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  1. So what is my action plan? Should be noted I love this girl very much and she has never given me a reason to suspect she doesn't feel the same but can this be forgiven do I accept her apologies and attempts to fix this and move on with our relationship or do I end it now?
  2. She has repeatedly cried to me and said how much she loves me, she has decided to cut communication with this guy regardless or not if I want her to although I don't believe she would have told me if I hadn't found out
  3. They've been friends for longer than I've known her for, I feel as if she'd begin to resent me if I decide her friendships for her and it doesn't make a healthy relationship
  4. What I did was try my hardest to eradicate my ex from my life completely for while, blocked on everything, ignored calls, made her see I was doing well for myself and most importantly spent alk my time with my friends and I got through it in the end
  5. Me and my girlfriend have been going through a rough patch at the moment due to me developing health anxiety and minor depression and it has really taken a toll on us but she stuck with me through it all, I noticed a distance in her and we discussed and sorted it all out and we were on the road to being happy again. Last night I had an opportunity to read her messages as I knew she'd been texting a guy she slept with a long time ago (I know I shouldn't have gone through her phone but I was drunk and my anxiety got the better of me) there were some flirty texts there and I noticed when she wasn't replying or talking to me she had been chatting away to this guy in massive paragraphs and cheeky flirty messages such as talking about what she was wearing to an Ann summers party and saying she wished she was with him when he mentioned he wished she was there. I brought it up to her and she said it meant nothing and that was the way her and this guy had always talked to eachother, she acknowledged it was flirty and apologised saying she would cut all contact with him to which I said I don't want her to do that as I don't want to be the reason she loses a friend. Since this happened she has told me she thought nothing of what was said and she loves me and wants to do anything to make it up to me that she can and that the shady buisness stops here or our relationship does. The question is do I forgive her, I understand why she was pushed away due to our relationship troubles but I thought we were getting better, I'm just a bit confused and need someone to advise me on if I should end it now or forgive her and move on, If I trust her when she says nothing was going to come out it and she will never do it again I open myself up to being a pushover and it happening again and in my current head state I dont think I can do this again, somebody please help
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