I have many friends in the LGBTQ community, and many friends who have transitioned, who are in the process of transitioning, or who do not want to transition but who choose to dress and act as a woman or man. My husband does not do anything they do, hence why I also feel that he is masking his trauma. He does not dress in women's clothes, he does not have long hair, he has a full beard, he engages in masculine activities, and he does not have a new name picked out if he were to transition. He does not even try on any of my makeup or skincare products. He won't even use my body wash or shampoo