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so over the last 5 years of my life i've relized that i get really jealous of little things. for example a friend could be telling me how they went to a party and thease people were there and we did this, and i want to always be the main person in the story or at the party, i also get really jealous and ticked off when a guys hits on a girl and/or the girl likes the guy at all even sometime when i might not really want to be with the girl but more when i do want to be with her. i relize that most people don't have the same reactions and that itrs sorta selfish, and i don't know how to overcome it.. if anyone know what i'm talking about can you give me some advice to not be so jealous all the time. thanks. lew

hey, Wow rage, "tea" i think you need to chill out, maybe the guy didn't care that much if she was lying or not but just wondering more about the breaking of the hymen. but for the post-er yes some girls don't have a hymen and some don't break, also some break easily, one of my friends said that hers broke while on a run so basically every ones different and could easily be broken or hard to break. good luck in the future. lew

so me and my ex were to gether for about 5 months. she lives about 1 hour and a half away so i don't get to see her alot, but the first two months of our relationship where in the summer and we could see each other basically every other week. and that was great. but as school came we got a bit father apart and she suggested taking a brake and not wanting to lose her i told thats not what i wanted to do and she agreed. so now (september, october) we talk every two days and see each other ever two months which sucked and left me unawhere of everything that was going on. she's the type of girl that likes to be mildly flirty and she was around her guy friends up there, this got to me and i told her i guess i was just to soft and let it go. so now i hear she spends loads of time with these other guys and is going out with them (dinner etc.) well this also got to me and guess i expected her to just know that wasn't the way to make our relation ship last.. so its getting harder to take and this long distance relation ship seems to go nowhere b/c i see the same thing happening for the next 5 years. so i told her i couldn't take it, and that i wanted to take a break, well she got pissed and told me that was it. so my question to all of you who read this is, did i make the right choice? would it have gotten even harder when she graduated next year (i am a sophmore, and she's a junoir) and moved away? thank you whomever responds. lew

hey- First off, when you say "we hooked up" you mean had sex or hung out, on a date etc.? And second, don't expect to just walk up to a girl and ask her to be your girl friend.. i'd start with hanging out. to renew the "lost" friendship, asker if she wants to do stuff with you like go on a date or just at you house. you have to become her friend, and saying hi in the past 4 months isn't much of a friendship. if she enjoys hanging out ask her if she "wants to be more that friends" in my opinion that would rather be heard than "wanna be my grilfriend" . good luck -lew

dude don't sweat it, girls are weird like that. you think she say "i like this guy". well most of the time that dosen't mean she has her mind set.. things like, dose she hang out with this guy alot?, does she think hes just cute? are a factor.. get up the courage and tell her how you fell about her and ask her if she wants to go out with you. your only 15 (along with me) so go with the flow.. if shes not interested let it go find something new and if you happen to come around to her again then put all you got into it. don't think its the end of the world, sometimes when people say something is great well that could be the same thing as your good.. if you know what i mean so just let her know what your feeling, good luck have fun. -lew

hey, sorry this isn't to dis you or anything but by the quote on your signature i can sorta tell your looking for fun.. but i'dd have to say that just b/c you are single and have been dosen't mean anything, when you find some one that your intersted in and them interested in you, you shouldn't have to be some one your not. good luck, keep searching best bet is to attened alot of social events (and they don't have to be wild parties or anything just some thing where you know you will be cofertable but easily be able t meet girls. -lew

Yo- Go for it. when a girl tells her friends stuff like that it usually means that she's interested. but still i'dd ask her out some where where you can have alot as friends and not have to worry alot about comiting to any thing. i wouldn't worry about her answer. i have high doubts to her saying no. another thing girls tend to like it when the guys are creative, if theres a dance or something coming up think of an interesting way to some ideas are big signs, as an anocement, something like flowers in there home room or class with a note. just be your self b/c it seems as though she likes you for you. -lew

Yo- Go for it. when a girl tells her friends stuff like that it usually means that she's interested. but still i'dd ask her out some where where you can have alot as friends and not have to worry alot about comiting to any thing. i wouldn't worry about her answer. i have high doubts to her saying no. another thing girls tend to like it when the guys are creative, if theres a dance or something coming up think of an interesting way to some ideas are big signs, as an anocement, something like flowers in there home room or class with a note. just be your self b/c it seems as though she likes you for you. -lew

Yo- it true never plan on it b/c then it seems fake, and the other person can sometimes tell. but experience says that don't wait for the girl to make a move, most girls are shy about it and don't want to be the dominating one. most of them have told me they like it when the guys a little aggresive (that is on makeing a move.. not meaning being ruff) i'dd say for a first kiss don't use alot of tongue and thats about all the advice i can give you. -lew

I cant give you alot of advice but i know a little. first off to get your conversations going find out what she like, and i guess you know already. but pick one of the things she enjoys to talk anout especailly if you also find it enjoying.. you know find things in common. if that fails or you run out of ideas then ask some one that knows her b/c they will have the best idea of how to get her. also if you want to break the ice it is always easy to have a friend introduce you to her and have the friend tel her a about you. but remember be your self and they don't like you for you then let go.

ok, here's the thing, i've been with this girl for about 3 or so months now. and it's long distance as you can see i put it under long distance. she live about an hour away but we really don't get to see each other that much due to school, infact im going to see her this weekend for the first time in like three weeks. but my problem is the fact that i don't feel as close to her as i did befor. when we first started going out i saw her every other week and for a week or two at a time and i felt like i could marry her. but as time goes on i have sometimes questioned our relationship and almost felt like i want to take a break, i guess what usually strkes this thining is when we fight.. we fight every now and then, many because she dosen't want me hanging around other girls and i don't want her hanging around other boys. but at this point i don't know what to do.. so far i figured i would go to her house over the weekend and see how it goes. if any body else has found themselves in this sistuaion or just have any advice please help me, thanks -lew

hey i don't really have any more input, due to the ongoing pages of post but i saw you icon and was wondering if you were in to paint ball.. well if you ever see this just message me or something. -lew

I know what you mean by going slow and its most likly the best thing to make your relationship last, and if she seems to push sexual activities and you don't want to then you got to tell her whats up. truly more important than going slow you should comunicate.. not just talking alot but really got out what you think, becace its deffinatly important so she dosen't get the wrong idea. good luck. -lew.

i'dd say visual is the best tool. get some videos that just have making out in it and try to go from it, don't chorograph it though.. really feel free, but get alot of exposer to full on making out Hint though, move don't keep your head dead still and never make it into sucking the air out of her, tongue is good and to some girls there is too much tongue. also neck area (this is more sentual, lol if thats spelled right..?) and light biting. if you get her down on the floor (with you on top) move your body around and your hand some girls love it when you cradle there head in your arm, if you understand. hope you gat some awesome make out action, go on with ya bad self. -lew

hey, i'm just saying talk to her.. i'm guessing you got her number or can get it so give her a call, or maybe talk to her roomate or friend if you feel comfertable with it. some times it helps to have a middle man to help things really get going. -lew

first.. when you meet some one online you should be completely sure that this person is some one you know well enough and trust. i advise you and any others to talk to his friends or find a conection though your friends this helps to make sure that this isn't some 40 year old guy thats out to kill you.. lol i might come off as a "perinoid parent" but i'm just saying for your sake to be safe.

lol, good wikcrs^. but there is no right size for your "rod" and if you seem to find it shorter than it should be could be because of not maturing. although to give a set age for haveing sex ("doing it") is jumping the gun a bit, don't set goals with virginity, you should wait to find some one who you really care about and never be pressured, by pers or girls good luck. -lew

focus on meat, red meat and chicken both have alot of protein. beans are good too for protein.. along with drinking lots of milk.. during meals that is.. not good for work outs, you should drink some type of sports drink. water is good for you but when you buning up cal. you need to get back electro-lyhtes. also to get bigger use more wieght, find your max and do 10% less.. it helps because when you lift you are really ripping tiny "noodle" like strands and they heal back like a scar.. a scar is always thicker and tougher than the skin there before.. this is how it is with muscle.. so the more you rip (with out hurting your self! deff. becarefull of to much wieght) the bigger you muscles will get. again sorry for my spelling, if i typo anything. lew

when you go into it and all don't head directly for her clit. slowly maove your hand over her vaginal region while she still has pants on, this will warm her up. take it slow. at first penitrate with one finger. then move on to two, or you could stay with one and lightly, i mean lightly rube her clit. to some women there clit is highly sensitive and the soreness could be due to to much pressure.. what i'm getting at is that there are other areas besides the clit.. g spot, below it (i forget the name but it is sometimes equaly as pleasurable) labial folds.. so on. good luck, sorry for my spelling. -lew

Here is my take on it.. If a girl is at the point of passing out, be it at a party or alone, the male should take care of her by taking her home/ helping. to take advantage of the girl would be complete cowardness. its just dumb.. your a loser if you do it b/c it shows that you couldn't get her in bed while she was able to think for herself... "hmm she said no, then drank so i took advantage of her then. shot sore".. see what i'm getting at.

ok i just want to make this statement here and now.. guys don't mind calling.. and the such, but laidies you are alow to call us.. and it some times helps, like you said he never called, did you not have his phone nuber did he tell you not to call. along with the fact that he was on IM a lot. ok there's no breaking the ice for a second time or anything, why the hell didn't you IM him?... i don't think you pushed it.. guys are guys and we can take it.

lol its weird.. but hell i don't care. i just think that its funny that she let you. -lew

Ok, before i start here is some background info, i have a friend lets say her name is lisa.. and her cousin.. becky is my girlfriend. my friend think she might be pregnant, I heard about it from my girlfriend. now suposeubly she is 4 days late for her period.. but the thing that really shocked me is that she got freaked out and told her parents almost immeadiatly. I was talking to my girlfriend and we came to agree that she jumped the gun, thinking that her parents would go crazy and never let her boyfriend back around, but instead they said that they now trust her even more.. (to me seemed sorta mixed up) but no the best part is that I was over at "lisa's" house and when i thought becky and I were alone we started making out, well lisa's father (along with becky's uncle) saw us.. the next day he sat down and talked to becky about it and that he thinks that i think of her as like "a piece of meat" type of thing.. it sort of ticked me off to hear that.. and i was wondering if anybody thought that it sounded strange. Lewis-

Ok I'm a new to the forum and don't really post a lot, but I do look at a lot of the other posts.. and maybe its just lately but I've seen a lot of posts coming from 13 year olds on sex topics. I know I to am only 15 but I understand a bit more. My question to all of the older members and so on, do you agree with me that these kids (along me and my age group) should not be haveing sex.. be it oral, dry, or simple hand sex.. I mean its sort of getting out of hand. But on the other hand I am glad that these people are posting hopefuly in order to be safer and wiser.. and relize that sex is a big deal.. well feel free to put your opinoin up, Thanks.

This chick sounds really cool. I think to really know what she thinks is to take the next step (in my opinion), ask her out.. but don't make it a date to the movies or some where private.. to lunch and maybe with a couple other friends. it will make her feel more comfortable. yo, but god luck man, ps double score by being employed by her father.. get to know him as well