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  1. Well, I did it. Pulled the trigger. We’ve gotten into two serious fights over the past week and I’m exhausted. I wish things could be different but we got into another fight about him going out with friends and dancing. It’s something that will obviously keep coming up and he enjoys and I can’t be the person who takes that away from him anymore and I don’t think I’ll ever be okay with it. His reasoning is he grew up in a small town and it’s a hobby to him (I understand) but going out and dancing with other girls once or twice a month is just not something I think I can condone. The worst part
  2. Well he was the one who said he wanted to go to this concert and came with me to buy the tickets but “last minute” plans came up. You are all right, it’s not worth fighting over and he’s inconsiderate. Was just looking for some positive feedback. Just was hurtful to me and I feel we may be at the ending stages of our relationship but I’m not the type to give up until I’ve exhausted all options.
  3. I just need some advice on whether I’m overreacting or not. My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year. We have plans to go to a concert tomorrow night (I bought us tickets). I have to work and will have to rush home so we can make it on time. We have planned all along to go together. His mom decided last minute that she was coming to town. We literally just got back from visiting her in his home town for four days. He plans on hanging out with her and meeting me at the concert. He told me he will probably be late and told me to go in alone or meet with friends until he shows up. I pl
  4. Any advice on how to deal with the anxiety through all of this?
  5. Wish things could be different and we could work it out. I’ve never felt this way about another person and we have so much passion. He went out last night to the club and came back to my house at 2:00 in the morning and slept on my couch. I haven’t spoken with him but know he has plans to go see his mom and stay with her for the evening. She couldn’t get a hold of him all morning (my guess is he was hungover) and was reaching out to me. She finally did get a hold of him and I know he won’t be coming home tonight regardless of him not speaking with me. This non-speaking game isn’t healthy but w
  6. He didn’t kiss the girl when we were out together, it was a different night. We usually do go dancing on Friday’s and on Saturday he goes out with his guys and goes clubbing and dances with other girls..
  7. In all actuality, he’s more jealous than I am. I have never been cheated on before except by him and was in a long-term relationship with someone who never wanted to go out (which was the reason I broke up with him). He has been cheated on multiple times and has issues from it. He won’t let me wear certain clothes in public and is always asking if I’m being hit on when I’m out without him. I agree that it’s like he wants to act single. We are great when we’re together but the moment one of his friends wants to hang out he leaves regardless if we were hanging out. It’s hard because I invite him
  8. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We have our ups and downs but are completely and totally in love. The catch is he is 4 years younger than me. (I am 27, he's 23). I am realizing that I am coming to a point in my life where I still like to go out and have fun, but I want to find someone and settle down soon. I have talked to him about this and have told him I am worried I will take away from his early twenties and he has reassured me that I have nothing to worry about. To cut to the chase, we fight primarily about ONE thing; he like's to go out and go clubbing and swing
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