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  1. Wolfshook
    So, I've been with my GF for a bit less than 3 years now. I love her dearly and everything was perfect up untill the end of last year. Suddenly, she started going for drinks after work and would be comming home later and later. As it went on, she'd come home at between 3 and 7 AM even though we were on a lockdown and no place worked after 12. I was never invited to those outings. What bothered me was the she'd lie to me about when she came home. I was usually asleep and wouldnt look at the clock, but one day I got up to go to the bathroom at 6AM as she was just returning home and it made me look through security footage and finding out that she lied about the times before. After awhile I couldnt take it any more (I was in a relationship before where I was cheated this way) and decided to tell my gf that things cant go that way any more. She promised change and met me with her friends. And things did change for some time. Then she decided she's going on a trip with her work friends. I just couldnt let myself relax over that but decided that its my problem and I didnt want to make a fuss over it (because I should trust her, we're in relationship after all). Then saturday night she calls me at 12 and says her company is going to a club but she'll stay and sleep. I was out and as I came home I saw a story her friend posted from the club and my gf was there. It made me feel bad again as she lied to me once more (I dont mind her going to the club). I confronted her in the morning and we had a big fight where she kept saying how I dont trust her and am insecure. Am I the problem here? Can I fix it somehow? I dont want to live forever this way...
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    I'd like to post a few things here. 1) The girl I was hung up on most of my HS and we had a few short relationships. Well, we split for about 3 years (those 3 years I was with my ex that I originally came here for). Shortly after I broke up with my ex, this girl gets in touch with me and we had a short fling for a few months, but I decided she's not for me and so we split again. 2) My friend broke up with her boyfriend after about a year of dating, then after about 6 months they got back together and dated for another year and then split for good as it seems now. 3) my friend just got back with his ex that he dated about 2 years ago, I dont believe he was in much contact with her. 4)My "the ex" (that I came here for) contacted me long after our original breakup, I dont know what she wanted but I just deleted her message (I was well over her by then). Some of my friends also went back to their exes, but it never quite worked out. Now one thing that probably stands out from all of this. I came here about 3 years ago after a girl I really loved (and were together for a long time and planned our kids, blah blah). It took me about a year to be completely over her. Now there are other girls that are troubling my emotions. What I'm trying to say, to all of you that are hurting now, pain is just temporary, at some point it will get better and you will get over your ex (I'd say forget, but you never actually forget, they just remain in your mind like a good childhood friend that you went out of touch with). Just keep on strong, all it takes is time and avoiding of rubbing the wound. Sometimes it seems like there is no end to a pain, but that's not true, that's just your addiction troubling you.
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    I dont really know which day it is,last we "spoke" was in october. I had a dream about her this night, I was so happy in this dream. And I woke up depressed once again. It's taking too long -.- .
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    I've got one, it's been going from around new years. She broke up with a guy in spring last year. The way she talked about him before breakup was like she hated him from the depths of her soul (no cheating,but he didnt behave just the way she liked it and she lost feelings). On new years eve she says she has a bf,but was secretive about him so I didnt push really. Today I was told by our mutual friend that she's back with this guy that she dumped in spring. I dont really know the middle part,but I know for a fact that there was substantial amount of time that they didnt talk to each other (she blocked him on fb).
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    One of those stories that kill your wishes about getting back with your ex. We need more like this!
  6. Wolfshook
    Day 152, Idk why I feel sad today again. I mean it's bearable but it's not nice. It's been so long...
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    Today,new storry. My female friend was asking me a lot about my best friend which is her ex for the past month. Today she asked him out,but he declined. They dated for a year about 3 years ago and she left him. They did have sporadical contact but nothing major. He still talks of her sometimes when he drinks too much ,and he decided to say no. Kudos to him!
  8. Wolfshook
    In a year of nic never happened to me and there was period of me being sh*tfaced for a week straight 3 months after BU. Just keep strong and delete her number!
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    Well,today I deleted all of our photos that I saved into a special folder. It's hard to grasp that it's been nearly a year... I do feel a lot better. My heart hasnt skipped a beat when I stumbled upon this folder, which gave me good enough indication to delete everything. It all seemed so hard a year ago, who would have tought that time flies so quickly?
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    Umm,people, this is thread where you're supposed to write some successfull getting back together stories. Not your break up stories
  11. Wolfshook
    It hurts the most for first month,it gets easier after.
  12. Wolfshook
    Keep it strong. It's only going to last for a month. Then it'll be easier.
  13. Wolfshook
    Yes it is, especially if you dreamed about her. Anyway,it was over the next day so it's good
  14. Wolfshook
    It's been 2 months, and I've been great up till now. But today I felt sad in morning, but because I realized I dont remember her really. I barely remember her looks,and cant remember her "personality", it's like my brain blocked her. The only thing I remember are her lips .
  15. Wolfshook
    I've been feeling good for quite some time now
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    I have new storry. It's as healthy as 60years old crack junkie with not so modest past,but it is still a storry. Just found out that my female friend got back with her bf. After he cheated on her,forced her on something horrible,hit her and would scream at her in the middle of the night at her family house over nothing... It's been a little less than a year since they split up. Sadly, I know him very good and in my opinion he has just gotten worse over this time. It was mostly NC with sporadic contact from him (she left him).
  17. Wolfshook
    Things will get better over time!
  18. Wolfshook
    About 3 weeks of when she managed to get to me. When I think about months leading to breakup,they were awfull. I was going through bad time and she did all she could to make it worse. She was just picking fights. I do understand why,but I would never want this to happen again. I'm so much better off now. It feels good to be single, I might not be happy because of my life,but in a way I am kind of happy "inside". Things really do get better. Cheers!
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    Wow,what I just witnessed. They broke up about a year after my ex and I started dating. Both had small relationships in between. Today I've seen them together all lovey-dovey. I know the guy and know that it's recent. Wish them luck.
  20. Wolfshook
    Day 8 of nc and about 2 months of NIC. Today has been great, girl at work gifted a chocolate to me,and waitress at my favourite coffee shop offered to buy me a drink. It feels good for my ego. Overall, I feel great today. Haven't been thinking about my ex much for few days now. Things do get better over time! I realized that we werent really right for each other. We fit like left leg shoe to a right leg. On other news, top gear crew is returning soon, cant wait for new stunts with bigger budget. On that bombshell...
  21. Wolfshook
    NC day #4 She contacted me through her sisters number. Told me we need to talk about something, I told her I'm busy learning so she should be quick if it's really important. She told me we will talk some other day. Havent talked yet. Some people can be very persistent in their stupidity. It doesnt hurt much this time though, I hope it stays this way.
  22. Wolfshook
    Oh that's great then! Nice to see you doing great Yeah, I'm pretty much veteran at this whole nc thing, sadly xD
  23. Wolfshook
    Got another one. A month ago guy I know was left by his gf. He messed up. Today I heard they are back together for a few days.
  24. Wolfshook
    Day #55ish It's nearly 2 months and I'm feeling great. It's weird that I can hardly remember her face. And the funny thing is I feel nothing about that. I'm neither sad nor happy about it. Few days ago I deleted our old messages I accidentaly found on my old phone. I reread them briefly. But besides feeling happy I had it once, I didnt feel much, I didnt even miss her. I believe I'm on the good way to move on.
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