patricksreih

please for all who read my post if u have anything to say even just a thought don't hesitate to write it . i wanna ask u ur opinion about a relationship between a guy and a 4 to 6 year older girl who are in love with each other. do u think a successfull mariage between them can hapen ? especially that it is known worldwide that girls grow older than a guy . If they get married at a young age it wouldn't be a problem but later when the guy let's say is 45 , he still considered young , but a girl at 49 will look much more older than him . so him seing younger beautiful woman might screw up his mariage and make him regret he married an older girl while he could have maried a girl who still looks young while he is 45 (per exemple) so please tell me what u think and once again don't hesitate to post ur opinion about what i said coz i'm sure it will be very helpfull for me.

Thanks for ur views guys , it's nice to see that other relationships in the same situation have worked out . if anybody else wants to share his point of view on this matter please do

Hi , my name is Patrick . This is the first time i post in this website and i'm doing it to ask the readers advice on my problem and here it is : i'm 20 years old , i consider myself very mature and i've been waiting to experience love a long time ago . i've had many relationships but in none of them i felt that i'm in love with the girl i'm dating until about 9 months ago . i've fallen in love with a 25 year old girl and she fell in love with me too and it has been the best 8 months of my life . i'm sure it's true love coz my feelings ar getting stronger day by day and i spend much time with her so i know her rights and wrongs and still i love her . I always think she is the one i should be spending the rest of my life with coz we have so much chemistry together . but the problem is the age difference , my friends share a different point of view , some of them say it doesn't matter , but the others say that if we get married ... later on , the age difference will be obvious as the woman grows up before the man so i would like young and she would look old which would coz problems such as cheating from my part ... another problem is that in one year i'm travelling to canada to continue my masters in computer sciences so it would take me a while so i can have enough money to get married to her if i want to . so i ask the reader whoever u are , especially if u had or are having a relationship similar to mine , what do u think i should do , i love her so much and she does too but there are so many problems . please if u think ur opinion might help me don't hesitate to write it . if there are any of the viewers who are having a relationship with an older woman or a woman having a relationship with a younger man or even married i would be happy to hear ur opinion too . thanks in advance .