Day 1 of Real NC (except childcare)
How could you do this, just turn your back after so many years together, and split up our loving family. I just cannot comprehend how you could do this to me, and the children??
Yes we had issues, but in a marriage you work at them, not do a runner when things turn sour. It's disappointing that you were unhappy for the last 2 years, and you did not think to tell me! That you rather confide in friends than your own husband. I thought we were soul mates, and would be together until one of us passed away. The pain was immense but now I am taking steps to move on with my life.
I am tired of being the only one prepared to save this marriage, and now I initiate NC. I do this for myself, so I can heal from this process & learn from what went wrong.
I know my circle of friends will take a bashing, and there will be many lonely days and nights, but I've been on this journey before, and know one day I will be happy again. I have great people around me, and anticipate that I now have time for many more great people.
RebornAgain x