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  1. studmaster3265
    Well me and my girlfriend have ben broken up for about two years now. we tried a summer ago getting back together but it turned out the worst. she cheated on me every chance she had and one day she just called me cuz she wanted to break up. one day one of her ex calls me and lets me know everything that happened how when she would tell me she was gonna be late for like the movies or something she was with the other guy and * * * *. well anyways now she is calling me over and over and just like ranting about nothing. and it makes me feel bad but i really dont want anything to do with her. but she doesnt understand and doesnt leave me alone. im not sure what i should do or what i should tell her. help me out here
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    i think you should give your friend who made a mistake another try becuase if you end up with your other friend you might find yourself thinking of yyour other friend most of the time.but eitherway you should take it slow.
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    ok man first of all i think your over analyzing your relationship. if everything is great then let it be. My girlfriend did the exact same thing she was in your situation except she went through with the break she has been with 3 guys since me i was her first boyfriend and we broke up two years ago. now shes desperate always calling me always thinking about me, she said she wanted to see what else there is out there and she did except the only prob was that whenever she was with any one of her other boyfriends she would always call me to tell me how much she misses me. you might end up doing the same. i crushed for a while badly becuase i really loived her now im the one moving on and shes the one desperately wanted me. however this might not even be the case with your relationship but id you feel strongly opened to new poeple then talk about with your girlfriend but take it slow dont let her know you want to break up because you might just scare her off and then it will get bad. good luck
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    Most of the time its hard to even believe what poeple say sometimes. However It does seem like he is trying to go back out with you. In the end its your choice if you choose to go back out. Being lonely and being legit are two diffrent things, when you know its "lonelyness" its when the guy trys to go back out with you desperately and you can tell legit its when its romantice you know you take it slow. Better take it slow you dont want him to think your easy, take it from a guy whos been through everything, anyways i hope this helps.
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    dam it seems we are all around the same circle any ways im not doubting it too much. its just that i dont kn ow i felt so stupid and lonely on v-day. i only wish i was past the lonely stage that way i could be able to get myself back up. i find myself struggling to figure out who the hell i am.
  6. studmaster3265
    Alright well its been almost 4 months since i have tried to make a move on any girl. My ex and I broke up in october and it wasnt til last night that i realized that on valentines, she was spending time and hugging with someone else while i was just at home sleeping around 9:00 pm. i felt sort of stupid becuase the person she cheated on me with was holding her and all that stuff while i was at home drooling becuase i was tired from work. There have been many cases were i have seen really pretty girls and well i havent even attemtp to make a move. First of all i dont wanna be stupid and be like so do you have a boyfriend? becuase that too stupid and if she does then i dont want to be like oh... anyways i find myself having problems talking to a girl as well as getting to know them. before it used to be so easy just smiling and keeping my cool. but now i try doing that and i start to get nervous. i gave myself time to heal from the last relationship in order for the next girlfriend not to be a rebound. BUt now that i am ready nothing seems to go right everything comes out wrong. and to make thinsg worse im stressing out with college and we just started. i sometimes just wish none of this would have happened and my ex and I would still be together. but you cant always get what you want. a little advice on the ladies thatas all im asking for just advice.
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    alright so it has been almost 4 months since the break up of my ex and I. she cheated on me badly she went and slept with another guy and then hid it from me and still kept telling me all these nice things like " ohh yeah were always gonna b together and all that stuff" well anyways its been a long time and well she still calls and im tired of it. i have told her not to call me anymore but she doesnt listen and its not like ima change my numba just for her you get what i mean? well anyways whenever she calls i tend to answer and kinda weird but i still wanna be with her. but then i look and think about all the stupid things she did to me and i get so mad that i just want to rip her into pieces. well anyways now i started college and i have so many things to take care of but she still comes into my toughts and prayers and im just sad at times i blame myself for pushing her away and having her sleep with another guy. and at times i tell myself that its not becuase everyone is in control of their own destiny so if she did it, it was becuase she wanted too. anyways. now she is going back out with the guy she cheated on me with and im having trouble coping with the situation. its hard trying to talk to girls cuz i dont know i have the fear of being cheated on again. i know im ready to move on, but at times i just tell my self to look twice where im stepping. i just wish i found some one who i could trust, but doesnt everyone?](*,)
  8. studmaster3265
    alright ive been in this situation before and all i can tell you is just let it go. if she wants it then she willcome back to it. just let her know how you feel and what you want to try an leave the offer at the table. stop crying becuase tears will get you kow where. let her do all the callings and not you. she left you standing in the coled. any normal friend especially girlfriend would have let you in. thats just a lot of crap. so please just calm down and dont wait. i know it hurst becuase ive been through there . all you can do is give it time. if its ment to be she will come back. even if she doesnt its another lesson learned. take some time to improve yourself. one more thing stop blaming yoruself. not everything is your fault.
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    why is there a need foryou to cut your arms? or anything like that? if your that depressed just look for help. and you should try beingt nice to yoru sister one day god forbid something bad might happene to one of the poeple you love and they may never come back. change for you and if not for you do it for them.
  10. studmaster3265
    hey try not to worry too much about it if hecomes back during the weekends then surely you will see him again right? then again you should just ask for the number. its better to have tried and failed then have never tried at all.
  11. studmaster3265
    poeple make mistakes in life some regrets some guilty remakrs. but in the end what goes around comes around. dont feel to bad about what happenned if you came back with each other is for a reason. now you have to find it inyourself if this person is alright and worthy of yoru company. and if it is then let go of the past and look to the future. dont waste time on non important things. look forward to the future and make plans there.
  12. studmaster3265
    listen buddy, ive been throught the same situation that you have. all i can tell you is, if you love a person enough to be there for them and be there friend then so be it. dont let anyone else tell you diffrent. do what is in your heart and in yoru heart only. if you feel that this hurst you then you put a stop. its not about her anymore its about you. because later on, she or you will move on weather its with or without each other the future happens and it changes poeple. after a breakup its back to looking out for number one and thats you. if you think you can look past your feelings and truly be just friends then go rigth ahead. but dont let her convince you becuase later on your gonna hate yourself for letting her take so much control. worry about helping yourself before your can help anyone else.
  13. studmaster3265
    wow, it sounds like your in trouble. I have seen this certain situation in one of my friends. its because your so happy, and dont even have an argument that you feel like just throwing everything away. sometimes its good to fight to cry, it makes the flame grow bigger in a relationship. as odd as it sounds its true. people are never truly happy with what they got, they want more and more. were all selfish in a way. you just need to figure out what it is that you need more of or if you need something that your boyfriend isnt giving as much as you would want.
  14. studmaster3265
    Hey thanks for the reply i dindt think you were going to be the one to answer since there are loads of members on this site. but thanks. im moving on pretty slowly as far as hating goes i doubt that, i dont ever think i could hate this person despite my lost, i am thankful that i had met her. I think more of the good moments instead of the wrong ones. i just hope that indeed she is happy in the near future and i wish the same for me. its gonna be hard moving on without her. but in the end we both need to see other poeple. specially me. but in the mean time i just wanna be me. K.I.T
  15. studmaster3265
    Hi it has bee almost a week since i lost my girlfriend(breakup) shes with another guy now kinda fast how she moved on huh? anyways i miss her yeah but now i know i dont need someone who just bounces around from guy to guy. this girl has been the love of my life and i have given up everything for her. and now i dont know were to go or were to turned too . i feel lost, rigth now i dont want to get into a relationship because i want to be able to recognize what i have lost and be able to say dam i had something good. despite the fact that she cheated on me i forgive her. for every single thing she has done wrong to me. but i dont forgive her for abondoning me out of knowwhere. she calls me asking for my friendship and i dont know if she deserves it. im lost i find myself dating a whole bunch of beautiful girls that im not intrested in. for some reason i want her back but am I crazy? am I stupid? i dont know i just feel so lost.
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