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  1. It has since been worked out but it was regarding an physically abusive long term partner.
  2. I've already outlined that it was due to a severe personal issue from my past that I'm now over. It was justified for requesting space, and really didn't have have anything to do with her, I made the mistake but shes back now and understands my regrets in my decision but is also understanding as to why I requested space.
  3. So for a number of reasons, it doesn't make sense to analyze our previous relationship and why she went into a rebound in the first place. We are deeply connected and she called me immediately after the destructive rebound ended. It lasted two months and he had anger issues but lead her to believe that he was "the one" very quickly. I would like to accept her back into my life and we've both expressed apologies. I have expressed my love and shared my intentions for the future together which I believe has the capacity to lead to marriage. The issue is that I'm balancing, being there for her and a friend for now. While she provides indications of her feelings toward me like "I'm so happy you're in my life" or "I'm a better person when I'm with you, I love the person I am with you" - we hug and kiss when we see eachother. I am hoping for eventual communicative reciprocation but don't want to constantly ask. I guess I'm trying to understand how I can help her heal and realize what I know she knows in her heart already.
  4. My girlfriend and I took a break that I originally requested in hopes of better dealing with a personal issue. We both acknowledge and have talked about how we share the deepest connection of love that we’ve both ever experienced. However, she ended up in a two month rebound that she regrets. The same day she ended things and called me Over the last two days we both shared our sincere apologies to each other and I am helping her through processing the breakup. I’m being patient and I want her in my life (she will be my wife one day) While we were together, she has asked for time to organize her feelings. In our conversations I also shared everything in terms of my deep love for her and while her behavior shows she wants to be together romantically, we’ve kissed and have been really close to each other, she is still a bit reluctant to share her feelings in return and needs some time. As a result I am a bit in flux of what I should do to balance my interest in wanting things to be good again between us and not pushing her away. I know she loves me that’s clear Until she decides to “show her cards” I feel a bit uneasy about her really being in my life again. Any thoughts advice or ideas would be helpful.
  5. My ex girlfriend 32 and me 35 took a break after 10 months of dating because I needed time to clear my head as a recent divorcee and was scared because we had a really strong love connection. we both mutually agreed that we shared the strongest and best relationship we’ve ever had. We remained in contact through Halloween. However during that time, she met someone else around the 15th of November. I came home from thanksgiving ready to confess how much I loved her and that I was ready we had a long phone conversation about how she wants to explore her new relationship. It was hard but she said that she felt that I shouldn’t reach out anymore and I’ve respected her wishes since Nov 29th. I went into strict no contact but can still feel her and she looks at my stories all the time (I don’t look at hers) I’m not mad at her, but really want to put an effort in to get her back while there’s still time. Do any women have advice on what could work on someone who has rebounded but I know loves me still?? Should I stay in no contact until she reaches out or should I do something like have a conversation face to face coming completely clean about how I feel?
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