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  1. I'm not sure if he is communicating with them. Before he accepted my request on there his follow count went down significantly lol..he deleted people before accepting me - within a 15 minute time gap. This really made me feel so upset and he can't seem to see why this is an issue for me, he just says he feels 'confined'. The truth is this has put me in tears this morning and it really upsets me. I don't want to tell him what to do but I do want that level of respect from him. He does not care at all how it makes me feel.
  2. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We ve recently just both got instagram back and started following eachother again. We both deleted our accounts over a year ago because he was being seedy on their with skanky photos, but he said he d deleted it and instead just blocked me, which I found out 3 days later, I was so upset that he lied. He s now angry at me for asking him calmly and nicely to please unfollow certain girls on there (I ve never heard of them) because he s liking every single photo with boobs and ass in it and it makes me feel uncomfortable...especially after the t
  3. Thanks very much. After me bringing up his lack of willingness to go to a counsellor for the 5th time of me mentioning it, he now wants to go. But I have no doubt in my mind that he hasn't organised anything nor will. He said he wanted to get into somewhere this weekend...but I guess I will see if he has booked anything..
  4. Thank you to everyone that has responded. I am literally breaking down at the moment writing this. I do love him and I already miss him, even though I've seen him every evening after work because of the living situation. The only thing keeping me sticking to my decision of not being back with him is knowing how it has gone in the past, and I don't want to be in a stagnant relationship where I feel like I am not worth him putting in the effort to keep the love alive and to grow with him.
  5. Thank you for your advice, I appreciate it. I despise drama, I would love nothing more than for things to have worked out with this person, but unfortunately we are very different in some areas of fundamental relationship matters. I post on here to not only get advice and point of view from others, but to also gain some validation in my decisions and thoughts regarding the relationship. I am not attracted to drama at all, I have been through too much of it with him. I love him, that is the only issue for the moment.
  6. Because he is a broken man because I've left and has said he is finally realising he needs to change and wants it more than anything.
  7. I've posted on here a few times regarding my relationship. I finally built up the courage to break up with him. It's now been 5 weeks, yet due to our location and work, we are still living in the same house (until January when I move out upon my return from visit home for xmas in another state) - I have moved into the spare room downstairs and pretty much do my own thing. I told him well at the beginning of the break, for me to consider giving him another chance (I've given dozens before...) that I'd like him to see a counsellor/come to a counsellor with me so that we can work on how to bette
  8. I do agree. It was just the only thing I could do. I have nowhere else I can go at the moment and moving home would have meant a break up 100% over and me out of the picture. I just felt like I wasn't getting anywhere being together and sleeping in the same bed and all that, whilst trying to think about how to move forward. It was also a step further than where I've gone before, in that he does something pretty bad, we fight, he begs, I forgive and the cycle goes on. I had to break the cycle somehow and he has said that this time he knows he has stuffed up - but I have heard that before. It wa
  9. So I've posted on here before about issues with my boyfriend of 2 years and the problems we've been having. I decided it would be a good thing to sit him down for a calm, open discussion without getting angry or upset about how i've been feeling pretty unappreciated and sort of pushed aside in the relationship. This is on top of him being verbally abusive when drunk (which I've done my best to nip in the bud), severe lack of intimacy and romance, broken promises and so on. Anyway, we had the talk and it felt very relieving to let it out that I wasn't happy with how things were and I'd really
  10. So I've posted on here multiple times...regarding my 2 year relationship with my boyfriend. I think I'm ready to walk away, I feel the most confident about it than ever at the moment and I think it's what needs to be done. It's kind of at the point where the joke is on me if I stay, it's a bit of a slap in the face to be honest. Problem is, I know I'm going to come crashing down, and miss him and go through a world of hurt. I would really love some advice/stories/anything of what I can expect and whats normal and how other people have got through it. Success stories are very very welcome. T
  11. Thank you. Yeh I've had a good read through the advice given. I think I just needed a vent when I was writing that. I guess it's because no matter what other people say, or what the right thing for myself to do is, when you love someone it's such a hard time going through these feelings and not really having anyone to talk to. Even if I did, which I do to my Mum quite alot but she's unwell so I try to keep it to a minimum, it's all up to me regardless of what anyone else can advise. I'm really confused. I have moments where I feel like I don't love him anymore and could walk away, but I am p
  12. I've been with my partner for over 2 years. I've posted about my situation a couple times on here. I'm just feeling very alone, and heartbroken. Everything has just fallen to cr*p. He broke a promise to me about drinking (he's the worst drunk person) after 2 weeks of making the promise when he verbal abused me pretty bad infront of our friends, and he knows he's done wrong, it was just a half assed promise, as always. He's really sorry now, and says it won't happen again. He knows how hurt I am, and that I've been distant because I am hurting and spending all of my time thinking. I don't know
  13. I don't know. I love him, but i can't be with someone who breaks promises over and over. I want children one day, and disappointment like that with a child in the mix is not something i can bear the thought of.
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