Ok,
I posted on here a long time ago when my ex and I broke up the first time (August of 2003). After a month or so of NC, we got back together. We moved in together in May of 2004 and things seemed great for awhile. Recently, I realized I just wasn't happy and we broke up three weeks ago. I was fine until last week I learned that she was dating a guy that her and her new roommate had move in to our old house. She said they were dating and when I mentioned this to a mutual friend, the mutual friend spread it around our college campus. My ex suddenly called me and flipped out on me Wednesday for trying to ruin her new relationship. I apologized and said I was not trying to ruin her life and that I was quite happy where I was at.
Until I learned that this guy is not her type at all. He is the complete opposite of me (does lots of drugs, I quit when I started dating her), he is into a lot of hip-hop, where I am a country boy and she is a country girl. She says she is so happy with him and being with him caused her not to love me anymore. Well, I do still love her and want to talk once in awhile, but I do not know if I want her or not. I know that our relationship was not stable enough, and that love is not all you need. But the thought of her with someone else kills me, especially so fast. How can I stop thinking of her not loving me anymore and her moving on so quickly?