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I've been dating this girl for 2 weeks now,and I know she likes me alot, and I like her alot too, and we sit alot and just stare at eachother for minutes at a time, which then I'll ask her what she is thinking. I was getting the response NOTHING at first, (of course) the it came to her saying I had to guess. My question for you all is, Is it dumb to ask such a question???

Ok, I've been doing this online dating for about a month now and have found some great new friends. I just resently met this girl and on our first date I brought her a dozen orange and pink roses, she was so happy to get them. We then went for a 3 hour walk along the river, talked about everything, and we really enjoyed our company together. After the walk she invited me over to her house where we sat around listening to music and having a few drinks. After a couple hours of her sitting in the chair accross from me, I decided to grab her hand and pull her onto the couch where we cuddled for about two hours. That was the end of a great night. Now I think I really like this girl, and we are going out again, but I'm boggled by what to bring her on the second date? I really don't want to get more roses. Something simple, but very suprising would be great. Any info would help me sooo much.

Ok, I've already explained my breakup, and for you that haven't read it yet, a quick summary: My ex and I dated for 6 years, she left me 3 months ago to go have "fun" (sex more or less). We are still friends (friends with privlages) but I really don't like our current situation, as a barely see or talk to her anymore (mabey talk to her once a week, see her once every three weeks). So I'm tring to win her heart back, I get to see her this weekend for 3 whole days, and I need some very romantic ideas that I can do for her in her apartment. I can't really take her anywhere, I know she'll want to stay indoors. I really need to WOW her, cause after this, I'm going to let her go, and hopefully the NC will bother her to come back to me. who knows.

I know where your coming from popvix, I'm in the same boat. My girlfriend is now having fun with her MEN co-workers, as in having sex with them, she just to see what she has been missing I guess, which I understand because she has only been with me since she was 16, and we've been dating for 6 years. I have a had a blow up argument with her a few times, and I soon found out that its not helping win her back. So now I have to deal with it, and support her desission. It hurts to see her sleeping with other people, but I love her so much, that I'm willing to wait for her. So my advice to you is if you love her and you know she might come back to you, support her, and she'll more than likely come back to you, more than she would if you were mad at her. If you don't think you too will get back together, move on, spend time with friends and family. Keep yourself busy. I know its hard, I can't get my gf out of my head for 1 min, but thats life.

Hi everyone. I'd like to say before I get into this long explanation that I checked this site out a few days ago, and MAN, do I wish I found it the hour after we broke up. This is my nightmare: My girlfriend Pam (age 21 ) and I (age 28 ) have been dating for 6 years now. It has had its ups and downs, but we loved each other deeply. I lived with her the first 2 year of out relationship, then moved 600 miles away to take a job there for 2 years. It was hard being that far apart, but I came and seen her every weekend, or she'd come see me. Then I moved a little closer, now I'm 250 miles away, and in the same Province. I've been here for 2 years now, and have been trying to get back to her but the jobs in my field are scarce there. About 2 months ago, she left me. She handed me a note saying that she didn't want to be with me anymore, that she wanted to be independend for awhile. I chased her down that night after clearing my head. Talking with her, I was told she still loved me very much, but she just wanted to experience independance. I really didn't want to lose her, I love her so much, and I came up with this stuipd idea that we could still see each other but have no commintments with each other (more or less sex, and to have her near me) I was fine with this cause she told me she wanted to come back to me, but needed time. She really convinced me that it was true. Well, about a month ago I found out (she told me) that she was sleeping with other ppl, and she was just having sex for the fun of it. I found out that she slept with a married man, and a few more ppl, and she works with all these guys. I can't be mad, cause we're not dating anymore, and there is not commitments between us (but we do have and agreement that when we are with someone eles we must ware protection during sex, we can't get into any relationships, no I love you to other people), but this was still hurting me. I tried playing mind games with her, trying to get her back. It has been three months now, and hoping she would come back to me by now. But I'm afraid she's just having to much FUN. It was just the other day I found out about NO CONTACT. So when she phoned me collect the other day, I refused it. (hoping she'd try again). It has been 4 days, and I haven't heard from her yet, and its driving me insane. I know she's out camping right now with all her MEN co-workers, and doesn't want to think about me right now. Now I don't know if I did the right thing by hanging up on her the other night, I really want to know if I ticked her off, or if its bothering her the at all. Is it possible just to SLEEP around and still want to get back with someone later down the road? Could anyone eles here handle there ex sleeping around, and you waiting for them to come back? Has anyone here done what she has done, and went back to thier ex after? Was it the relationship better afterwards? I really really really really really want her back. I don't know what to do.