maid marian

It sounds as though your wife and friend were not unfaithful, but whether or not they were the decision to fogive is yours. You will undoubtedly need time to get through this. Time is really the only healer. It also tells you whether or not you will make it. If you truly love eachother, both of you, you can get through anything. Love is an amazing thing. Children are even more amazing at times. It sounds as though the love you both have for your little girl is common ground enough for you to survive. If you haven't already, talk to your wife about the reasons for her indiscretions. From there, find out what you both can do to make the future brighter in your marriage. Your plea for advice shows that you care enough to do everything in your power to fix your relationship and if she feels the same then you have already succeeded. Be open, honest, communicative and sensitive to one another and you will pass this point in your lives with ease and a sense of achievement. That will ultimately bring you closer together and strengthen you as a couple as long as no one dwells on past negativity. Best wishes.

I can feel your frustrations and am very sympathetic to your plight. I myself, am a 25 year old mother of two. I have felt the pangs of not knowing what to do in a pregnancy scare. Finances are a very huge factor, but not the only one relavent. While I am not a Pro Life activist, I do ultimately believe that your unborn baby should also have a say so in whether or not they survive. I know it is very difficult, but I know you can do it. It sounds like you already do so much and your dedication and ambitious drive can get you through anything. I've always heard that when life is all said and done, it is the things you didn't do that you regret. Not the things you did. Bringing another child into your home could be the biggest joy you ever experience. You'll never know if you don't go through with it. I tell you this because I know the haunting pain that ending a pregnancy causes. I would much rather feel the love that another child ultimately brings than to feel the horrible guilt and regret that comes from taking the life of a child who never had a voice. I respect your decision, I am only offering my opinion and seemingly sound advice to hopefully help you through your difficult feelings at this time. With all my sincerety and best wishes.