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  1. So she has a harem of lowlifes in her present. She cares about one, and says she doesn't care about the other two, yet they are toxic and she still hangs out with them and doesn't cut them out of social media. Instead of saying, "I briefly dated this guy," she's showing how crass she is by mentioning blowjobs and FWBs. I get a little disgusted reading all that, and you're living it. You can only choose one woman on the planet to be with and this is who you're choosing? When I briefly dated a guy and started finding out about his harem and unsavory past, the yuck factor had me running out of there faster than the roadrunner. Energy is contagious. Be careful of the company you keep.
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  2. Not much has changed since end of 2018 OP when you posted this: "We went on holiday once n she ended up having to go back to the same place with her mum so her mum could experience it. Am I in the wrong for wanting more from my girlfriend and wanting her to cut the apron strings with her mum a bit.
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  3. You can't be there for your family if you continue to be broken or keep breaking more. It's good that you are both separated. What he's done is wrong, very wrong. I'm sorry for the loss of your sister. Talk to your lawyer. Speak to someone also about the trauma, shock and grief of losing a loved one and also the breakdown of your marriage. Is there a rape relief or women's shelter close to you? They have resources for support. I'll be joining one soon, although in what capacity I do not know, depends on what they need for volunteers and crisis. Please take care of yourself. Your are not alone in this. Do you mind me asking where are your kids?
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  4. Honestly, if you want to date through this time I think the best option is to move out and limit your contact with mom to online, phone calls, and hanging out in her garden/front yard while keeping physical distance and/or wearing masks. If you live alone and do not expose anyone else to higher risks due to your behavior you'll probably feel a lot better about this. You might still take issue with how she's not doing what she could to protect her family though. That's her and their choice - you need to decide if you can live with that, if you all become family one day.
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  5. Sorry to hear this, catscoffee. I was a fandom writer too and had my little circle of friends. It was a very special kind of relationship. At the time we were very close and it felt really good to have someone to talk to about this part of my life where none of my real life friends would even understand. But those friendships rarely last. Over time people drift apart, get into other, different fandoms, or just stop reading/writing fandom altogether. I myself sadly was the one to drift away when life changes got in the way and I stopped writing. Over the past few years a couple of the old friends reached out to me randomly and I was always very happy to hear from them, we would talk for hours and maybe keep texting back and forth during a couple of days to weeks, but that was pretty much it as we all know I wasn't gonna go back into the fandom world anytime soon. I do miss those days and friends every so often but my lifestyle and priorities are simply different now. It wasn't personal and people are generally understanding. Enjoy your fandom while you still do and just make new friends as they join. Perhaps also reconsider the balance between pen pals and real life friends so you wont rely too much on your fandom circle for friendship. Good luck!
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  6. Girl at 34 and he's dragging his feet....you need to put your feet with someone else. You want a husband someday...I believe if he isn't excited to live with you and prepare for marriage and children, it's a waste of your time. A year and a half is ample time to figure out where you want to go next.
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  7. This mom called me today hat in hand and asked me to take both her daughters until they post out . She said, “ by chance do you still have room for both my girls? “ I guess something happened with the other woman. Either they had a falling out or the woman’s situation disintegrated as she was divorcing. I am sure it will come out. So I have a full house Monday!
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