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Tinydance

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  1. Tinydance's post in What should I do in this situation? was marked as the answer   
    Is the ring valuable? Do you have other nice rings or can you afford to buy more? If the ring isn't that valuable, personally I'd just let it go. This guy is actually being really rude and he doesn't sound like a nice person from the way he's treating you. It was really no big deal for him just to put your ring in his mailbox and let you come and get it. My guess is he did lose interest but he's probably cowardly and feels too awkward. Maybe he's worried if he says you can come get the ring from the mailbox that you'll actually say you'd like to see him. Or he might run into you out the front of his house or something like that.
    I guess he didn't necessarily have to say that he's not interested in you in the sense that if it was just a hookup arrangement. If you weren't in a relationship but just FWB then he didn't really have to "break up" with you. He could be seeing other people at the moment and have someone else coming to his house. That might be why he doesn't want you to come get your ring.
    In any case he's treating you in a very rude and disrespectful way and that's unnecessary. Even if you were just FWB he doesn't have to be rude to you. Especially as you did legitimately leave something at his place. And if the ring is real silver or gold then of course you'd want it back. It's not that big a deal for him to return it to you. So I guess now you can see that he's probably a jerk and now he's lost interest in you he doesn't care at all if he answers your messages or you get your property back.
  2. Tinydance's post in A normie bf was marked as the answer   
    I think it's OK to want someone who shares at least some of your interests. Your interests are actually very common and in particular amongst guys. Like half my male friends and my ex's are into D and D lol I don't think it should be that hard to find a different boyfriend who actually has things in common with you.
    I think you're being kind of rude and judgemental though because basically you're saying your boyfriend and his interests are "not good" because they don't match yours. He's just a person who is who he is and likes what he likes. The interests you said he has are perfectly fine.
    Unless you're hurting other people or your interests are weird or disturbing or something, there's no such thing as "good" or "bad" interests. Your interests are not better or more superior than his. They're just different.
    It's actually your responsibility to find people that you think match you. It's not fair to date some really different from yourself, which you actually know. And then you blame that person because they're not like you and don't like what you like. That's not their fault they are who they are. They're just being themselves.
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