snarky cat

AH I have done the same thing checking the damn bfs msn. lol Oh curse knowing the password!! I thinks he wanted to see if you were around. I dunno..

well most dreams are just the mind working out worrys. That new job carrys some responsibility which even if you dont relise it might be worrying u.

I have done this to my bf before. When something is really wrong I guess I get scared that he will leave when he finds out the truth and whats really wrong. Or will think I am crazy.. The best thing he ever did to help me was just hold me, and just look into my eyes and tell me over and over he loved me. He would say my name, look into my eyes and say I love you. And I felt he meant it. I felt safe and loved and broke down crying and told him everything. I don't know for sure what could best help her to open up to you. I guess just let her know no matter what it is that you are there for her and love her. But mean it if you say it.. Tell her you care about her and that holding back of emotion and not talking about it can really put strain on the best of reltaionships.. After this if she still can't talk to you about it- tell her you will wait till she is ready. And when ever she is ready you are there to support her in anyway she needs. I dunno, other then that.. Just know whats helped me when my bfs done that- and some of it what I wish he would have done...

well how old are you first off?

Hard thing. I got something similar now.. I guess if you don't think you are in love then tell him. And look for someone closer.

Yeh most guys I know, even married men have them. I really think it is quite common and not really a big thing at all.

Just tell her you are getting close. If she starts giving you a hand job, that is ussually for that reason, anyways. Just give her a word of warning, this way it doesn't get all over.

I used to get bullied in school. It effected my grades a lot. I have several learning disabilities (dyslexia, ADHD). It got so bad durring high school that I ended up switching to an online school. That worked out well for me. In a regular school, I had my nose broken, glasses broken on my face (I got cut and had an eye patch. That didn't help the bullying at all ). Things were always rough, HS was just the worst of it though. I was in all the lower level classes so people would call me retard, and many other choice names. Just mock me. I know that I am not the smartest. My IQ is high enough, like 150. That isn't bad. I just can not do math for the life of me. I was in like intro-to-pre-intro algebra, in like 11 grade. I just gave up. Got into a lot of trouble. Skipped class a lot. Really the only thing that helped was the online school. It was a better education than regular school. You get an actual diploma. It is not the same as home schooling. The parents don't have to be involved at all if they don't want to. It is simply distance learning. I had a teacher for every subject. It was nice. They give you a computer, and pay for the internet usage. You can do your work anytime of day or night, so it is nice because you can work days and do your work in the evening. I don't know why some people bully. My little brother is in 8th grade. He gets picked on so bad. I am trying to convince my mom to let him do the online school. He has a speach problem and ADD. People are so mean to him. He walks from school and last year kids followed him screaming retard and throwing rocks.

I guess the best thing to do is just be friendly. Find people who are intrested in what you are. Talk to them about common intrests. Just be yourself. Don't be over eager, and want to hang out every minute, or call all the time. That tends to drive people away. I am sure you will make friends. There is no trick to it. Be patient. Friendships don't grow over night.

Yeh I think it is. Even thought it is not a "date" and there is no touching and stuff, how would you feel if it was the other way around. If you are in a relationship, it needs to just be you two. When others get involved (even online) people get hurt.

It depends on how long you were together and how close you were. I know when I get in a fight and even break up with a guy, if he writes a sweet note and comes over with flowers, it is hard to say no. Just give her the letter, and flowers never hurt, and leave it at that. Give her time to read it and think.

My guy wears glasses. I think he looks like a cutie in them. There are some glasses that look cute. The huge granny glasses or the nerd glasses are like, ehh well... But if there are a cool fashionable pair I think it looks nice.

I am bisexual. My best friend is gay. I volunteer for the Human Rights LGBT chapter in my city. My boyfriend is bisexual also. I helped him deal with realizing that he was. I have known that I am bisexual since I was about 3. I also do online volunteer counseling teens that are LGBT and are learning to deal and come out about it. If you think I can be of any help feel free to email me, or add me to YIM or MSNM. I think I got yahoo in my profile. I can't remember. Private message me, if you want to talk to me.

I cut. Have for years. I think I started when I was 11. Like other people in here have said. It is a physical distraction from an emotional pain. It is a pain I prefere to one I can not stand. Some people cut over stress in their lives. My friend cuts, she does it because her family is very critical and call her fat, say she was not wanted, and she did because of high school. Me? Well, mine is more from my past. Long, long story... Involving sexual abuse as a child (not my parents) and a whole bunch of other stuff. That is how it started anyways. It is rather addictive though. Almost gets to be like an art. I got scars that i formed the cuts into certian shapes or pattens. I got other scars though, mainly from when I first started cutting, that are just a big mess. I used to just take a knive and press it down and then go back and forth. Just close my eyes and not even look. It helped me feel better. Then I got where I really enjoyed it. And where I couldn't go with out it. My other friend, he cuts because his family life is hell, he is so messed up. he is 19. Still lives at home, and for as long as I can remember has been a cutter. Although Self Injury is not just about cutting. It is burning, branding, slapping, bruising, bone breaking, and a whole bunch of other stuff. Cutting is ussually more of a starting point. People tend to start small. Little cuts. Or sometimes not. In my case, I ended up in a mental hospital after i got an infection because I had cut 1/3 of my body up. Most people aren't as extreme as me. It just depends on the reason and the person. It seems the more emotional scars, the more physical as well. It is just one scar for another. One pain for another. The only way I know of to help is talk about what it is that is causing it. Even if you say you don't know, you ussually do. It might cause more cutting for a while after first talking about it. But it gets better. I don't cut nearly as much as I used to, and never as bad as when I first started. It is addictive like I said. If you know someone that is cutting, if you aren't yourself, then chances are that even if they don't admit it, they like cutting or depend on it. I wore a rubber band on my wrist. Still do. When I felt like cutting I would snap it as hard as I could. It would hurt, but not do the damage that cutting does. Then eventually I went for hours, then days with out even snapping. It sort of is like a nicotine patch for smokers. Same thing. I still cut sometimes. When I get real depressed. When I am very manic. But not like before. I started off as like one sentence. Just started rambling on and on and on lol. I dunno, maybe this helped.

If he wants to talk a lot that seems like he likes you. And I don't think if he doesn't always start the conversation, that doesn't mean he doesn't. He is probably just as nervous, wondering if you like him, so that may be why he doesn't always IM first. Plus, most people when they are online, are doing other things, ex: homework, games, other conversations. He might not even notice you sign in. I know that sometimes I don't see when friends sign in. Don't be afraid to IM him first. Just go hey wanna talk? or u busy? I am sure if he likes you you will be able to tell. It is harder online, but the whole thing is basically the same.

Shaving is nice. I like a guy that trims at least. It isn't a big deal tho if he doesn't. Not like I would break up with him over it. If I really felt strongly, I might mention he try shaving or trimming at least.

I have done it too for my Bf. I think the guys get a lot more out of it than the girls personally. It is ok. Not really that into it tho. I do it when he asks ( which is a bit more often, then I would like ) But whatever. I heard that guys like it because it is tight and feels like a virgin everytime. Just what I am told. Dunno if it is true.

I know how u feel. I am in a LDR too. He is sweet as can be and you are like how did I find this angel! Then he treats you worse than anyone ever has in your life. Then he says sorry and begs your forgivness. But sorry is only words. He will be Mr. Perfect... for a while. You have seen his true colors once. And trust me. You will agian. He might go a long time, and be Mr. Perfect, but someone who treats you like that once, will agian. He knows too that he can treat you badly and you won't leave. I don't know. Everyone is different. Mayb someone really can be Mr. Perfect, even after he was Mr. Nightmare. Maybe people really can change so much. I just know that in my life, he never changes to Mr. Perfect for good. It is like Jeckle and Hyde. There is the potential for so much good and to be so sweet, and yet sometimes so cruel and mean and heartless.

I think it is good when a guy talks about that stuff. I like to know. If you are gonna be thinking about getting into a relationship with this person, you want to know this stuff. I never get bored. The only time I ever get bored a bit is if he goes on for forever ( and by forever I mean 3+ hours a day ) about something, that never really goes anywhere or has to do with anything. Other than that I like to kno.

I am in a ldr, and we don't get to go on dates. So we have phone dates. Just for a first time I would suggest just be yourself, don't try to impress, girls can tell when you are doing that... Just talk about who you are. What you like. Even silly things like what happened in your day. The latest movie you saw. Play 20 questions. Just get to know each other.