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  1. I completely agree; I think it might be fair to give him a chance when he's back and go on one date with him, just to see how we click. Thank you for the advice and I will definitely update the thread if we meet up.
  2. Just to clarify, I definitely did not ever expect any kind of commitment or loyalty from him, seeing as we're just chatting and getting to know each other and that's it. The only reason I've only been chatting with one guy is because 99% of the guys I've matched with on dating apps just stop replying to me after 2 words. And this guy is the only one who's continued talking to me and expressing interest in meeting me. So I kinda just gave up on other guys on dating apps. Online dating is really new to me and a big struggle since I became single right before the pandemic. I definitely don't have
  3. Right, I definitely don't expect anything from him. I just wasn't sure whether or not it was worth giving a chance and meeting with him when he gets back. I think it might be fine to just meet with him one time, but I won't go into it with any expectations.
  4. True, I definitely don't expect any kind of commitment. I think it would be fair to still give him a chance when he's back in my area. But yeah I definitely won't have my expectations too high.
  5. For background, we matched when he was in my area but shortly after we matched, he had to travel for a long period of time for work. But he will be back to my area permanently in 2 more months. I initially kept using the dating app, even after matching with him, and found that 99% of the guys I matched with never replied to me. So I kinda just gave up on it after a while. This guy is the only one who actually expressed interest in meeting me, but he can't until he's back in my area.
  6. All very good advice and good criteria to have. For me, the problem is that 99% of guys on these dating apps don't ever reply to me or they chat with me for a few messages and then disappear. Online dating has just not been working for me and I can't really meet anyone the natural way due to COVID. That's the only reason I've given this one guy any consideration, because he's the only one who actually seems interested.
  7. I completely agree. I would be doing the same too, but 99% of the guys I've matched with on dating apps don't reply past two words, so it's pretty tough to find someone who's actually interested enough to meet in person.
  8. True, you never know what secrets someone could be hiding... I just wish it wasn't so difficult to meet people in the middle of a pandemic haha.
  9. Right, I completely agree and I definitely never expected exclusivity in any way. We were really just chatting and getting to know each other virtually since dating during COVID is a big struggle. I also was still using the dating app for a while to talk to other guys but the problem is that 99% of other guys on dating apps stop replying after like 2 words. This guy is the only one who has continued to talk with me and actually expressed interest in meeting me as soon as he can, that's why I'm really only talking to him right now. I pretty much just gave up on other guys from dating apps since
  10. That would definitely give me an answer, but I'm just apprehensive about being too direct or coming across too needy.
  11. I am a female in her 20s. I met this guy through a dating app and we've been chatting online for about 5 months now. He is currently in another country for work but normally lives in the same area I'm in. He has expressed interest in meeting me when he gets back to my area in a few more months. He's mentioned wanting to meet me a few times now. We had moved from chatting on the dating app to texting a long time ago. I also stopped using the dating app since I started talking to him, as I'm pretty interested in meeting him and I'm not really looking into any other guys right now. But I just rec
  12. Yeah, ultimately I can't control who either of them talk to but I will certainly not be friends with her if she actually tries to continue this or lets it continue. I just don't see any reason in the world that a so-called "friend" would be entertaining the advances of my ex. I think breaking off the friendship is my best option at this point. Thank you for the advice.
  13. I definitely think that is the case. She has been acting incredibly shady and secretive lately and I truly suspect that something has been going on. I am just going to start distancing myself from her. Thank you for the advice.
  14. Yup, she has done a lot of questionable things in the past and doesn't seem to be a genuine friend. I'm going to start distancing myself from her for sure.
  15. Yes, she has been acting extremely shady in regards to this whole thing. I am definitely going to start distancing myself. Thank you for the advice.
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