Jay_69_30

Can you explain how you guys got back together and what you did and who was the dumper and so on? And congrats the best to the both of u

Hey Lost1 ur story is amazing, I wish that could happen withmy ex and i now. So I need your advice cause I'm in a similar situation. Anyways I would really appreciate if you tell me how u went your way the situation and you suggest for me. She tells me shes kind of seeing someone who i thought had an attraction for awhile now ever since her and I had problems in our relationship and I know he's a snake and not good for her and im not saying thaty because she's kind of seeing him. She tells me he's nothing serious because he's the total opposite of me and doesn't show her care and help like i did. Anyways just read my threads and tell em what u think. msg me back, leave a posts on my last thread or post it here. Thanks in advance.

Wow I was in a similar situation but yours is much worse but basically my ex started ot act different and we were bumping heads more often then usual and it was becoming a one sided relationship. So I ended it because my mind took over and my heart stopped. It was almost like a mutual break up. Anywayz my advice to you is honestly follow your heart. My heart wanted to keep pushing her to give me a straight answer if she wants to come back to me or not. I gave her space try to do the nc thing but she would always call me. I finally did the NC it lasted 4 days she called me on my birthday made me go out with her, she kissed me, slept on the same bed as her but still no answer because she said she was just still confused and is worried nothing will change. I finally gave her more space with NC, she started doing her own thing and I finally got an answer out of her. She said no because she's being feeling ebtter doing what she wants with no complications. OUCH that broke my heart we both cried and it was very upsetting for me. I told her I dont want to be friends because one we were never friends in the start and second it would just be too damn hard for me. I then changed my mind today on her birthday and gave her the gift of me agreeing to friendship because I told her If there's any chance of us being together then I have to have u in my life but I'm going to move on but not let go of u in my heart until I know for sure u share ur heart with someone else. So my friend, my advice to you is to just follow what your heart says but keep in my mind of advice of other but use it to make a deicsion with ur heart.

You know what buddy I know how you feel. I love my ex very much and she will always have a place in my heart. I broke up with her and I told her I'm willing to get back inot this relationship if she's wiling to make the SAME SACRIFICES, IMPROVMENTS OF HERSELF THAT I'M WILLING TO MAKE FOR HER. I want to be treated they she wants to be treated. She told me she just doesn't think we will work out in the future but in the first part of our relationship we saw eye to eye on everything from attiude to one another to our future goals but then she changed. I started to make things work andbring themback how they were while she was giving up and started to do her own thing. I told her that nothing should stop us if our hearts both tell us we love eachother. She still hasn't given me an answer to what her heart says, she says she misses me dearly, she realizing how life is without me but still doesn't know if she wants to do it agian and do you know why I think she's doesn't know it's because her friends have huge influence on her and most importantly she's very stubborn and it seems like she not sure if she willing to give up certain things to make it work. My advice to you is have the NC but let go at the sametime. Don't wait or expect anything juts let faith take it from here, you've done all you could do. It's really up to faith and her from now on. Your right, it wouldn't be fair if she realizes how she is and then meets a neew guy but hey if she truly loves you,w ell then when she realizes what your telling her she will come to you.

If I were you tell him straight up what your heart says. Friends do not kiss like that trust me. I personally thikn he is using you. Tell him how you feel, have closure, tell him it's either your with me or not, I dont want friendship. Have the closure then do the no connection and let faith decide what happens next. You have to move on or start to let go.

Dude, I know how you feel. I just broke up with my g/f and I still love her..basically its a long story. You can check out my posts. Anywayz, my girl was the same I always found that her sister and friends has more of influence then me but she did really loved me. We were suppose to live together after all her friends and family started to ask if she ready for this big step, after she was so confident that she wanted to move in with me after asking her mother and grand mother who both didn;t like the idea. I warned her so mcuh about this huge step and she was confident at the time. Anywayz my advice is always give her situations when her friend has more of an influence on her then you do. Tell her how that makes you feel and how it's wrong. iI would tell my girl this all the time and it would get better slowly but we do argue sometimes when we would talk about it buit just dont give up.

I'm actually having problems with myself about this issue my g/f is very annoyed about this but I know why I can't climax, its because I'm thinking to much about how well i'm performing, basically every single thing a guy would worry about in a sexual situation and this is why I think I can't climax and get a full erection. I've read a bunch of articles about this issue. The best thing to do is to talk to him and comfort him, give him compliments in the bed and so on. Make him feel relax, I've alaso read that the guy should let out his fears to the girl about the situation. Hope this helps.

Lol I always thought the nerdy sarcastic type was what girls like...LOL LOOK AT SETH COHEN FROM THE O.C....women luv him/.

How long were u guyz broken up for? And do you mind telling me how you got her back?

Nooxie I just recently was involved in a break up with a girl who I did not love but liked very very much and were very suitable for eacother because we had so much in common. The reason why she broke up with me was because she didn't feel fit to have a boyfriend right now and she did tell me everyday that I was this amazing guy who could get any girl ( I tend to have low self-esteem due to past realtionships) Anywayz she finally had the guts to break up with me. I know why she had to break up with me because she was so inexperienced and needed to explore more b4 she gets into sumthing serious and shes see her and I getting serious. I had to accept this choice of her, I have no choice. And maybe this is the same with your ex, sure its going to be hard for u and I to hear watch our ex's date, fool around but its all part of the process just remember, you have to move on also and don't worry they'll come back. But anywayz at least you are still in touch with your ex, Its been almost a week and it feels like a decade since I have talked to my ex and it also feels like this friendship is not going to last? People sdhould I call her or should I wait for her to call me because I still have feelings about our break up that I need to get out?