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  1. Well the reason I want to peruse is because of the level of connection I felt on the date and the commonalitys we had. Can’t say I’ve ever been attracted to a personality so much before I want to continue to explore to see if that actually is her personality. It’s a good point you make, she could be insecure, she did mention she had been through a lot of stuff in her life. My plan is to give it another day or two and send another message via the dating app. What are your guys opinions on this ?
  2. I want to but I don’t want to seem needy and push her away in doing so
  3. Well that’s the plan because by all signs we both had a really good time so unsure of what I’ve done wrong. Anyway plan is to give it a few more days and message her via the app again.
  4. f she was uncomfortable on the date, why would she say how comfortable she felt during the date , thank me for an awesome night in person and message me shortly after the date saying the same thing ?
  5. If she was uncomfortable on the date, why would she say how comfortable she felt during the date , thank me for an awesome night in person and message me shortly after the date saying the same thing ?
  6. Hey guys Just after an opinion of what could be going on? What I should do? Just be honest with me as I’m very confused by it all. Note I’ve not messaged or reached out in any way shape or form since my last message. Here are the details Went on a date with this girl, the date went pretty well in my opinion, we both connected very, she stated how comfortable I made her feel, we had loads in common, we made out several times, lots of touching, she thanked me several times in person during the date. So safe to say it went well. The only downside was that her very protective friend ended our date short by coming and picking her up suddenly. She wasn’t happy about it but what can you do. Anyway her friend and another dude (who was driving the car) come pick her up and that was the end of the night. About 15 minutes later she messages me (on hinge) apologising for how the date ended and again thanking me for an awesome night. I reply saying, “ it’s all good, don’t stress, it’s cute you’ve got someone who cares about you. If I need to take your friend out for coffee to win her over tell her to name the place and time “ in a joking manner. She laughs and “ That’s cute and will do. I honestly thought I’d never hear from you again “. One or two more messages go back and forth and I finish the conversation on hinge by saying “here’s my number ********* give me a text or call I’d rather speak to you over the phone than on this app”. Anyway, several days have gone by and I’ve still not heard a thing since. Not exactly sure what I’ve done wrong here ? What could be going on in her head? Ect? She did mention an ex in the date but pretty sure that ended a while ago.
  7. That’s the thing , parts of it are such a good fit. I’m excited to go back home but I can’t help back shake the feeling I’ve not given myself enough of a chance to settle and fit in
  8. Hi all Around 5 months ago I decided to accept a job in a complete new city which I’ve always wanted to live in away from all my family and friends. At first it was great, I met loads of new people and made some ok friends (not close) through work and sport, I’m doing really well at my new job and they want to invest in me staying because of how well I’m performing. Everything was going great That was until I visited back home, seeing all my friends and family and feeling closet connected to people made me feel so happy and comfortable and made me realise how much I miss and value those people and my home town. It made me rush into a decision to apply for a job back home which I got and due to start in a month and is actually paying higher than my bit city life. I’m so confused as to what to do: the job in the big new city I’m currently at , I love ! The people are so great and it kinda feels like going to work with friends, kinda like the school days. I’ve never been more happy or satisfied with my work life. However once I finish work, most days I feel so lonely and down. I play sport but don’t really feel the passion for it like I did back home and the same goes for the people I hang around with in the new city, I do it because I know I should but I really don’t feel connected or close to them. I miss home so damn much, my family my friends and the person I am kind of seeing... but this job is such a good opportunity for me I just don’t feel connected to anything outside the job. The idea of being here with some close connections excites me but it’s just not happening and with this job offer back home I am so confused as to what to do ? Do i tough it out and stay in a city I love , with a job I love while I battle out the relocation depression ? Or do I go back home to be with the people I love and the place I am deeply connected with ? Remembering that the job back home is actually higher paying , it just won’t grow as much as the city job. Please give me some advice I am absolutely loosing my mind.
  9. So I should blow up her phone ? Not happening.
  10. I was gunna wait until the night before and send something along the lines of “ Did you want me to pick you up tomorrow night ? If not , I’ll just meet you out the front at 7 ! “ ?
  11. So you would agree with me on waiting until the day before hand just to message and confirm we’re still on for the date ?
  12. She did say she a major assignment due by tonight actually and that was taking up a lot of her time. My thoughts were similar , I was just going to wait until the day before to message and confirm it.
  13. She canceled the first date because someone had an accident at work and she had to cover the remainder of that persons shift & she originally wanted to reschedule for 2 days later but I already had plans
  14. I met a girl out, we hooked up on the night and exchanged numbers. I messaged her a few days later and she would always take anywhre from a few hours to a day or two to reply but the text where always long and detailed and the conversation carried well. We organised a date but she had to work late on the night so we rescheduled for the next week. Anyway, we set a date, location and time last Thursday night for this Thursday night. However she never texted back after saying yes to the date. I’ve not texted her or anything since she didn’t write back , just getting a feeling she will cancel or forget about it. What are your guys thoughts ? Is she playing with me here ? What do you think I should do?
  15. Yeah okay well I can see your point of view . So in your opinion I have basically blown any chance with this girl ?
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