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About RILEY1982

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  • Birthday 07/13/1982
  1. I have been chating to a shy girl at work she has been coming out of her shell more (and teasing her a little) The question is another work colleague (female) has been asking if i have a g/f. Did they ask for her or are they being friendly also one of the company gossip asked me the same question within half hour. The first girl who asked me is not a gossip though. But the girl i was chatting to ran into her car at home time maybe she had to go or maybe she was avoiding me i am unsure. Maybe i am reading too much into it.
  2. A girl started contacting me out of the blue after a few years and we started chatting and arranged to go out. We talked alot had a laugh and got close. She asked me to pick her up from work at lunch then she cancelled she was stuck at work i thought that is prob genuine. We would talk on the phone every couple of days (not to crowd her) then we went out for a meal and the cinema and a bon fire party. We arranged to go out for a new years party with my friends from my acting club she cancelled 30 mins before i pick her up. I was too embarressed to go on my own so i went home and sat in my
  3. I know a little bit what you are going through it is hard as i am shy not as much as i was. I never had hardly any friends. It is self confidence i think you will get better what helped me is i joined a drama group (as a hobby) and it gave me a bit of confidence. That may help.
  4. Thanks for the advice. If he follows me i will pull over and ring the police i have a dash cam in my car (to use as evidence). When he was shouting at me he kept shouting he is in control he is the boss when he was just the same as me a normal worker. One time at break i was eating a chocolate bar and he tried to take it off me shouting i said you can not eat that. He kept shouting at me default setting (As i do not want to get involved when they moan about someone behind their back)
  5. The guy has pushed the boss before shouting at him over time off. I mentioned that incident to HR my boss was in the room and my boss said the shouting never happens to him. Then in the same sentence the boss says he just shouts and pushes him back which i said that is not the professional way. The guy has followed the boss home before (the boss lives 10 miles away) and timed how long it takes the boss to get to work as he was telling everyone. The owner is only at work 2 days a week HR only works 4 hours a day and the boss watches TV in his office most of the day as there is not anyone th
  6. My friend who i know through my drama club works as a counselor i have had a little bit with her. The company showed me no support what so ever they tried to ignore the problem the bully has pushed and shouted at our manager before.
  7. Thanks the guy has also followed me outside of work i went to a friends house and he followed me for (about) 3 miles and he watched me go in and he reversed and drove off.
  8. I have been getting bullied for a while at work (nearly two years) by a colleague. He would shout for no reason and try to bully me. He would ask what you got up to last night or the weekend then have a snide comment or have a dig at you. So i started only talking about work but being polite. The bully was slating another work colleague behind their back and i said i did not want to get involved. (as i never slated anyone there) So the guy started having ago at me shouting angrily you are 36 not 13 i said i know how old i am. He kept having ago at me all day saying default setting i do n
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