Bubbles_159

After reading your compliant I find it hard to believe that this was the one issue you decide to moan about. Over the last few months I have analysed our relationship and I can see there were many areas in which my personality needed to grow and mature but being a freeloader was never one of them. Do you forget all the times I put money in your pockets or paid for you? I think its quite hurtful that you felt this way, I had no idea the extent of your resentment of me. As for being stingy you miss the point - it was never about paying for me. All I wanted was for you to leave your games for a while and be a little bit spontaneous and surprise me once in a while. I suppose all I wanted was for you to want me as much as I wanted you. I think I made the right decision to move on.

awww. you poor thing. yeah, i can amagon that can be rather difficult to deal with=( I'm a New Zealander=) live in Auckland. I can tell you anything you need to Know about New Zealand and the people here, i mean i am after all one of them=) so please feel free to P/M me anytime or Email me=) I'm Happy to help because i kn this must be VERY scary for you=(

I don't believe there are any obveious ways in which a girl shows that she likes a boy, though in my experence this is what i tend to do: -Well whenever he would talk to me i would usually blush -smilling alot in his presents -doing goofy things because im nervious -talking loudly, stumbling on words... -paying extra attendion to him, like making an effort to look good, smile and always say "hi" to him. -facing him and with more speaking to jst him in a group situation -flirting, blushing while flirting -blushing while he smiles at you -keeping an eye on him -asking his mates "general" questions about him people also try NOT to make there crush obvious by giving there crush the evils, avoiding them, becoming VERY quiet round them...atc... i hope this is some help

hehe FUN questions! well for me, I ALWAYS glance regurarly at the guy of my fancy i try not to make it obveious though Umm, I have never had a "date on request" like that. So i'm not too sure. I think i would be VERY flattered but it depends whether i have an instant connection with the guy in mind. NO i dont, i try to either look the other way if he catches my eye, blush, or gve him the evils(???) i don't know why i do that ut i just do hehe, thats been fun, i hope ive been some help

Cutting is where someone has frustration, build up of emotons/ feelings and feel they have no means in which to escape. People cut themselves because it feels lik a realise of emotion and a way in which they can realise that built up energy. (this is the same for MANY drug users)

yeah shelby911 has a point here. Thought i don't know, i guess at one point everyone asks that question with the one they love. All i know is to tell if you truley are soulmates, just look at that person for what he is, can you life with his faults, can you love him reagardless? look at him as a whole first before making any decissions like that and remember there are plenty of others out there..

you poor thing, i have a grandma who's JW... it's horrible everyday she comes to visit, she gives me bible studies. She thinks i'm the worst person ever and i have disappointed her because i'm a "worldly person" (not JW) look, your parents can't control you like that, you have to be assertive and let them know your true feelings. How else are they even able to realise your feelings. tell them they're being unreasonable and that you have been good all year and will continue to do so, just let them some how feel good about and then persuade them to allow you to go... good luck

Hi what your describing sounds scary, i can very well amagon how that'd screw your mind over but yes, like the others i believe the best thing to do is get help from someone trained or professional. Though yes, i don't believe what you're feeling is a phase as you're right you've been feeling it for to long. Although, you are just 13 years old, you've got years ahead of yo before you make any decissions ok At your age you should be starting to go through "changes" well it is possible that these changes are confussing you and your gender. The thing that is concerning is that you find everything "male" related horribel that's not good, i mean I; a female, enjoy male activities along with female. But DO talk to someone about it ok, even your father again anything to help with you situation

haha, mine was on my 16th Birthday with my current/1st ever boyfriend and 12 you're NOT to late...

Love, yes, interesting question... im not sure really, i guess it's more of a feeling that can't be described... something that you know deep within yourself. That being said i do believe that for different people love can be felt at different levels. I guess i know it's love, when that thought of you ever being alone or loosing your partner is painful. Also when you care for that person and still REALLY like them even after you see all there faults. people often confuse love with Infactualtion. Infactuation is where you think that person is like a god(ess) or you really lust after them. Love is different, love is more of a complanionship. well, thats what i think...

awwww, you're SO cute=') yeah, i know that feeling, was VERY much in the same situation when i met my current boyfriend at work. we'd just have quick 'one liners' never really saying much, i liked before we even got to talking, althugh i remember my 1st chat with him being VERY much like what you've just decribed=) well, if i were you, i'd go for it, your idea of leaving her a note does seem VERY romantic, you should leave her an unsigned note explaning how much you like her, leave one rose with yur letter (very romantic) that way you're let off doing the asking(asking her out) and it'll leave it so its up to her to find out who wrote the letter and then if shes intrested she'll be the one to ask you out, releving you of the pressure, also there would be no fear of rejection as she wouldn't know that it was you=) good luck to you and i hope this helps=D

awww i can tell your neew at the whole relationship thing hehe,well with the whole pants thing it TOTALLY depends on wot type of girl ur after, i prefer slightly loose and comfortble looking but thn again EVERY1s different =D Listen just Remember 1 thing: -BE YOURSELF- theres nothin that a girl likes more than some1 who isnt ashame to be thmselves =D ok, to attract a girl;well this is still depending on the "type" of girl but in general just remember to be yourself, flirt alittle, just be nice and EVERY1 likes the nice guy show her shes special to you, make sure u go outta ur way to improve her day, comfort her if she down.... ok, jst one MAJOR thing to remember play the "Friends" first move, that way shes not affrad to be herself around you either and that way u get to learn about eachother first which IMO is best as u can descover eachothers intrest and find out whether this girl is right for you! again this depends on the type of girl your after and if your after a full on relationship or just a quick fling. and to find out how to dress, just look at the way the girl ur afta dresses and semi copy th@ by dressing in the "boy" verson of her look (IE sk8r boy look) anyways i wish u the best of luck and just remember gud things take time theres no need to rush into a relationship

hey frm wot uve jst said shes TOTALLY got the hots 4 U tho the fact that shes loyal to her BF suggestes tht mayb she DOES love him but shes also lookin for someone closer to home (IE U) thats actually a tuffy... hmMmm well i still believe she "LIKES" u and thn u go ahead by calling her "sis" i mean if i had the hots for a guy and he started calling me Sis id be rather destrote as that ould mean that he only thinks of me as a mate and NOTHIN else T_T Listen jst talk to her ok if she DOES like you thn uve jst opened the perfect oppertunity for her to fully express her feelings and yu never know, u mite b pleasently surprised mayb shes jst worried that if she dumps her BF to go after u and u reject her thn she'll b ALL alone

WOW thats rather sad of him IMO hmMMM no i wudnt say the relationship is goin to end, id jst say that mayb ur BF needs a break, b4 this weekend had you guys been seeing eachother non stop? i know wif my BF that whn ive been seeing him all at once i tend to get abit sick of him, i mean i still love him to pieces but i think i jst need space, mayb you should jst give your BF some space and im sure he'll come around, u never kno, he mite come back stronger that ever b4 but just be careful as this just might be a sign that shes considering moving on. I donno just play it cool for the time being

awww, yeah u seem smitten for her well, i guess the best advise is 'Go with the FLow' i mean u cant say excatly how a relationship will go otherwise they'd have the "relationship bible" and every1 would live by it. Just remember that whn meeting the parents please show ur manners and DONT start an agument with the father (not a gud look) If this girl likes u,, which she cleary does i mean you dont talk non stop to someone just for the hell of it thn im sure she'll like you no matter what i mean she clearly likes you for who you are so you've seriously got NOTHING to worry about