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  1. my ex is in love with a new kid he lives 40 mins away but sleeps over often they are very sexutaly active i still try to keep contact with her on the hope someday she will give me another chance i heard alot about no contact but that worries me im afraid she will move on with her new group of friends and forget bout me has anyone been in a promblem like this before when we were toghether it was just us now she has been chillen with people she nows i dont like should i keep calling her, or do any of you have any suggestions on how i could back with her even if it takes a while ?and has anyone ever been in the same situation and been able to hook up with your girl again? any advise would help except the moving on stuff and yes i really love her
  2. i find myself home on this friday night first time in many years i met this girl 1 year ago and we broke up 3 weeks ago shes all over the board we still talk even though she alreay meet a guy 3 weeks ago and is already sleeping with him on wednesday we went to the beach and hade a couple of drinks and thats when i found out i really dont care shes sleeping with another kid i still want her back because she is so perfect for me its to bad she had to leave before i figurred that out i really want her back when we were together we were perfect except for the ocassinal jelousy fits i would have about fone calls and such anyway i asked her at lest 10 times that if she broke up with the new kid would she give me another chance and every time she said yes she said we will try to remain friends but i am having trouble getting time to spend with her because she is spending alot of time with her new man we talk on the phone olmost every day i think i am doing most of the calling and we have been out twice since the break up i have visted her about 6 other times half ended in fights crying on bolth sides and then mutal agrements to stay in touch i am 19 and she is 18 in a couple of months she starts school again in 2 days and i asked pick her up from work sunday so i could see her before she goes back any way i will wait along time for this girl even though she hurt me so much for another chance because i love her so much it has been preaty rocky but now the break up seems alittle eaiser i was just woundering if any one has ever been able to convince there ex that they have changed and to give them another chance even though the ex has already filled there time with another kid and how they did it? also if anyone has ever been in a sitiation like myself and how did it pan out? any commets or suggetions would be greatly appreatioted
  3. if you love this girl you just have to trust her becuse if you dont she'll move on to some one that will you cant be to possevie or controlling but you also cant be a push over its a fine line but trust is a very impotant thing in a relationship
  4. i remember when my girlfriend would miss her peroid sometimes it could be her age or if she has been exercizing more or if she has gained or lost wait i wouldnt wory about until it becomes weeks over due so just chill out and its a good time to think about being more carful birthcontroll an dcondems togher work great u ask her her apinoin about going to a clinic and getting some birth contoll i hope shes not pregant and every thing works out but im sure shes nevous to so be extra nice to her peace
  5. I meet my ex gf one year ago and until two weeks ago we spent every day from morning to night together. She went on vacation with her family and did not call me all week, so i thought she might be mad at me. When she got back she called. I asked her why she didnt call me all week and she replyed she didnt want to call me from another guys cell phone, right then i new we were going to have "the talk'' i didnt know what to say so in anger "i said thats cool bye". I left work and called her back about 30 mins later still a mess and asked her if i could come see her. I drove to the appartments were she lives and she got in my car and said she has been doing alot of thinking and she wanted to break up. i couldnt believe it for one year all she would say is how cute i am and how much she needed me. She said I was to controling and she it has nothing to do with anyone else she meet whil on vacation, and she still wanted to friends because she didnt want to loose me completely. I tried to beg her three times after the break up to give me another chance which i now now is a mistake from all the post i have read. The last time i saw her 2 days ago she said she thinks we bolth need time before we can be friends and she did meet another kid on vacation in our area 'south boston' in my sadness i asked her if that did not work out would she give me another cahnce and she replyed yes. I asked her to keep a picture of me with a poem on the back about missing her now we havent talked for two days. NOW FOR MY QUIESTIONS i was just wondering if anyone had some suggestions on how i could make my angel see how much i need her? how long i should wait before i approach her or call her again,or if i even should? and if i should try to just be friends so we dont loose touch incase she will give me another if things dont wok out between her new man? I really love this girl so much and i'm just looking for some advise or past experences thanks for your help.
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