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coyne740

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  1. More or less screwed up because I was doing so well and now, well, now, I feel like crap again. She was really cold when I talked to her, and I just am not used to that.
  2. OK, so, I have had no contact with the ex for three weeks and I have been fine. Actually loving life. Dating around, going out with friends, etc. But today, I received some urgent financial news that I needed to get some stuff from her place (she has been really good about keeping my stuff until I feel I can get it). But, now, I had to call her and I have to see her tomorrow and I am starting to feel anxious and stuff again. How can I not make an idiot out of myself tomorrow? And did I mess stuff up by breaking NC?
  3. I can't break up their relationship because, well, she told me she would never leave this guy for me. So, looks like I just will have to get over it. Thanks for the help though
  4. so, you think it's just ego and that if she calls me (we have done this a few times) I should not take her back because I will just be back in the same situation again?
  5. Ok, I posted on here a long time ago when my ex and I broke up the first time (August of 2003). After a month or so of NC, we got back together. We moved in together in May of 2004 and things seemed great for awhile. Recently, I realized I just wasn't happy and we broke up three weeks ago. I was fine until last week I learned that she was dating a guy that her and her new roommate had move in to our old house. She said they were dating and when I mentioned this to a mutual friend, the mutual friend spread it around our college campus. My ex suddenly called me and flipped out on me Wednesday for trying to ruin her new relationship. I apologized and said I was not trying to ruin her life and that I was quite happy where I was at. Until I learned that this guy is not her type at all. He is the complete opposite of me (does lots of drugs, I quit when I started dating her), he is into a lot of hip-hop, where I am a country boy and she is a country girl. She says she is so happy with him and being with him caused her not to love me anymore. Well, I do still love her and want to talk once in awhile, but I do not know if I want her or not. I know that our relationship was not stable enough, and that love is not all you need. But the thought of her with someone else kills me, especially so fast. How can I stop thinking of her not loving me anymore and her moving on so quickly?
  6. Well, I broke it to her tonight... however, she didn't take it too well and is now crying. See, I told her we didn't get along and that I am just not happy, I moved into a spare room and I still have not broken up with her... hell.. my life sucks, I do love her too much
  7. I know, it's just that it's hard to let go
  8. Ok, here's the deal. I have been with my girlfriend for a year and a half off and on. We broke up in early september and got back together by the end of that month. It was very hard on me, and sad to say, begged for her back. Anyhow, about a month and a half ago, she comes to me and breaks up with me again. Reason? She cheated on me. This time, I was alright with it. However, just when it gets easy to not have her around, she calls (a week later) and cries, wanting me back. I said we'll have to take it slow and we did for a month. However, now we live together a month and a half later and I cannot forget about her cheating on me and I am not happy at all... The only reason I do not want to break up with her is it will be hard on her and dividing of our goods. What should i do?!?
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