monkeyshavestyle

Well if I were you I would show your husband what a mess he is by showing him the stuff and if he still doesn't respond to that then well he really doesn't care about his kids.. After all he is 18 "an adult" he needs to be on his own if he is going to act stupid and dissobey the rules in your house. he needs to be an adult if he wants to act like an adult and do what he wants.

I have had many bad realationships. The worst ended in divorce and he is still obsessed with making my life hell. I am dating this guy we don't get much time to be alone we are both parents. He is a really sweet guy and funny and oh my is he hot.. A man in a uniform if you know what i mean ladies. I think i am falling for him but don't want to cause afraid of being hurt or the ex screwing it up for me cause of his constant problems. taking me back to court and hurting my little girl by taking her around total strangers, talking bad about me and cutting her hair. I want things to work out. That is the one thing that i need in my life other than my kids.. someone to love and love me. Me and him can joke around carry on an intelligent conversation. But i am worried about my emotional baggage pushing him away cause i have alot of issues with men cause i have been hurt so many times. how can i just let the baggage go and make sure he likes me just as much as i like him. He and i are both busy people we only have some weekends and we live almost an hour apart. I want to know if it is going to work out since we don't see much of each other cause of the kids. I really think that he is a great guy but i just don't have much trust in guys. I am pretty sure he does not have much trust in women either cause he has been married twice and both women cheated on him. how do i convince him i will be and how do i convince myself that he won't hurt me.

well the thing it that she wants you to move on to another girl cause she has moved on drop her and find someone else or do as she wants you to do and date other girls biut be honest with them.. and then tell her if you make out with them and if it does not bother her then she is already over you and you have got to move on and if it bothers her then she will come crawling back to you not wanting to see others.. Have you ever heard the saying if you love them let them go? well it is true.. I dovorced my ex husband and he is obsessed with making it so that i can not live a normal life or date much cause he tells my little girl bad things about me and doesn't know the guys i date but says they are loosers or they are liars or something to turn my little girl against them.. He is obsessed with me cause i let him go and won't take him back.

well in all states you have to prove how much you are making and then one person is making more than the other then the child support can be reduced... even if it is in court.. child support reduction.. as far as the ex wife rubbing it in his face he just needs to get over it and not let it both him cause as long as he shows that he is bothered she is going to continue to do so. Also as for the kids i think they are benifitting in ways that you may not see or hear of.. not that i think what she is doing is right but i in any divorce the assets are suppose to be split down the middle.. or at least he payed off for his house. was there a court agreement that she gave him 30000 for the house? if so then the lawyer didn't fight for him or he was not paying child supprt while they were separated. either way i think that he just has to let it go and get it through the courts that he pays child support and how much she makes and how much he makes.. so that the support can be appropriate.

well i understand the boat you are in. Me and my ex husband have apart for 4 years now and he is still try to get at me... He cuts my daughters hair takes her around sex offenders and people that he knows i don't approve of. He is now in the process of trying to take custody away from me cause he has a new girlfriend.. He truly believes that my little girl would be better off there cause he is tring to replace me. He talks bad about me to my daughter and his new girlfriend does not like me and does not know me. I tell him not to cut her hair and he cuts it anyways. I have full custody.. But then again he may be really sincere about wanting the two older boys if they are out of control. But if they are not out of control or have there grades dropping or hanging aroung the wrong crowd then there is really no reason for your husband to have custody of the boys cause she must be doing something right. Your husband sounds obbsessed with his ex. Think about it if he has his heart set on taking the boys froma perfectly good mother then why would he want to other than to hurt her.