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Great story and thanks for all the detail. Can you tell us what happened between her and the other guy? Did that fizzle out and then she began to contact you for emotional support?

I have a story to contribute. My friend got dumped by his gf of 2.5 years 4 months ago M30 F23. She didnt like how he didn't have a job (been taking a break year living off of saved money and still paying for vacations for both of them) and smoked all day. He was able to get a great job and stopped smoking cold turkey. She loved the changes and returned back after a couple weeks. They recently broke up again 2 weeks ago for other reasons like she doesn't know what she wants and he wasn't paying her enough attention. She's moved out of their house and is looking for her own place. She's taking every move to be independent. I've been coaching him along with NC strategies and I hope I can help him salvage the relationship. This may be a case of how rekindling too soon may worsen the relationship overall.