beanpot
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Good on you! Even if you have those days/moments when you feel really down about it (and they will most certainly come up) don't let it worry you. It's a rollercoaster and there will be high points and low points. The goal is to continue to hit higher and higher points : )
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Completely with agree your last sentence. Nobody should live life counting down toward an event. We've all done that so much, especially just immediately post-break up because there are things that were planned together, special events, holidays, etc... I found that the easiest way to move past this was when I didn't hear from her on my birthday. Somehow that huge level of disappointment allowed me to move on faster. Try to use those disappointments as a positive force for you to move on.
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That's wonderful Agree with Saluk to remember all the lessons you learned from the failures before so give this new opportunity the best chance for success! I'm kind of on the opposite end... with us being NC day count buddies and all haha (though I lost count). I'm finally reaching a point where the light at the end of the tunnel is visible. And it's a beautiful bright light... marching toward it one day at a time.
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Sorry you saw that Saluk... I can imagine it being gut-wrenching. I will say that the way I started to finally get over my ex was to see all of the things that was posting on Instagram... I had held onto hope thinking she had not moved on. When I realized that she had... then my grip opened and I let go. I wish you godspeed as you progress toward that goal... life can be sweet again...
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I don't know if any of you watch The Big Bang Theory... but this last episode ended on a bittersweet note. "I excel at many things, but getting over you wasn't one of them" Not going to expand on that... if you watch the show you'll understand I'm happy to say that I feel like I'm to that point... maybe... finally...
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Day 79: Rare instances of sadness and sorrow. Always, inevitably, due to music.
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Welcome It'll be a rollercoaster indeed, but we'll be here.
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That's a tough letter to read. A bitter pill. It indeed sounds like a closure type of email. Part of it might be sad that it is taking away threads of hope. Part of it is good in that it gives you a way, a reason, to move on... How are you holding up.
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What happened?
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That's a tough path that you've been on my friend. Thank you for sharing your experience so that we may learn from it. And I totally hear you about songs... any music... goodness I can make ANY song about her haha... it's horrible.
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It's a slippery path my friend but I totally understand the desire. Regardless of the outcome, you can fall back here. There are small things... small things... that I still cling onto as hope despite losing hope...
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Day 65: This...