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  1. Thank you very much! I appreciate your thoughts. I'm leaning that way, too.
  2. Hi Everyone, I was just contacted for the second time by this guy I broke up with back in August. I ignored the first email but then he waited a few weeks and just sent another. My question is...should I politely respond letting him know I'm not interested? Or, is it better to just ignore him? A little background... We dated for about seven months until I realized that our values were just really different. In my opinion, he was a bit of a snob, had a tendency to laugh at people and had no social conscience whatsoever. His treatment of his sister bothered me. And, he also had a mean vindictive streak (a guy took his parking space and he went back at night and let all of the air out of the person's tires - yikes!). I don't want to say there is anything wrong with him, he just didn't align well with me. When we broke up, I told him that I was sorry, wished him well, thought very highly of him, etc. He was angry and said: "That does nothing for me. I don't care." He sent me one email a few weeks ago, which ignored. It just said: "hi." Then, yesterday, I received another that said: "I told myself I wasn't going to put any more time into you. But, I wanted to know if you missed me." Should I reply? Normally, I would just say something nice, apologize, tell them I've moved on, and wish them the very best. But, this guy is a bit scary and I think is going to react badly no matter what I say. Then again, not saying anything may be problematic as well. Does anyone have a recommendation for me? I should note he's in his mid-40s, never married, no kids. Thanks in advance!
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