hopeparis
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Don't over analyse... Try to stay off FB as much as you can, or you'll get stuck in that obsession. Good luck, you're gonna make it !
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Break up 20 NC 16 I really was about to break NC yesterday because of the attacks in Paris (we live there). Thing is we have a FB conversation with all of our friends, so I sent a message to the whole group to know everyone was ok. It would have appeared needy to text him individually. It's just the type of moments when you still care about the person and you miss them more than anything. Today was OK because he wasn't around. We don't have class until Tuesday so it's kind of a break for me.
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19 day post break up 15 day NC Today was so hard.. I held back my tears all day long. He's in my class and there's nothing I can do to avoid him. It's like I fall back in love with him each time I see him. The pain will never stop.
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Yeah, I agree. I think it shows maturity more than anything else on your case. Don't worry about it.
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rhulk, that doesn't mean you have to talk to him. Be polite and say hi, but then proceed to doing your own thing and hanging out with your friends so you don't have to reset NC all over again. I know what it feels like, I've been in the same weird situation. Just be yourself.
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Day 17 of breakup, 13 of NC. Thank you SeanCages. I see him going out every night after school, so it's kind of driving me crazy. I've started to feel better, I'm finding happiness within myself which is a good thing. I cry less often, it's become another kind of pain. Not the excruciating type anymore, now it's more of a constant wave of sadness. I still have the hope that he'll come back. I have a lot of mixed signals when I see him, when he's around our friends (not specifically interacting with me) l see something in his behavior changing, he gets very happy for one second but then his whole mood changes - he gets unhappy and very closed for the rest of the day. When I'm around him, he seems hurt, he doesn't even look me in the eyes (while he's the one who left me), but then proceeds to go out... It's a very weird/confusing situation. I have to stop focusing so much on what he might be feeling/doing and more on myself. I'm seeing him tomorrow with another friend for a project. Don't know how I'm gonna handle this one. Do you think guys have a very different way of handling break ups ?
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Yeah, that's true. It's just such a shock to me that he hasn't even texted me or anything, like all of this relationship meant nothing to him. While I'm here hurting. It just really hurts.
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That's very brave of you youngman, knowing she wants you back. You're very strong. Keep doing you.
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Day 13 of no contact, although I see him everyday... it's been particularly hard. The condom thing had me questioning our entire relationship. I feel used. Also a very hard night because we were supposed to see the Cirque du Soleil tonight for my birthday. The posters of it are everywhere in town. It's like there's no way to escape him. I hope tomorrow will be better. It's been two weeks of constant pain. I'm exhausted. I shouldn't have to go through all this at 19. I feel so old.
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Yeah, you're tight. The break up alone was very difficult to me, and this only adds to my pain. I feel like . He seems to be perfectly ok without me.
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So we just went out with our group of friends and on the way something fell out of his pocket... a condom. I know I shouldn't be feeling like this since we're not together anymore, but it's been 2 weeks and he's already sleeping with other people? Why do I feel so betrayed? I'm disgusted... Wow.
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Thanks Petunia. Yes, it's incredibly hard. I've made the mistake of ignoring him when I left on Friday. I'm working on that, but it's really hard because it makes all these memories reappear (in France to say goodbye you have to kiss people on both cheeks). I'm trying to avoid being around him as much as possible, but I'm slowly feeling like I'm losing my friends because of that, since I see them less. It's been 15 days today since we broke up, but 11 days of real no contact since I contacted him on day 3 and 4 to exchange some stuff. I'm also afraid the NC won't make him miss me as he sees my in school everyday... he hasn't contacted me since the breakup. I feel so anxious
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Hey guys, I'm on day 10 of no contact but he's in my class in college and and share the same group of six friends... Should I completely ignore him ? (knowing that I want us to get back together down the road)