claude

thanks for the reply, what youve said makes perfect sense. another thing is though, that there has been a few other guys interested in her and im frieghtend that she may start a relationship with one without knowing how i feel.. im thinking that if i dont say anything soon, that could be the end of it!

hi i have fallen for a good friend of mine who used to go out with one of my friends. they are no longer together but i dont think she has quite got over him, although he says he hasnt had feelings for her for a long time and he has been seeing a few other people since her. i spend a bit of time with her and we get on great, sometimes i end up being a shoulder to cry on. im not sure that she knows my feelings for her but my friends say she must do. i dont know whether or not to tell her! i dont want to spoil our great friendship but if i dont say anything i think im going to die.. i have never felt like this about anyone else before. i know she likes me as a person and she likes spending time with me. i wasnt going to do anything about it because of my friend (her ex) but thats not as important to me as this now, i cant carry on like this.. any advice?