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  1. I’m going to try and keep this brief and would appreciate some advice. I wouldn’t say I’m depressed although I do have anxiety, I am an anxious person but I am taking medication to help this. However, lately I just have no energy. I feel drained, flat and I don’t feel excited about anything. I’m on my final nursing placement which is 37.5 hours a week and university work on top of this whilst trying to look after myself, make sure I eat healthy and I’m trying to get back into exercising. I feel like there isn’t enough time to do anything. I get home from placement and need
  2. That’s some really good advice, thank you. He did say to me that he started talking to her because otherwise he “knew him and I would be going around in circles”, it’s just hard because I thought he loved me but he went and had sex with someone else so soon after a 2 year relationship. Sex is special to me, he just said how “it happens, it’s just another body part” - he doesn’t think of it like I do, clearly. He does seem to be commiting to her on some level though which is what I don’t understand.
  3. Thank you Holly. I want to be able to love myself again, this has made me feel so insecure. I just feel like he’s picked her over me, it makes me wonder what she has that I don’t.
  4. I just feel like I’ll never understand. I can’t stop thinking about it either, I’m finding it so hard to move on knowing he could just drop me like that. I don’t understand how he can move on so fast too.
  5. I agree that guys rarely turn down sex, but he has frequently been sleeping with this new girl he’s seeing so why would he give in to me when he already knows he can get it handed to him on a plate by her already? Also, if he’s not going to commit to her then I don’t understand why he’s with her. He seems like he genuinely likes her and respects her, he is putting the effort in with her so it doesn’t make sense to me.
  6. If you’ve seen my previous post, you will know that my ex boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago. However, we officially cut contact Monday. For good. When we broke up, we were still meeting and sleeping together for a while. However, 3 days after we stopped, I was told he was seen out with another girl. Since then, a month later, he is still seeing this girl and has now slept with her which is so hard to hear. This whole situation makes me feel so insecure because he broke up with me because he said it was “too serious” and how he “doesn’t want to commit to one girl for the rest of h
  7. Hi. I’m going through a similar situation with my ex boyfriend. Like you, I don’t understand how someone can claim to love you so deeply, and make you feel like they really care about you, just to ‘abandon’ you almost and leave you feeling completely alone... you begin to question what about the relationship was real, and whether it was fake the whole time. I find it difficult to give you advice on this because I can relate to you so much. However, I do believe the right person is out there waiting for you. I know it’s so hard but you need to leave this girl in the past, don’t listen to
  8. Thank you, I appreciate your advice. Do you really think he wants to be with that girl? I get the vibe that they do like eachother, and he told me he enjoys spending time with her. I just don’t understand his outlook of not being able to commit to one girl for the rest of his life, if that’s the case with her and she is aware then it’s just building up to disappointment for them both.
  9. I really do feel “blinded by love”. Despite everything, I know I’d take him back and it hurts so much knowing he’s treating her how he used to treat me. I was the one who initiated the sex, at first he said he couldn’t because he’d “feel bad”, it ended up happening anyway, and afterwards he told me not to tell anyone, but obviously I told her after finding out he had been sleeping with us both.
  10. I’ll try to keep this as short as possible... my ex boyfriend and I were together for 2 years, I loved him so much and I would of done anything for him. I was so happy and content with him, and really wanted us to have a future. However, like other relationships, we had our ups and downs. My ex boyfriend ended up breaking up with me, it was hard. It’s been 2 months and we’ve still kept in contact, at first we were even still sleeping with eachother afterwards - I just wanted to feel close with him still. He said we needed to stop, 3 days later he is seen with another girl who he is still se
  11. I have friends, family and a job. I just get some kind of fulfilment from my boyfriend, he is who makes me happy
  12. I work as well but my point is I don't enjoy these other aspects of my life and I want to know how to confront my boyfriend tomorrow and how to react when I know this will be the end. I feel like a fool, I thought we were so close.
  13. i do have friends, hobbies no. Nothing really interests me enough to take it up as a hobby. I think the main reason I feel so alone now and like my boyfriend meant everything is because he is who I enjoyed seeing, I never really enjoy seeing my friends, it doesn't feel as genuine and enjoyable compared to my boyfriend's presence.
  14. Thank you Wolfshook, that means a lot. I can feel it coming and it's going to be painful, I just don't know how to react to it
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