jaxie

The other day he also called me a bitch cuz i had a tennis ball and threw it to him cuz he told other girls to hit me. i love him so much, y can't i move on? Even though as i said he might treat me like crap, i still come back to him i still talk to him and try to be friends but he always puts me off, to the other side and brings in other grils. Y did he move on so fast like one first week, he ws talking about how hott this girls was and he was trying to get her #. i can't keep him of my mind. y do i think about our relationship, everywhere we went or did. i can;t stop and it;'s killing me i'm always sad and depresed even my grades went down,or maybe, how cani get him back?i can try but what do i do?

Ok, me and my ex(matt) broke up 1 month ago. And as far as i know i still love him and i have feelings for him like if we still went out. So when we broke up, we became friends, then he asked me, who i was intrested in and i said i still love him, so ever since then he has treated me like crap. he sometimes stops talking to me, or all he may say in a day is hey, we have 4th period together and that period he won't say a word even though we sit together, instead of saying hi he will flirt and make comments about girls, in front of my face, and that just tears me apart, i also get jealous. my friends and him tell me to move on, but i can't i still love him,i cry everyday, everything reminds me of him, everytime i hear love songs I can't keep him of my mind. I still dream about him, some of the dreams involve us kissing, holding hands and other things we did together as a couple. i think of him all the time, i'm depresed all the time. I can't do anything without reminding me about him. and as i said he doesn't talk to me much, when he does he is really mean or is a jerk, but everytime he does this to me, i still love him. Y doesn't he like me anymore?whats wrong with me?what did i do to him for him to treat me like this?. also the other day, he and his ex were talking and they were talking about what sexual things they did, and i told him if he remembered about us and he was like yeah, and i asked him and he didn't have a clue, did he forget about me that fast,i just want to say, how do i stop loving him, how can i move on?,how can i tell him that i still love him but it doesn't mean he has to treat me like this, how come he does this to me?, y do i still love him even after he treats me like this, when will he realize all the pain i'm going through?or is he ever coming back?PLease give me some advive Thanks Jackie

Ok, well my ex keeps lying to me and I did't know if I should I believe, so then i asked one of the friends online to talk to him with my ex thinking it was his best friends so i was looking what he was answering and he told him the truth, something I had a hard time to accept it, but now I'm going to see him at school. How do I tell him that I did the online thing? I think I should laugh at him for doing what he did to me, but I also think it's wrong. He made me feel bad too, so what should I do? How do I tell him that I know the truth? Jaxie

Well thers not a lot of advice to give but i'm in your shoes. but i'm a a female, and i'm 15, well i really love my bf but he dumped me 3 days ago cuz he got tired of me not being able to date. well before he dumped me we would go on dates, secrectly, i would just lie to my parents about me going out with my best friends and that always worked but if my parents really found out they would beat me and sent me off to mexico that what they said to me before i turned 13 which they thought thats when i wold start dating. but i really don't understand y our parents don't let us date, not to be racisnt or anything are u mexican?, cuzz mexican parents tend not to let their kids date. well plase write back to me and tell me what happeneds, email me at email removed, or at email removed, well becuz my parents don't let me date my b/f dumped me 3 days ago as i said thats y i'm so hurt and in pain right now. don't let ur parents stop u from having fun with her and keep loving her as long your both happy!, and tell her to asure you that she won't dumpe you cuz your not allowed to date.Good Luck! Jackie

coozer i'm going through the same thing right now, my bf dumped me and after he said that se said he also loves me, well i just got dumped on sunday, feb. 15, 2003, which really recent my heart is so broken, well i too what to talk to him on the phone but i can;t my heart can't resist more pain, cuz he can say something else to hurt me but i need advice too, i feel and i'm scared to date again, my heart has always been broken for everytime i love they don't love back, i;m scared i don't want to date right now. well hope we have better luck with other people

As some people have read my other personal stories i was dumped sunday Feb. 16, 2003. well after by b/f dumped me he asked to be friends, but i replied that i couldn't i was too hurt at the time and i didn't feel like being friends after break up, my heart was so broken at the time. well i really can't talk to him i'll just start crying once i see him face to face, well i haven't told you but he dumped me while being online. so i haven't really been on the phone with him or in person until tom, which will be on tuesday. but i need advice on how to act in school when he is around?, what do i say when he comes and talks?or should we be friends?and affter it was time to get ofline he replied with i love you, which totally got me to even worse, does this mean he might come back after re realizes the he loves me, or he just said that to play even more with my heart, well the reason he gave me for breaking up was that i wasn't allowed to date so i could only see him in the school and sometimes in the weekends when we would go on dates., which meant lying to my parents. but he said he got tired of not seeing me in the weekends, he could never call me on the phone either so he just said he wanted a girlfriend that he could see when ever he wanted too not when ever i could. well please give me advice a.s.a.p., thanks Jaxie

don't worry i thought about it even more and i promise not to commit suicide.

well it's to late for advice he dumped me on sunday online. which just totally made me feel worst and bad. which i might be thinking about suicede.

ok i just got dumped by the man i love. ok on my birthday he gave me a gold ring so know that we broke up what should i do?, should i keep it or should i give it back to him?, what would you do in my shoes?Please reply! Jaxie

ok i really need you help males or guys!, ok i was told my bf cheated on me so i cried in front of him and people said that was wrong they said you should never cry in front of a guy or show him you care. well i don't know if thats right?, well ok guys i would like to know and please reply, what wouyld you think about a girl who loves you and cries cuz you hurt her in a way?, what would you think of her, how would you feel?, how would you judge her as?, or would you still love her more or less?, and should girls cry over a guy in front o him? all really need to know!, please guys. help me out. thanks Jaxie

Well i don't know if you really should take my advice, but you should consider what your mind says, but if i were you i would try to ignore her for a while and if she tries insisting about going out with you maybe then you could think she likes you. but from what you have said, she seams trashy uz she was basically has been with every guy at school and trys looking for some more at other school. well maybe she seems insecure or something or is obsensed with something all those guys have given her and after that she dumps them, but i don't know her so i really don't know what to think about her ? well it's really up to you, good luck! Jaxie

HI! i would like to know what is ADD?, because some person online said i had add which i don't know if he was joking or it's true? Please writeback jaxie

Well i really love my boyfriend, i feel that he is the one who i want to spens the rest of my life with. Last week as some have read it was heard that he cheated on me, but i don't really know beacuse i have no prove he did it, only that one of my friends told me that he had told her. well of course we had a fight over this, but i really don't know if i should trust him? he denied everything about him cheating on me. and i felt that i should still stick with him beacuse i don't want to lose him, i love him so much. all i want is advice of how to tell him that i feel i can't rust him and that i have lost total trust on him and it's something that has to build up. i want to be able to trust him the same way i did before this happened. Please give me advice, i really need it before it is loo late! Jaxie

Thanks for replying to me, Please i need other people to help me with advice! Jaxie

Hey Don't worry i do the same thingi'm (15). when i'm around my bf sometimes i'm quite or start laughing for no reason and he tries to ignore me. and when i'm with close, kool friends i'm my self which i don;t know y, i think i feel that being with my bf i need to act differently. Well but i'm trying to change and i think you will too as we get older Jaxie

I'm really sorry, well i was about to commit suicide 2 days ago cuz my bf cheated on me and wouldn't admit it but my friends stopped me. They talked to me about how important i was to them, and how death over a guy woudl't make me feel anybetter. They also told me that if my bf really loved he would tell me the thr truth about him cheating on me. well right now suicide in not something i would do right now but it's still in option. All i need is support from my friends beacuse my family isn't. They don't care about my relationships cuz i'm not allowed to date. Which is really hard to hide from them.Well all i know is that i don't plan on commiting suicide so don't worry. Jaxie

I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months. Our relationship has been very well, the only down side of that is i'm not allowed to date. my parents are so strick that i'm not allowed so thats really bothers me and my boyfriend. well last week my bf and my friend. were having a conversation which i couldn't join beacuse they wanted to talk privately. So about 5 days later i talk to my friends about how much i love my bf. Then she says" Jaxie i have something to say to you it's about your bf", then i just got really sad and in my mid i thought my bf had cheated without me knowing that was the story. the conversation they had was about this, she said h ehad cheatde on me when he was out with his friegds dad and his friend, well he had meet this girl and made out with her, then she said everysince this happened he had lost interest in me. then of course got out of class and cried. After that is was lunch time. so then i saw my bf and i started crying, then i told him about what my friends had told me and he denied everything, so then we went up to my bf's friend and he said hw wouldn't of let this happened cuz he was with him. he also said he wouln't of let my bf do that to me cuz his fried was close to me too. so then i asked him again in he did cheat and he replyed with a no. so then we have keeped ourrealationship, i had to prove that he did thats so i said we should go o with our relationship. After this i can't trust him with any girls now not even with my best friend. Please reply to me and tell me if i did the right thing? who should i have believed? and what should i do to stop getting jealous of other girls talking to him?