I understand your situation all too well. I was in it when I was 16 and I did abort it. It was and still is very hard to think about and I do all the time, but going to my mother was the best thing for me. She was very upset, but she helped. To tell you the truth, it was a good decision..the guy I would have had it with was an arrogant loser and only cared about himself, and I have my whole future....I thought at the time I could handle the responsibility, but now I realize I couldn't...I couldn't even take care of myself, never mind a baby. Now don't get me wrong, I know in my head that it was the right decision for me, but it still hurts. The questions of what if I had kept it and how would my life be now still ring through my head, but I have a good life now. You are only 14 years old. You have so much ahead of you. Make a decsion best for YOU. Send me messages anytime if you need help or have any questions