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  1. She only does stuff like that to me. No one else. In the message, I wrote "Hope you enjoy your break! Don't do anything I wouldn't do ;) " She just replied THanks!
  2. A mixture of teasing, playful stuff actually. (In the message, I wrote "Hope you enjoy your break! Don't do anything I wouldn't do ;) " She just replied THanks! One time she goes, "I've got a bone to pick with you" with a little smile and I said she had 207 to choose from. The thing she pointed out wasn't even important. Another time, she was about to leave for work and she came up to me and said "Do i have permission to leave?" I said, "no. sit back down until I say you can go." One time I was sposed to be on holidays, but I went into the office to get something and she said "Go away!". We're working at home now due to COVID-19. She emailed me asking for my number so she could liase with me. Thing she told me could have 100% been easily explained in the email. Stuff like that. If she knows I'm interested, surely she'd only do things like that if she was (a) interested or (b) Just playing games. I'm guessing B
  3. My crush, who's also my coworker, teases me a bit, but as soon as I do it once, she freezes and stops for a couple of days. Then the process repeats. There is definitely moments of chemistry between us. Key word: moments. Been going on for a few weeks. I messaged her for the first time (on Facebook) and she replied with one word. I've had enough, so I unfriended her. I'm gonna ignore her unless she makes a big move on me. Did I do the right thing?
  4. I'm 24m, she's 24f. I'm guessing she knows I like her. Anyway, we're both journalists and colleagues. I tried sparking an attraction with my crush yesterday and a little today by using playfully arrogant humour. Previously, I was nice and tried her laugh with normal humour, but I don't think it worked. Eg. yesterday, she went to the scene of a crash overnight and before she went I said "So that's what you were up to last night." She stumbled for words before saying "yeah. probably was me." Another example yesterday, she was looking through crime stats in the past few months. I said "My name might be there. Keep it a secret if it is ok?" She gave me a thumbs up. One more example, at the end of yesterday, she said "I'm gonna leave now. She joked "Do I have permission?" I said "Let me get my list. Hmm. 1. Get her to give me half her payslip. 2. Get her to get me a pay rise. Oh. Sorry. Wrong list." She laughed a little. So she didn't really laugh at my jokes for most of the day, but she did interact with me more than usual and enjoyed it. At one stage, her mum brought her dog into the office and my crush came over to my desk, stood centimeters away from me and called the dog to come over to me. We had a good 2-3 minute chat before she left and she laughed at almost everything I said and had a really good time. *** In the work meeting this morning, she said to everyone "A man said to me he was going to have breakfast, but would happily eat me out instead." I stayed silent cause I didn't know what to say. One of the other girls helped her out. I tried to make her laugh to make her feel better. I went to the high school she used to go to and when I came back I said "So I spoke to your former teacher. He said you were a trouble maker, skipped school heaps and blew up the science block cause you didn't like the teacher." She didn't laugh. Just nodded a couple of times and just kept looking at her computer. We didn't talk for the rest of the day until she left. She still talked to other people in the office. Here's the thing. Just before she left, I called out to her and softly said (so that no one else could hear) "Are you alright after what happened this morning?" She didn't look at me, but she had the biggest ever smile I had ever seen. She said "Thanks for asking, That's actually very nice. Thanks for asking." *** So is she not interested? And even if I don't check up on her in future because I'll leave it to others, will she know I still care? If she isn't interested, I won't interact with her as much, but I want her to know it doesn't mean I don't care.
  5. I'm 24 and have zero social life. I'm a journalist at a newspaper. I do have friends but I hardly visit them. I am shy and don't talk much and when I do talk, I'm really soft and people need me to repeat what I say at least a couple of times. I do feel lonely, but I love sport. I literally spend all my weekends and spare time at home either watching sport/TV or playing on my laptop. That helps me deal with my loneliness. I don't have good hygiene (which no one notices) because I don't have the energy to look after myself well. The only girls I see are in the office. There's a new girl in the office for a couple of weeks now, which I like. I think she gave me small opportunities to work with, but I'm not a good conversation and remained silent. Maybe she flirted very slightly with me on Wednesday and Thursday, but she gave me nothing on Friday. Do you think I'll be alone forever?
  6. It'll be awkward next time I see her. What do I do. She'll be thnking about the video, I'll be thinking about the video. I don't get why she didn't just respond in any way. Even just a thumbs up!
  7. There's this new girl at work for 2 weeks so far. We're both 24. I'm really quiet and haven't talked much to her so far. On the first day, I added her on Facebook and she accepted immediately. On the second day, I invited her to like a facebook page of mine and she accepted me immediately again. I know she loves cats, so on another day, I tagged her in a cat video. She replied to it immediately and a few seconds later, came to me to ask me a question. She also said "Thanks for the cat video! I loved it." but she said it in a way the whole office would hear it. In the morning we have a meeting where we connect to people through the TV. Yesterday it was just us two in the meeting. It started at 9.15am but she waited until people started talking before entering the room. At the end of the meeting, I said 'well looks like it's just the two of us.' She didn't respond. Maybe because she didn't hear me as I'm softly spoken. I then changed the subject to cats. I told her there's always a couple of kittens outside the back of the office, but they run away from me cause I'm a cat repellent. Also told her I have a cat which belongs in a museum cause i can look at it but can't touch. I thought I was funny, but she just smiled. She talked about her 2 cats for a bit. During the whole conversation though, she started packing her things up to leave the room while she talked and listened. Later on in the day, she asked me a question. I emailed her and she replied "awesome" with a cat emoji. We then didn't talk until the final hour of work where we were the only 2 people left in the whole office. She told me she was looking for places to rent. I asked her if she found anything good yet, and she said nothing that suited her. I told her about the time I lived with the boss when I was looking for a place. Told her the colleague she replaced lives opposite the boss. and told her about the time the wind blew the boss's bin over and the other colleague picked it up, but I took a photo of it, sent it to the boss making the boss think it was the colleague's fault. She said that's funny, but didn't laugh. I also told her about this place I looked at and how the previous renters smoked meth in the garage and accidentally blew it up. She said "Oh. I know all about that! I watch heaps of Breaking Bad!" I said, "Well I watch a lot of Masterchef, but I'm still a bad cook. While later, she said she was brain dead, said goodbye and left. That evening when I left work, I saw the kittens I mentioned earlier. I took a video of me calling them over and them running away. Sent it to her on facebook messenger. She's seen it, but didn't reply. So where does that leave me? Do you think she knows I'm into her or has a feeling I am? I won't see her till Wednesday now. Is it going to be awkward? Cheers guys. Sorry for the long read.
  8. They know me. I just never had the courage to tell them I liked them. They know.
  9. At that point in time, I unfriended those people not wanting to interact with anyone ever again.
  10. A few weeks ago, I drove out to an isolated town I'd never been to 5 hours away and lived in my car in a carpark for a week. Didn't have my phone, laptop or any devices.
  11. I thought punishing myself by losing all my friends would make me feel better.
  12. I felt lonely and felt like being more lonely so I unfriended everyone. Hard to explain haha.
  13. Been depressed for quite a while. No one knows. Anyway, got to a point where I deleted a whole heap of Facebook friends. Went down from over a 1000 to 39 friends. Some of them sent me friend requests after I deleted them and I declined them all. Didn't want to talk to anyone. Been over 6 months now. Would it be ok if I add them back? Also, I've had a couple of crushes that I haven't really gotten over. One from 4 years ago, and from 2 years ago. They know I liked them at the time. Can I add them too, or should I not? Thanks.
  14. I created a new dedication survey for my next radio show. I got one from her again, but it obviously wasn't her even though it said her name. The person dedicated the song "Right Thurr by Chingy to me. Reasoning - "For dedicating a song last week to a girl in his dorm lol". What do you think of that?
  15. Also, one thing I found out. The other night, when she was with a couple of my mates and her mates they were talking about the dorm. Apparently she said, "Nick's always in his room every time I come back from work to the dorm." What do you make of that?
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