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I've been married for just under a year now and recently my wife has been flirting with other guys, which stresses me out and make me extremely jealous. I don't understand why she'd behave this way - doesn't she love me anymore? What can I do to diffuse the situation and be less jealous?

Dear eNotAlone, I'm feeling an enormous perplexity when it comes to my situation. I've known this guy for several months now, and I can't ignore the fact that I've developed strong feelings towards him. It's been weighing heavily on me recently and I don't know where to turn. All I can do is try to swallow them and put on a smile, but I know that I'm not getting anywhere with this approach.

Dear eNotAlone, I desperately need your help! I have fallen for my best friend and I don't know what to do. We have been friends for several years and I thought we had a great relationship without any complications until recently.

Dear eNotAlone, I'm in a situation I never thought I would be in – chasing after girls that don't feel the same way I do. This has never been an issue before… I've always been successful with women, but now it seems even when I think I'm doing everything right, it all falls apart for no apparent reason.

Most of us know how to fall in love, but few of us were taught how to keep that love alive. Thankfully, relationships are always evolving and so is the advice for keeping them healthy. Here are eight ways you can upgrade your relationship today by taking small but significant steps to treat your partner better.

Revealing one's past to a friend's new crush can be a difficult decision. It's an especially tricky quandary when what was once a source of pride or joy is now heavily laden with regret. Do you tell the honest truth and potentially shatter your friend's newfound happiness? Or do you hide your history and live with the guilt of having kept a not-so-little secret to yourself?

Loneliness and discouragement can be devastating experiences for single people. Although there are many opportunities for single people to enjoy life, those feelings of isolation and despair can make it difficult to cope day-to-day. But the good news is that living, thriving and ultimately conquering these tough emotions is absolutely possible – there are tips and strategies that can be used to stay motivated and hopeful, no matter what rockslide seem to be blocking your way.

Celibacy, or the abandonment of all forms of sexual activities, can be voluntary, or involuntary. Involuntary celibates (or ‘incels' for short) are defined as those who find themselves without a partner by choice, and in some cases, even without any prospects for one. People who identify as incels face unique challenges when it comes to their mating psychology. This article delves into the incel's struggles, from self-perception to mate preferences and mind-reading biases, to improve our understanding of this little-understood segment of society.

When it comes to life expectancy, bigger isn't always better when it comes to canine companions. In the world of dogs, small breeds have greater longevity than their larger counterparts—some living up to twice as long. Many factors could be responsible for this phenomenon, but one thing's for sure: some furry friends are around longer than others.

For many couples, nesting coparenting can be a challenging choice when an ex-spouse has remarried and the other spouse is engaged. Each side may want to protect its financial interests, or may feel hurt or angry over having to share a home with the ex-spouse and his or her new partner. However, for couples who have children together and desire to maintain their family home, nesting coparenting can provide an ideal solution.

We've all heard the saying "opposites attract", but when it comes to the longer and more committed bonds of long-term relationships, it can take a lot more than attraction to make sure things don't eventually fizzle out. Scientists have discovered that while physical attraction is an important factor in attracting another person, two partners must feel compatible on many other levels in order for a relationship to last.

Regrets are something we all face at one time or another. They can be hard to make peace with because they can be painful and heavy, making us feel weighed down. But by doing the inner work to make peace with our regrets, we can freely let them go and move forward with life. The following are some steps that have helped me make peace with my regrets.

You're sat anxiously across from your date, looking into their deep, inquisitive eyes. They ask you a question--not the standard "Where are you from?" or "Do you like romantic comedies?". No, this is a deep dive into your political beliefs, and they want a comprehensive answer. You didn't expect this—on your first date, no less! What do you do?

A 93-year-old grandmother has transformed herself into an internet sensation with her messages of sage wisdom packaged in a friendly and cheerful delivery. Grandma Mizar Martinez is her name, and she's fresh off the viral status she achieved after sharing dating advice on the social media platform TikTok.

When it comes to love, we can all agree on one thing- when you find for sure, it's worth every effort to keep it and Cherish it forever. Such is the case with Keanu Reeves and his new lover Alexandra Grant. According to recent updates, the two have been in a very blissful relationship full of love and compassion for each other. Even though they have kept this news under wraps for some time now, recent interviews suggest that the two are perfectly and completely in love.

Many of us have gone through the experience of unrequited love at some point in our lives. Experiencing this kind of love can be a confusing and painful process that affects us to our very core. It can feel like the weight of the world is pressing down on us and keeps us bound in a sea of sorrow. If you are currently experiencing such heartache from an intense love for a married man, then you have come to the right place.

For every friendship, there comes a time where hard decisions must be made. Is it time to say goodbye and go your separate ways? Deciding when it’s time to end a relationship is never easy, especially if you've shared some good times and meaningful conversations together. And this is especially true in friendships.

Personality and life satisfaction go hand in hand; it has been long established that having a positive outlook on life can make life’s challenges much easier to deal with. One’s personality affects life satisfaction in many ways and often those with “Big Five” traits – extraversion, agreeableness, conscientiousness, emotional stability, openness to experience – are deemed to have a higher degree of life satisfaction and happiness.

If you're in a relationship, you may have been faced with the big question: is this person ready for marriage? How can you tell if that person is truly ready to commit and make such an important decision? The signs may be subtle, but paying careful attention to your partner and reading their body language can give you an indication.

Adjusting the dynamics of any relationship can be challenging and difficult to navigate, especially when both partners have different expectations. For couples considering opening their relationship, whether it is polyamory or an extra-marital affair, the navigational process from one relationship structure to the next can feel daunting and overwhelming. It requires honest, candid communication between partners and an openness to explore new emotional and psychological boundaries together.

The internet has made pornography readily available to users of all ages. This influx of easy access means that more individuals – even young adolescents – are viewing pornographic material than ever before. But is consuming pornography safe? Though popular culture may suggest otherwise, the answer is resoundingly “no.” Unfortunately, many individuals have learned this lesson the hard way. With potential psychological, physical, and social consequences, there is a high price to pay for viewing porn.

At the start of a new relationship, the most difficult step can sometimes be the first. There’s nothing worse than having someone slip away because you didn’t take the plunge and ask them out. Well, it’s time to turn that around!

Asking someone out on a date can be nerve-wracking, especially if it's a person you admire and want to get to know better. But with a little bit of courage, taking the first step could spark something truly special. Before asking her out, there are a few things you should keep in mind to set yourself up for a great date.

Falling for a friend is one of the more complicated experiences life has to offer. One moment you might feel like you’re just platonic buddies and the next all of your feelings have been thrown upside down. It can be both exhilarating and terrifying all at once! No matter what happens, it’s important to comprehend your feelings and understand how to deal with them so you don’t get hurt in the end.

Love is a game, and oftentimes it’s a difficult one to win. While some people look down upon playing games in the dating world, others think it’s the only way to make it work. There is no easy solution, as the advantages and disadvantages to both arguments must be weighed carefully.