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  1. Wiseman2 no they aren't related and thank you to everyone who posted a reply
  2. Ok that's great thank you. I watch porn almost everyday and it's no secret. I always assumed my partner did too, it's not something he likes talking about. But in recent months it seems he would prefer porn/masturbation then actual sex with me. At first I thought maybe he is just tired and wants a quick release and that's fair enough but I've initiated sex 9 times in the last 2 week's and have been rejected every time but still he gets off to porn more then once a day. I thought it was just a habit that I'd never really noticed until now but he's only twice before rejected me in our whole 7 ye
  3. Have you ever been a porn addict? Did you tell your partner? Did you love your partner any less? Has anyone been in a relationship with a porn addict?
  4. In saying that he has never asked me how I knew about the whole situation. If he ever asks I will tell him the truth about what I did..
  5. Yes we had sex at least every second day. I'm more kinkier then he is. I feel like if I tell him now what I've done then he will just close off even more he's clearly not telling me anything for a reason so I've left it alone and the recordings are gone. Do you think me having a baby has changed his sexual view on me? In worried he won't ever look at me the same. I exercise every and do kegals every day I still make a good effort at looking nice every day... I don't see the point in seeing a marriage counciler by my self, why should I be the only one to work on it? Trust me when I say I've n
  6. I know my actions were terrible. I've tried all that he won't talk about it at all he just gets angry. When we first got together I always got the latest zoo mags had done years before I knew him but he was weirdly threatened by it so I stopped buying them. I'm just so confused by all this nonsense. If he refuses to talk to me about it or even our relationship in general then what else can I do I've tried everything, recording was a bad thing to do but he almost had me convinced I was actually losing my mind. What sort of person does that to someone they "love" I know my actions were wrong bu
  7. You should be worried. What goes around comes around. And when it happens and it will happen, don't cry victim... Your paranoia is spot on you should listen to it... Imagine you as the other girl how would you feel? How would you view yourself?
  8. You should see a professional to make sure. It could just be psychological but if it isn't and you do have a problem I'm sure there is a pill you can take to help you out... There are other things you could explore apart from sex.
  9. 2 of my friends went through similar situations, one friend left and regrets it to this day. She'll never know if she kept trying if it would work out. My other friend he knew in his mind what he had to do but same as you his heart wasn't ready to leave so he stayed... It didn't end well and he got hurt by his now ex partner but he's glad he stayed. He gave it everything he could it didn't work out but then are still really close and he has no regrets... My reply doesn't really help, I've never been through this but it sounds like you aren't ready to throw in the towel. In my experience your h
  10. One last thing... I never thought it might be embarrassing for him. We can talk about everything except this of course. Honestly I can't believe I've stooped to this level either I'm not proud of it but I've only brought the subject up twice maybe 3 times and that's spaced out over a few months. I've never really let him know I've been obsessing... Wow I'm going to stop there because I look like a total nutter ha who am I kidding I am clearly nuts but I am craving love and affection and I want my man back...
  11. I've never confronted him with the recordings I would never embarrass him like that and I know it's totally creepy on my part... It's more so I for sure know Him telling me it's all in my head and I'm hearing things isn't the case, there's no doubt in my mind that he is gas lighting me..porn doesn't bother me at all I watch porn but I don't lie about it and I don't choose porn over sex with him. He claims to be this honest person but he can't be honest about this one little thing and it's made me not trust him at all. I haven't brought it up again because I know he will just lie to me. Thank
  12. Stop the porn completely and you'll notice a huge difference. Don't let her comment get you down or make you feel insecure, your perfectly normal and a guy's girth isn't important trust me. When you have sex with her try not to think too much just enjoy it. When you think to much you can lose you're erection or even cum prematurely. The effects of porn on you're brain can be very damaging in ways you wouldn't believe yourbrainonporn.com check it out but seriously no more porn and get out of your head during intercourse. You'll be fine you'll get your confidence back. Me and my partner went tho
  13. The ball is in her court. She needs to decide her next move BUT if she leaves the bf why wouldn't she just do the same to you (cheating emotional/physical) could you fully trust her? The fact that she hasn't left him already is a pretty big sign she might not.... Good luck
  14. I've never had a problems in past relationships due to porn but I've also never had a partner lie about it either. I've been with my fella for 7 years and we have a 8 month old daughter. One night I was sitting in the lounge room when I say out the corner of my eye my bf poke his head around the corner and when I looked up at him if darted back to bed and prevented to be asleep. My only thought was hes about to have a wank (in past relationships I could always talk about anything like that so I assumed the same with this one). When I brought it up if bluntly lied to me. Usually if I ask a rand
  15. I've never had a problems in part relationships due to porn but I've also never had a partner lie about it either. I've been with my fella for 7 years and we have a 8 month old daughter. One night I was sitting in the lounge room when I say out the corner of my eye my bf poke his head around the corner and when I looked up at him if darted back to bed and prevented to be asleep. My only thought was hes about to have a wank (in past relationships I could always talk about anything like that so I assumed the same with this one). When I brought it up if bluntly lied to me. Usually if I ask a rand
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