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  1. to Bewitched1101 please listen to the previous poster, my take: i'm not quite sure, but you sound like someone that doesnt need attention, but a person who wants more than what you currently have( not being rude here ). i think you must have felt like something is still missing, even if he's doing all the stuff, just my opinion. i need more of your input here : ) coz i think the guy is really doing he's best, try to put yourself in his shoe, working and maintaining his car, maintaining his friends, and trying his best to spend time with you. if you dont have much to offer him right now, then i guess its fair enough not to ask more from him coz its not easy, having those kinds of responsibility. this guy will burn out soon, dont be surprise if this would be an issue in the future, plan first before confronting or like talking to him.
  2. okey thats good news, but the two of you should stick with your decisions, like taking the time to heal before anything else that is more than friendship.
  3. thanks man, so any updates on the ex, wats your progress, post more, so that people could give some advice also
  4. that sounds progress to me, hang in there man the road to healing is a bumpy road, sometimes you feel better and somtimes you dont, because you miss the ex (recent gf) make yourself busy. I wish i have your strength coz right now i feel so damn sad, anyway even if i'm faking it right now that i feel better, i take things one day at a time, hopefully things will get better for me and for you. Everyday i'm reading your story, and its giving me strength, keep on posting man
  5. i completely i agree with the previous posters, but okey if you're confused you must find someone a friend or your immediate parent, they will guide you on the right decision, pls dont take this alone, i promise you he will ruine your life, i know how feels when you have strong feelings for a person, and that person is taking advantage of you, and you not knowing it, pls pls take the right direction, like staying away from this guy, good luck and keep us posted ( the previous posters and I are very worried and i apologise if you see our advice as some what rude, but i mean every word in a nice way) pls pls take the right direction, you are still young.
  6. my take to this, just make yourself busy man, i feel your pain, and i'm in the same boat as you, if you keep on contacting her it would just open up your healing wounds, and your emotional healing will take a long time, the sooner you implement NC the better, and its okey to feel that way the break up is still fresh, acknowledge the loss and accept the break up thats one thing you should bare in mind. Just focus on you and only you, good luck and keep us posted.
  7. i think what he's trying to say is, if you feel sad there's an equivalent happiness, he sent you this artistic writing to soften the blow, and he feels guilty of what happened between the two of you, he wants you to understand that things will get better without him. for me thats he's way of relieving the guilt feeling, because he doesnt know how to break things gently with you.
  8. i have the same situation, so how do you deal with a self centered person? how can you make them love you back?
  9. darkpumpkin i completely agree with kellbel and i know exactly how you feel, its like your trap and that you feel its impossible to move on, everyday you think about him and you always cry, you cant eat or sleep. you know why, because 7 months is still a fresh break up, and you're not yet healed, dont force yourself to move on, just let things flow and do its own task, if you feel like venting then write all of it here, a lot of people are going through the same thing, so you're not alone, i know its hard for you right now because you dont have a support system thats not all ears for you (e.g friends) i say make yourself busy. at first it doesnt seem like you're not going to make it or everything you do to forget doesnt work, well trust me and all the people around here, you'll make it, healing is a long process be prepared its a bumpy road sometimes you miss him, sometimes you dont, hang in there
  10. hi i think it would be best that you keep moving forward and if he likes you, he'll make a move and get you back, dont put your hopes high when he's looking at you, or you feel that he's not over you yet, there's nothing we could really do to get our ex back, we cannot changed their mind's, but what we can do is take good care of ourselves, and meet new people, its not like we want to replace them (our exes) as soon as possible, but meeting new people increases our chances of meeting our new love interest, increases the chances of meeting that person that would do anything for us. yes your ex is nice but would you settle for anything less than what u want, basically we want the feeling of being loved back, the feeling of being treated right, your ex will not disappear he's just around the corner, so while waiting for him to make a move, do your best to have a happy life and meet new people i think you're a great catch, good luck to you and keep on posting
  11. hi i feel for you and for your BF, it would be best if you try to finish it right away, so that you won't prolong the hurt that you'll inflict to your BF, i am not promoting to break up with him and "go with what you feel with this new guy," but i would suggest to really think hard and spend time being alone for awhile, and try to understand what you really want in your life and act on it, sometimes we act on our random impulse, i'd say take your time to know this new guy first before jumping in. good luck and keep us posted
  12. hi gradle i just read some of your post here, i know exaclty how that feels, i have that habit of checking my ex's profile, i mean that really hurts if i see her with a new guy, i agree with the other posters here, stop checking your exbf's profile, it wont do anything good to you and you wont benefit a thing just pure "hurt" the road to healing is a long journey, just hang in there : ) P.S. just a tip there's a new feature of frienster that tells you if someone is viewing your page, "j" would really know
  13. hi i know your hurt, 8 years is hard to forget, please dont think that its all your fault, when you feel so much for that person you try your best to make it work, that's perfectly normal. but let me tell you this, what's important now is your healing, please dont hold on to what he says that he "still loves you" maybe he doesn't want to hurt you, and saying "i dont love you anymore" is too much for you too handle. please be gentle to yourself
  14. hi i'd say just keep the flow going, try not to be the clingy guy before, just sit back and relax let things happen, until she says she wants you back and she's willing to make it really work, then thats the time you have to be comfortable. good luck.
  15. hi its normal to feel that way, i guess you've read or heard it a million times, but what i'm going to say to you now is really the truth. two months is still a fresh break up, and its still far from healing, give yourself more time to heal its ok to cry, if you feel like you need alot of advice or someone to talk to, or you want to pour all your heart out, vent here, alot of people here have alot to say just read other post and you'll definitely learn new things base on other people's experience, i'll guarantee you things will get better try this link it will surely give you an idea on what's happening to you link removed keep on posting
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