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  1. One thing I don't understand is that if he really fell out of love why would he act so affectionate with me. Somtimes he would call me 'my girl' when I told him I was going to an event he told me that he will have spy's there making sure I'm not with other guys (he was joking but still). He told me if I ever have a new boyfriend I should block him from everywhere because he never wants to see that. I forgot to mention met up the week before aswell. (We didn't sleep together that time). But he was acting so affectionate. Holding my hand and putting it against his cheek and kissing it. He went to kiss me first I wasn't even going to go there. A few days later he text me saying he misses me and he can't stop smelling the perfume I left at his place because it reminds him of me. The following week when we slept together he told me that sex was different with me than it was with anyone else because it ment something. He told me hes still so attracted to me to. Why would he give so many mixed signals? He told me he feels great when we're together but he's afraid of we got back together he would start having doubts again the way he did before
  2. One thing I don't understand is that if he really fell out of love why would he act so affectionate with me. Somtimes he would call me 'my girl' when I told him I was going to an event he told me that he will habe spy's there if other guys start talking to me (he was joking but still). He told me if I ever get a new boyfriend I should block him from everywhere because he never wants to see that. I forgot to mention we met up a week before that (we didn't sleep together this time) we were meeting up as friends but he went to kiss me first and he was acting really affection ate. Holding my hand then kissing it. Looking at me with puppy dog eyes. Then a few days later texting me to say he misses me and he can't stop smelling the perfume I left at his place because it reminds him of me. Talk about mixed signals
  3. Thank you that does make a lot of sense I guess he just fell out of love and tried to do what he thought was best
  4. What I ment was I thought it would be safe to go for a guy who seemed really nice instead of the bad boy player type. Don't make me sound like a bad person. He doesn't feel used he only has great things to say about me and said I never did anything to be treated like that and that I'm the most caring person he knows.
  5. Yeah I thought he was a safe choice what's wrong with that? It doesn't mean I didn't love him and care about him I just felt safe like he would never hurt me compared to guys I'd usually go for.
  6. I was in a relationship with a guy who had good morals and it's what I liked most about him. He was the type that was always helping strangers going out of his way for people. He adored me and never stopped trying to make me happy and cheered me up when I was sad. He would go to my grandmothers house and help her with her garden and take my little brother to go see a movie while i was at work in his free time. He always told me how lucky he felt to have me and that I was out of his league. To be honest I thought he was a safe choice . He broke up with me suddenly which is fine people somtimes change there minds even if it does hurt. There was no bitterness in the break up he said really nice things about me and told me he'd always be here for me. I was heartbroken. After the break up he tried really hard to stay in my life and would still act really loving almost like he was still my boyfriend . We eventually met up and I told him that all this cummincation had to stop he had to make a choice either he was going to get back with me or let me go. He cried and said he couldn't lose me but was afraid to hurt me again basically talking bull. I said my goodbyes and went to walk away but he stoped me and said he couldn't let me go and agreed to work on things. We had a great day together and I ended up going back to his place and we slept together . The next day he was acting so distant and cold and when I left he texted me saying his head is messed up and he doesn't think he made the right decession. I was extremely annoyed and asked him why he couldn't tell me that yesterday and let me walk away with my dignity. I felt used and cheap and it was a big blow to my self esteem I cried the whole way home like a loser. A few days later he told me he had never wanted to get back together but hated seeing me upset that's why he did what he did and he was sorry and he said he was having sleepless nights because of the guilt and basically admitted to using me and had the nerve to say he still wanted me in his life. Obviously that was a really crappy thing what he did I just don't understand how someone who seemed like such a good person could do that to someone to claim to care for? How could you just use someone then throw them away like trash. I never expected this from him and now the idea of dating anyone else is so scary to me because people can put up a really good front and make you think they're a good person when they're not. I'm going to find it hard to trust
  7. Thanks everybody for the feedback. It was much appreciated.
  8. I asked him what he ment he said he cares about me too much to never speak again and that if I'm ever going through anything and want to talk he will always be there
  9. He knows I would never go there again because of how angry I was with him and he's the type that hates drama and he really would've hated the fact my mom text him. He knows going there would be too much trouble. Surely if he wanted sex that bad he could get it elsewhere. Maybe he likes the fact I'm into him and wants me around to feed his ego and for control.
  10. He text me today saying that he's been thinking about me a lot and he can't lose me completely because I mean something to him and he's sorry. What does this mean?
  11. There is nothing like your first heartbreak. You think the pain will last forever and that this person is ment for you. You just know it. Nobody understands what you had. You will never feel this way about anyway again ect ect. I bet these are thoughts your having but they aren't true. Yes it may feel real right now and I know you're feeling a lot of pain but time will heal! I promise you one day you will feel that way again! Just believe it. Don't live in false hope. Live your life. Set goals for yourself to keep you distracted. Be the best version of you. What's ment to be will be. Don't rush into a rebound relationship though, they only make you miss your ex more
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