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How to ENJOY being single
Can Anyone Love Like Me replied to -Hollywood-'s topic in Emotions and Feelings
i know it sucks 2 be depressed... i have been doin a month of NC and that helped me 2 go out more... i miss my ex like hell and we both cant do anything about it... her older sis told her 2 break up w/ me after a 2 1/2 yr relationship her family didnt know about... let get off mah case u should call ur friends and c how they are... go out with them... go clubbing... thats what made mah life kind of easier and I go 2 NYC whenever i get the time... Big city life has a lot 2 offer if u live near tha city... sometimes life brings bad turns and they hurt and tha pain doesnt go away... take it day by day and go out and enjoy life... goin out helps a lot... if u think about tha past it will hurt u more and it can take months weeks days 2 get over it... i got a theory 2 laugh or scream real loud 2 clear tha mind.... im still in tha stage where i'm fine and other days where i think about her out of tha blue... just go out and have fun and live life 2 tha fullest... Love itself is Pain with a bitter happiness... -
i know that... she never said i love u until a yr. into the relationship... i told her i loved her b4 that and she said i dont have those feeling yet... then 5-6 months later she felt tha same way as me
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its not we didnt love each other... we said i love you all the time... she always said that her parents wouldn't understand about dating... she said when the time was right she would tell them... but it sucked that her sister heard her say i love u one night and told her 2 break up w/ me and then she poured a big guilt trip on mah ex because her dad has high blood pressure and she said if anything happens 2 ur dad it would be ur fault... her family is a very old minded and think dating should be done at all at her age... they live w/ old traditional values and she is indian... indian parents r tha most strict w/ dating and tha guju caste is more anti dating kind of ppl... and im punjabi so i dont really have the problem...
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well I started 2 use NC for about a month now... we went out for 2 1/2 yrs... In 2 days it will be a month since me(21) and mah ex(20) had separated... the last week n 1/2 I started 2 go out w/ friends 2 take mah mind off of her but I still think about her... I can go most of the day w/o thinking about her but sometimes I just cant stop thinking about her... Sometimes I just wanna drive 2 her house and show her parents and sister i never meet that I'm good for ur daughter... but ppl told me that isnt a good idea... I know a lot of grls dont return expensive gifts back 2 there ex's but she returned tha diamond ring I got her b/c she couldnt let her family c it... but she always wore it when we went out... she knows I love her more than she can ever love me... I just want 2 break NC so bad and talk 2 her at her work... but I dont know if that would be a bad idea or not b/c it has only been a month of NC now... I dont understand how a person can go out w/ some1 for 2 1/2 yrs and not have tha capability to have tha courage to stand up 2 her family for me... she might be scared from her strict parents and older sister but when a person truly loved and knew the person they were w/ was right for them... y cant they take a stand... I think to mahself does she remember me now or atleast still have love for me even though we are not together... well i dont know what else 2 say right now... I'll keep u guys up... TC
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never saw Fiddler On The Roof
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she cares a lot for her family because from her personality i have always known that... she would not want any pain or sorrow 2 happen 2 them... also if her sister never found out we would still be going out on the down low... she always said i'll tell them at tha right moment and she knew they wouldnt understand her point at her age or 20... i used 2 joke w/ her by sayin i'm call ur sister and tell her bout us and spent tha day w/ ur mom... maybe i should've done it.. who knows
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her family is on the old fashion way of thinking dating shouldn't be done when in college... I'm 21 and she is 20... we're both indian... im punjabi and she is guju... i always told her 2 tell her parents and sisters about us but she said NOT NOW b/c they wont understand... i quess they didnt understand that ppl can actually find true love out there... if u want the whole problem.... its in my first post
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well it's been about 3 weeks since me and mah ex broke up all b/c of her sister finding out and told her 2 break up w/ me... whole situation is in mah 1st post... well i had dreams about her and in a few of them in which she came back 2 me... but then i woke up and reality hit that she isnt w/ me... well last night and 2day mah parents been arguing and fighting (not physically) and on top of missing my ex and this i decided to call her work b/c her sister took her cell phone away... we talked for like 2 mins and i told her the situation and i dunno but i knew mah parents would resolve things but i used that as an excuse 2 call her... we had pauses in tha conversation and she talked a little and then said she had some work 2 do.... so i ended by saying call me back if u want to or whenever... and said bye... i kept NC for a good amount of time now... but it gets harder... any advice... should i let her call me and not try 2 call her...
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also the sister never knew we were going out... her side of the family didnt know we were going out
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she doesnt have anything against me... she never meet me and i quess doesnt want 2 meet me... she just told mah ex 2 break off tha whole relationship
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the sister never meet me and told mah ex 2 stop contacting me... she didnt even get a chance to c what kind of guy i was...
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in tha last 2 1/2 weeks i dreamt about 8 times and 3 of those dreams that i remembered... mah ex was back in mah life... i dunno what to take out of the dreams... i heard from some ppl that if u dream and wake up at 530 then that dream will come true... i dont know if thats true or not.... Our relationship was 2 1/2 yrs and was broken up b/c mah ex's older sister told her 2 stop talkin to me... i screwed up a lil by bothering her like 3-4 times in these 2 1/2 weeks and now i realize i have 2 give her her space, let her think, and let her miss me... NC... maybe she already misses me... I believe she still thinks about me and our 2 1/2 yr anniversary was yesterday... did she remember that yesterday... i dont know... any help will be appreciated... 2 get mah mind off of things I'm going 2 a club 2nite... i just feel bad for mah love... her sister took her cell phone and changed her aim password so i can't even get into contact w/ her... how long should i wait b4 contacting her or should i let her contact me... i was thinking bout trying 2 contact her in a month or so... thanks a lot everyone
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i haven't heard from tha girl i have been with in 2 weeks now and it gets harder day by day... tha situation is that her sister saw tha paper she printed out for mah class w/ my name on it and then caught her a week later her on tha phone w/ me saying I LOVE You... after that she told her 2 break up with me and said if anything happens 2 ur dad it will be ur fault b/c he has high blood pressure... she placed a big guilt trip on her... i saw her once b4 tha 2 weeks and told her that i think her sister is holding u by a string and trying 2 control her life... she said no shes not and she is doing this for her... but i know she didnt mean it b/c she started 2 cry a while later and said she needed time 2 think so im giving her time and it was been 2 weeks since we talked... i miss her so damn much and we had a 2 1/2 yr relationship... we both started saying i love you 2 each other like 6 months ago and she knows i loved her b4 that... i told her i would love 2 marry her and always told her 2 tell her sister(who is 27) bout us... she told me that they wouldn't accept it b/c she acts more like a mother then a sister... she knows i cant live without her and told me 2 not stop living my life and 2 go out... i know our love is strong but dont know how long i can wait for her 2 come back in my life... i pray 2 times a day now and longing for her 2 call me... everything was going well b4 her sister started 2 snoop around... she was just waiting i think until she was around 23 2 tell them... she is 20 right now... if anyone can help reply back thanks...
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I have been going out w/ this girl for almost 3 yrs now and her parents and sister recently found out about us. Her parents are old school minded in that dating shouldnt be done when they are in college and dont like the dating scene at all. We both love each other a lot and I want this relationship to last until marriage. When we got together we established on having a long term relationship. Her sister acts more like a mother then she should as a sister, she also said if anything happened to her father she would be responsible because he has high blood pressure and should avoid stress and she is the youngest from three sisters. She doesnt know what to do now and said she needs time to think b/c she cant live with the fact if anything happens to her father b/c of her. I think her sister said that 2 make her feel guilty and not 2 talk 2 me anymore. Right now we dont talk and I`m just giving her time 2 think on what she wants b/c true love shouldn`t be finished like this. It should last. What should i do and what can I Tell my loved one. We have been broken up for like 2 weeks and at 1st she she said she needed time on her own and i bothered her 3 days in a row b/c not seeing her hurt so much... then she got mad one day and said in a mad tone its over.... so i wrote a lil note and said im sorry and i will give u ur space and said dont say something out of anger u dont mean and just take ur time with this... and concluded by saying true love has obstacles in life but we can overcome them... some 1 help me out.. thanks
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i'm (21) extremely in love w/ this grl (just turned 20) and right now there is a conflict in her family after they found out... they dont want her talkin 2 me and its been 2 1/2 yrs... should i approach tha family or is that a bad idea... i know her cousins but i dunno if they said anything 2 help both of us out... mad confused
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Im 21 and she just turned 20
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we're both indian but she is a different caste thats all... I'm prob c her middle sister at a party on friday... dont know if i should approach her and say something
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I have been going out w/ this girl for almost 3 yrs now and her parents and sister recently found out about us. Her parents are old school minded in that dating shouldnt be done when they are in college and dont like the dating scene at all. We both love each other a lot and I want this relationship to last until marriage. When we got together we established on having a long term relationship w/ no intentions on just hookin up. Her sister acts more like a mother then she should as a sister, she also said if anything happened to her father she would be responsible because he has high blood pressure and should avoid stress and she is the youngest from three sisters. She doesnt know what to do now and said she needs time to think b/c she cant live with the fact if anything happens to her father b/c of her. I think her sister said that 2 make her feel guilty and not 2 talk 2 me anymore. Right now we dont talk and I`m just giving her time 2 think on what she wants b/c true love shouldn`t be finished like this. It's been about 2 and a half weeks now... What should i do and what can I Tell my loved one if i get a chance u talk 2 her b/c her sister took her phone and changed tha number and is currently using it and changed her aim password so she cant even get online 2 talk... I'm confused.