Blue.Paradise

Heyy evryone, for the past 2 yrs ive sort of liked this guy in my skool, however he is the cousin of my sister's fiancer.. Ive always wanted to go out with him & try to get closer to him but my sis woudnt let me cuz she thinks hes a huge pervv, which he kinda wuz .. BUt lately me & the guy, Gab .. have started to get close again ( cuz its always goes from being close to ignoring each other to close & etc .. ) so now my sis sees that Gab has changed his ways of thinking & now both my sis & her fiancer are trying to set me up with Gab & kinda match making in a way .. its almost a dream come true, hes actually intrested in me .. but my sis told me he hates my attitude .. However both my sis & her fiancer are putting so much stress on me to make this work cuz otherwise things would go bad & risks ruining my siters relationship as well if mine futur one with Gab dosent work.. But my problem is that im afraid he might not like me, since hes one of those macho kind of italians, & hes rly cute, thought im not all that pretty to start .. so i thought maybe if i at least had a great personality i might have a chance of getting him, since i dont feel like restarting this whole things again of getting close & un close & havin my heart sumwhat broken evrytime ... So what are some great tips of flirting or any basic tips to try & impress a guy or what not to do when trying to get a guy cuz i rly dont wanna lose him again.. ? Thanks, Melissa

Heyy evryone.. sum time ago my ex broke up with me.. & now he is with sum one new .. Is there anythin i can do or change about myself that might make him want me back .. mayb lik changing character, making him jealous by being with another man ? Thank yu ..

Heyy evryone, i have a problem about 3-4 months ago, my ex broke up with me .. & literally since then i can't get over him.. Its odd he was a pure * * * with me & yet at times i long to be in his arms again.. I feel as if no other guy can replace him .. Its rly sad .. But would the fact that he was the first & only person i had sex with would slow down my healing by big time .. ? Its retarded, when i was with him i always thought i would do fine without him, but when he left me like that i freaked & cryed for days straigh ( which is odd, cuz im usually a hardcore person ) ... & besides i was with him for only 6 months, thats not even worth being down for almosts 4 months afterwards ... Why do break-ups hurt so much? Or does the fact that i slept with him play a role in this heartbraking time? Or actually just recently i learnt that he found himself another girlfriend not long after he left me whom apearently is greater than me, would that hapen to deepen the wound? ( actually llol i always thought i would replace him b4 he would replace me .. funny thing .. that hasent hapened yet ) Thank yu ..

Its very hard for my ex not to matter i still really love him, althought he coudnt care less about me, he despises me very much... Yes you guys r righ bout never giving up, its a harsh environment to live in with ppl always anoying about wut yu do or did...

Heyy Evrone, I'll try to make a long story short... A few months ago, my bf broke up with me, after we had been tgether for several months and his decision left me heart-broke as yu can imagine, i still havent been able to get over him. But besides that, the real problem is that, were i met my ex, karl, is at the army cadets (army for ppl under 18 ) , and there he is the sergent and i am a few ranks below him --> private ... Which goes on evry thuesday night, and then thing is i always see him there but if it coudnt get worse, karl opened his big mouth and told a few ppl that we had sex... (which i regret with all my hearth, since i thought he actually loved me ) ...And of course the army is all about respect, and so the few ppl that karl told have told other ppl and further on...And so it is at the point the officers (the highest ranks) know about what we did as well as other things too... But besides that most of all the guys know about this and they are all anoying me if its tru or not and it entirely explains why all the gurls are looking at me as if im a *****... Anyhow going to the army cadets has become a great passion of mine as i also wish to persue a job in the milirtary bases (army) ....althought my ex has told so many ppl about what we did, i dont know if the ppl there even respect me, and its become very anoying to have the guys always trying to see if id give it if they asked if id sleep with'em... Althought since the officers know as well and if they no longer have respect for me, they may not upgrade my rank... I dont know if i should keep going to the army cadets or should i just quit and persue another passion, or as well as join another army cadets further...Anyhow it would be a shame to forget all of my friends ive made at the cadets... Thanks Melissa 8)

Heyy evryone, I was just wondering if anyone could help me...its a long story but i will make it shorter.... well my ex bf and i have been together for 6 months happily and evrything, until just this thursday he broke up...not cause he dint love me or infidelity but simply because he in sec 4 and he has no time on his schedule to spear and so he though it was better to brake up instead of staying togeter and never seing each other.... but the problem is ive become so accustomed to him being in my life and always thinking about him or how i could simply inprove my relationship with him....And even when things were getting bad i ALWAYS** kept hope high that things would be better again soon.... but him he dint c it that way...it troubled him to no that things were getting bad.... And so wednesday night he finnally told me that he kight want to brake up...cuz of the situation of lack of time....and this was the 1st time he ever talked about a brake up betwwen us.... and so it only gave me one day to start getting over him before he broke up.... but its so hard to forget him.... during the summer when he was away at an army camp for 6 weeks...i was always thinking i would do fine without him.... but now i realise i cant live without him... evrything i did was for him...but he never has seen all the things i sacrificed for him...i gave myself entirelly to him.... i even made my reputation so badd cuz i loved him so much... but now hes left with evrything.... he simply left an empty space in my heart... he knew he was going to mayb brake up for 2 months now but i dint, it was goood for him he had time to get disattached from me but i dint....and it hurts even more when i realisse sometimes when we talked that he seem to say things that would refers to our relationship in the futur would still be sure... I gave my heart and soul to this guy and now he left an empty space in my heart not even all the lust in the world could fill.... the best part is, i no it would be impossible for himand i to be back together since i no my ex never goes back on dicisions he mades even if he noes they are bad.... plus whut i dont understand is at som times he was quite mean with me yet i still love him... and i no if we would get back together things would never be the same as they used to be.... and so im wondering is it normal to be this confused and lost, filled of hatred yet loving the person normal after a brake up? Wut are some good things i can do to forget my ex bf before i ruin my life?

this is a very complicated story yet i dont no if im very able to hrlp u very much since im not much experienced in this departement...but maybe u should let him go, if he dosent really love u, than why bother stiking aroun? i hope u find ure answer and best regards for the futur...

i totally agree with DarkBlue, maybe u should talk to her face to face, mayb she would apreciate that more...

thanks alot either way darkblue.. but is it possible the age could be at 14 since, in quebec, canada u are aloud to have sex at 14?...so maybe its the same 4 the pill

Heyy evryone, i was just wondering, how old do u have to be to be able to buy a morning after pill without ure parents have to know about it and the same for birth control pills... Thanks

sry i changed it cuz, i no by now when i say things about sex at my age peope always say in way to yougn and its naging so i simply change my age hoping no will notice...

but i can cee its possible but woudnt it be a bit weird since there is blood coming out and the guy is trying to go in???

I'Ve heard peoples saying its possible to have sex while you are mentruated, is that actually possible?

awww thats so cute, congratulations! How old are they now?

Thats tru, bbut you know sometimes you just get carried away in the momment, and are much in the mood to stop...