there was red flags? Or did they bring it up themselves? I can't stop thinking back to that night and wondering if it would have went any different. It's my first real heartache because its the first time I've ever felt like this was the one, and that's what's killing me the most. It's such a good idea to keep a journal, thanks for the suggestion. I'll start writing that whenever I'm tempted to break NC. Thank you for every reply you've sent.
  9. Hi MasterPro, Thank you so much for your reply. You're right, love is blind and I guess that's why I'm stuck heartbroken, because I thought they meant it when they said they loved me. I suppose I am still hopefully and probably in denial like you were, because it's only been 5 days. I feel like it's still fresh and I'm tempted to break NC because I feel if I don't break it soon, they will have time to heal and move on. However I'm torn between doing that and staying with NC because I don't want to irritate them. I hope I'll get though this and I can tell that ENA is already a great support
  10. I'm glad I've found a place like this, friends and family seem to just say "I don't know what to tell you". Sometimes it's good to hear some harsh truths. Suppose their is someone else, would it be a bad idea to confront them about it? Breaking the NC rule to find it out? I know you said they're under no obligation to tell me, but they did send me a text the day that it happened saying "I hope you're okay, I want you to know don't be afraid to text, I still want us to get through this together" however when I replied there has been no text since. My emotions are just in a state of des
  11. Thank you for your reply, I really appreciate it. Even knowing someone is out there reading what I have to say helps. No signs of anyone else being in the picture, and when we broke up I asked that just to be sure. Seeing my ex in such a sad state and having them see me in such a sad state would make me hope that they would be decent enough to tell me there and then if there was someone else. And that's the thing, I feel like if there was someone else, perhaps the break up would have some justification, Id have some closure, and be hurt but able to deal with it. Instead I'm just hurt and con
  12. Hi all, I'm just looking for some input from people who do not know me or my ex. I have been with my ex for 3 years, and my ex dumped me 5 days ago. Let me start with the relationship for 3 years was happy and healthy, with no real arguments. However, at the start of this year, my ex started to have family problems that resulted in a nasty fight with their family. They have since rekindled their relationship as a family. My ex had been acting distant and when I confronted them, they said they were being distant on purpose because they need space. They said they have felt like this sinc
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