Denalhi

If you thought honestly that you would get back together someday, then you actions in spain would have been a bit more repectful to your future w/ him. Secondly, he is treating you now as you did him. It can only get worse. Move on.

Yes, without your husband it is. You cannot be intimate with someone and call it not cheating. Sounds like your husband has a fantasy of you with another woman; Problem is his fantasy is about the sex and you might be wanting love from another woman. Talk with him. Involve him. If you love him, dont leave him out.

What about a good morning BJ. He'll have had plenty of sleep! What a great way to start the day. You said earlier that it had been a while since he has done something for you; are you referring to him going Dn on you? And when you do have sex is it just missionary or do you toss each other all around the bed?

What are his feelings? Would he and you get back together right now if you said so? And are you sure that you would ruin it? Are you certian your feeling like you would isnt low self-worth? And that getting back together, being your love and confidante, is just what he wants. And what does your therapist say about it?

From your question, I doubt you have anything to worry about. Sounds like you are about 12 or 13... and the lapdance you are referring to was probably a FULLY CLOTHED almost lapdance attempt. Dont worry it was probably a prank on your boyfriend by his friends. lol

It sounds like you know what you need to do. I know, as a guy, when ever I hear someone say "I need some time" you can bet that its usally more time to "get over you" than to sort out feelings/problems, ect. I can also understand his not feeling ready to be friends. No guy wants to be friends with someone he loves and just broke up with. yeah guys hurt. If you dont deal with your issues and resolve them to some degree, you will be breaking up again. Also if you have only been dating a short while, then try to decide what issues actually affect the relationship. Good luck. I wish you the best.

She and I have been together for 6 mo. I recently had an argument with her mom and her 2 sisters, about how it seemed that thay were pushing her onto another guy and away from me. The argument level escalated quickly to yelling, and needless to say I was the bad guy. I'm 33 and she is 21. She desperatly wants approval from her (mother) family but is affraid to stand up to them. She tells her mom were just friends now, and says to me that she doesnt want to be without me; and loves me with all her heart, as do I love her. I have appologized to her and her mother, yet her mom is still giving her grief. I feel nothing can be resolved without talking to her mom and explaining that although I'm sorry about the argument, we love each other, and unless she (my girlfriend) asks me to leave her alone, I'm not giong away. Anyone been in this position before? How would you aproach her mother, even though she (my girlfriend) doesent want me to. I do not want to sneak around.