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hey, cheer up. i wouldnt pretend to know what your going through and i believe that it is a genuine problem. i was and still have times when i get so depressed. but i picked up a sport and started playing and i started getting good and i began to wonder what else i could improve on. it just spread over into many other areas of my life. so pls dont give up hope, its very precious. your a very unique and precious being. i am yet to meet a useless or worthless person. you are precious. feel free to ask questions

i know to a fair extent how to be interesting around a woman. does any human being know how to take things to the next level. i know a lot of girls who like me and somehow i can feel their frustration towards my inability to initiat sex or take things to the next level. im now getting pissed at the number of opportunities that have gone out the window because i dont freakn know how to initiate sex. im afraid that the girl will think im dirty because i think of her that way. please, be kind and save a sexless soul with your infinite wisdom. and pls if your a girl and your pissed at my wanting to have sex, really badly, pls dont reply me.

i see guys who are successful with women get approached or hit on by the ladies. that is even when i go to an entirely different town with them, its like the ladies know something about him and are immediately attracted. if you are one of these guys could you pls tell me what it is that you think you do that causes this attraction. cos one of my biggest dilemmas is if i show interest, she is disinterested and when i ignore them, nothing happens. although if i get introduced im usually kinda lucky, not too lucky but u know what i mean.

hey thnx guys, i m really greatful for your input. i wasnt going to kill myself but i sure do feel like it. and a appollo, i know God exists and i know of everything you spoke of. what i dont get is why it seems like he just doesnt care and sometimes i feel like he is looking forward to hurl me into hell. i know he exist and sometimes, i feel like he has favorites. not complaining, he is God afterall.

i jsut wanted to note that im not feeling my best. im a guy who isnt very manly. i dont know how to. my attempts keep failing. im just so tired of myself. i dont like who i see in the mirror. i wish i knew if there were really a God waiting on the other end to hurl me into hell for killing myself. otherwise, i will be lying peacfully at the bottom of the ocean. dont have to reply, im not killing myself anytime soon. just airing my pain. i cry at night. i wish i knew for sure if there is a God out there waiting to hurl me into hell. i just hate myself for my inability to pull myself together. im not killing myself, i just would if i knew the finality of the after life. until then, i will cry at night, and walk tough at day . cute.

thanx for your sincere contributions. greatly appreciated.

now i know that im not the most attractive guy on the planet. im the next most attractive. haha, i got jokes. well i decided to look women in the eyes, and at first they take their eyes off, then eventually make contact. and when they do, all they want to do is look me in the eyes. and i look right back at them. so i want to know what this translates to in lady language. this better be good.

thanx guys for your input. i didnt think of some ot the words you mentioned and thinking about it, saying im sorry is pretty hard especially when you know you were wrong. other words are hard to say in other situations. pls keep your ideas coming. thnx.

just curious. what is the hardest word for you say. i found out that for me, hi, is just about the hardest word to say. i dont know what tone of voice i should say it, how quickly, and with what facial expression. its kinda funny such a short word would be so hard to say. what words, and in what situations do some of you guys find hard to say. cheers.

thanks guys, i really appreciate your help. its just hard for me to believe im worthy of anything. i dont want to dig out garbage or anything but i can remember that when i was little my uncles and aunts will praise all my brothers and cousins of looking cute or handsome or something like that and i would be left out. that is a scare that doesnt want to disappear. sighs, i just wonder, how do you feel good about yourself when you arent that goodlooking. some people arent that good looking but exude such great energy. what should you like about yourself cos they say its whats on the inside that counts. so what am i supposed to look out for on the inside?

i just recently realized that the reason why im shy is cos i strongly feel like im no good on the inside. like i feel utter dislike for my self, there isnt a word on this planet that i can use to describe how i feel on the inside. i feel less than everyone around me like they deserve life and i dont. what the heck. where did this come about. i see some people actually worship themselves. how can you like yourself where do yo start. i want to be able to like myself to the point where i actually become selfish, like good selfish, and stop being a people pleaser. just letting this scum out of me.

tanned blonde, mmm yummi. well i have to say it looks really good when a blonde is nicely tanned, makes me want to howl like an animal. its the nature of the two colors, its amazinly beautiful. on the other hand a red head with really pale skin, phew, makes my eyes pop all the time. red head and pale skin is really sexy, awesome combination. come on guys give your opinions, i want to know what you guys think.

well double j the thing is its so hard for me to understand why a woman would like to be with a man for romantic reasons. women dont play like men and to me, men look plain, unattractive, and are horny. and personally, i havent seen too many women look at guys. and plus guys have hair on the face. what about that, to me, its like loving an animal. no offense guys, ladies help out cos i just dont get it. i dont think id like guys if i were a girl and plus you know they always want to bone you. how those that make you ladies feel.

hello all im back. hope you all didtn miss me too much. im back with my curiosity as usual. as a little boy, i never believed that girls liked boys. as a grown young man, im still finding it hard that women like men. you hardly show it. its like we men are the horny ones and you women are just calm. do you like men, if yes, how much, and why. beats me why anybody should like a guy. they are just plain animals that love to play all the time. help me out.

i discovered that a lot of guys cant get girls. girls on the other hand have guys but cant keep them. can anybody tell me why 90% of boys cant GET a girl and why 90% of girls cant KEEP a guy. your thoughts pls i want to know what is going on in the world of attraction.

like you said its nerve racking. but thats ok cos we all feel the same way. i would say ask him, its a life of endless possibilities. whatever his answer is, it would only make your life easier. youll either get him, or get this anxiety over with. and at worst if he says no or anything to make you feel down, you have us here to cry to. so go ahead, enjoy.

show him how you feel. dont tell but show him how you feel. when your with him make sure you flirt, its your territory as a woman. dangle the carrot in front of him until he's where you want him. if he starts warming up to you then you can tell him. get to know him, there's no short cut in life.

i was just wondering. do you girls ever feel lonely and really feel the need, an attraction, for someone of the opposite sex? sometimes i see girls walk around like they dont care for guys, especially the very hot ones. in short, do girls like guys?

what are some of the signs you girls give guys to let them know that you dont want a romantic relationship but you just want to be friends?

so in other words it ok if i hate gay sex and dig lesbianism?

ok this is how it is. i hate male homosexuality and i condem it when i can and im very good at it. i consider it a disease. no offense to gay folks i like the guys, i hate the act. but just recently, i realized i am hook on lesbian porn. now i know this sounds weired. are there any guys out there that feel the same way. i need help. i thought a am supposed to hate homosexuality accross the sexes. both gay and lesbians. help.

looks like the guys love giving it, the ladies love recieving it. i havent really gotten the feel that ladies love to give it as much as guys love to. just an opinion

well that ECD guy is just a little helpless and hurt person and the only way he can feel good about himself is to kick someone when he is on the ground. he should pick a figth with the big and standing guys, all i have to say.

hey go for it. why are you scared, its not like your married to the second guy. life is short, enjoy it to the fullest so that youll never say "i wonder what..." go for it. you have my approval.

hello everybody, im new here and this is going to be my first post. i was just curious. do all girls think of touching or having sex with other girls? im thinking, if i were a girl id probably be gay. maybe its cos im a guy. waiting for your replies.