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Hey Sarah! first i've gotta get something off my chest!!! Your not alone. i think every "normal" (what's that mean anyway) person has thought about suicide at least once in there life, shoot i even tried to go through with it thankfully my friend spilled the beans and my attempt was bauched... anyway, it's normal. You might wanna considering changing your lifestyle if your unhappy. Take a good look at your life (self inventory) and find out what makes you uphappy and what makes you happy. I'm a recovering druggie (crystal meth/GHB were my favs) and I was at my worst while I was using... so if your using drugs QUIT!! and if you don't think you can.... YOU CAN! There are plenty of programs just about everywhere that can help. Last but not least... Exercies!! Believe it or not when you start to exercise you WILL feel better... You body starts to release natural chemicals that make you feel good! I LOVE YOU!! and so do other people! TRUST!

it was another name for a cat. But the board blocked it.

Hey Sister Lynch, I was just wondering what sparked you to post about this??? I'm ADD and a men, hehe and I can totally relate to what you said. I'm very sensitive and loving at the times I don't feel like I'm being threatened or attacked. But becuase I feel like i'm consistanly not living up to my potential, I feel like i'm being attacked quiet a bit. I have a hard time concentrating, and an even harder time identifting with feelings and emotions. In the past I've turned towards drugs for the "numbing" feeling and also the self confidence. Let's hope they soon find a cure!! Not just for aids, but for ADD also.

Good luck to you...

sister lynch... you rock! I really enjoyed that poem. More More More...

Well, nicknames are fun... especially for a couple. I always liked calling my girlfriend, babe, or babie, sweetheart, most of those are pretty coming. Or, you could try *** (like a cat) (not a good choice to use around her parents), or pus pus, or maybe *** pus. If she's not a fan of any of these you need to be the creative boyfriend that you are and give her one. If she doesn't like any of the names you have for her, maybe that's a good indication of what kinda of match you make. There are plenty of girlfriends who would love to be called *** by there boyfriends!

WoW.. pretty long post. Must be powered by lots of emotion! Well, I too have some of your same quailites. I've never been a commiter, and I've walked away from a perfect relationship because I was getting too scared. My advice to you is get into see a counselor. Find out why you can't commit. Maybe you'll find that you didn't have enough love from your mother, or maybe you weren't breast fed when you were younger. Whatever the reason (there are so many possibilities) you need to work them out. I would totally suggest doing this before starting another relationship with someone because it's not fair to your or them. As far as your ex or wife if your separated, yes it's very possible for her to have totally different feelings toward you. I'm sure she's had to deal with abandonment, and she probably has some trust issues with you (rightfully so). All you can do is be open and honest with her. Tell her how you feel about her, and if your seriuos about this you'll seek professional help. One step at a time, start with a foundation and go on from there. Lot's of luck to you.

It's normal... but if you have any lumps or hard masses that hurt I would get it looked at.

Well, first I'm a little curiuos about your age... Because I think that plays a little in what advise I would give you. Let's say your a Sophmore, in that case I would say your at the beginning of your "dating career". Your in a phase in your life where you're starting to find someone who is a suitable match for you. Be honest when you talk to him. Tell him that you feel like you are drifting apart and that you think you should move on. I wouldn't mention there being anyone else your interested because that's not really relevant. If everything was fine, then you met this new guy that would be a different story. Tell him that you want to perseve a friendship (if that's the case) and you don't want to risk hating each other. Best of luck to you and your situation.