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  1. Okay quick how-to question. I'm not sure if anyone has been in this situation or not, but here it is. Last year this girl from my english class and I hit it off, and had a little fun while her bf was outta town. Now I'm going out with her best friend. I asked my girlfriend if she has ever had a threesome, and she said there was one time when girl X (my ex...) asked if she would come with her and have a threesome with her BF for his b-day. So now I'm trying to get a threesome going and I'd really like girl X to make it happen, since all of us have seen each other naked anyway, wouldn't that be the most comfortable first threesome? Anyways....how do I bring this up to my gf?!
  2. Hello all, I am new to this forum. I have been seeing my gf for a year now, and to keep a long story short, she has hinted at having a threesome before in the past as a joke. Me being good at detecting what she wants, I knew it was her fantasy. I recently started talking to her about it again, and after some prying and digging she confessed to me that she would like to have a threesome. One problem, it's a me + guy and her threesome. I have to admit, that it sort of turns me on watching porn with 2 guys and a girl threesomes, and it sort of turns me on thinking of me gf being dirty and used like that. But I am not sure I would want to go through with it. She said that she will only do it if I want to, and if not it doesnt matter to her one way or another because it is just a fantasy. She said that if she does do it it will be with a person she semi knows and then she would never want to see that person ever again. Decisions decisions? I have never experienced anything of the sort, what is there to watch out for when having threesomes, what sort of emotions etc? Also I asked if later on we could have a threesome with another girl and her, and she said she couldnt stand seeing me with another girl. Thanks.
  3. My boyfriend and i have been talking about having a threesome with a girl (as he is not comfortable with a guy thinks its a bit gay lol also not sure he'd like to see me with a guy), for a while now and i am totally up for it although i want us to find somehow a random so not one of his mates or mine so i am not sure how i am going to do it tho that's not the point. Just wondering if it is a good idea to put fantasy into reality? I am not the jealous type so i don't see that as a problem as i feel confident within our relationship. Does any1 have any good or bad experiences that they wouldn't mind sharing with me. Thanks
  4. I have written about this before, and sinse then i thought that my troubles were over. Except last night my fiance and i got into a fight about it again and this time it was a big one. He says hes mad at me because he thinks i'm "fake" as a person. His reasoning behind it is this, He wants to have a threesome and i don't. I have told him that i thought it would ruin the relationship. He feels that because i told him in the beginning of our relationship that i have had been with women in the past that for him, that was an open invitation for a threesome and if i didn't plan on having one with him, then i should have never said anything at all. I tried to explain to him that i had only told him bc we were getting to know each other and it was something about myself that i wanted to share with him. Anyways, he says that if i really loved him and would do anything for him, then i would do this for him. And hes really upset with me, hes talking about ending our 3 year relationship over this. We have two children for ccrying out loud!!!! There are also some other issues with him looking at porn that was a problem in the past but i have recently been dealing with these feelings and am pretty much over the whole porn thing. But he says he feels like i'm not allowing him to be "himself" what ever that means. So i guess my question is, am i way off base here? I mean i think a threesome would ruin our relationship. But he feels its something that i should do for him based on the fact that i love him and would do anything for him. I would appreciate some real perspective here. Thanks.
  5. Hi, I was wondering if someone might be able to decypher some things my partner has been saying as of lately. I always knew my partner had a liking for other womens looks, but I always thought it was platonic... something as all women have, I suppose. She's on many occasions said little things like women are sexy and such. But lately she's said some quite flat out frank remarks, which struck me at the time and made me think more deeply about, wondering if she is suggesting anything? For example, not too long ago, she said she fantasized about sex with other women and the fantasy of me with another woman was sexy... but then said it wasn't something she'd want to act on, it was just the thought I'm deeply in love with this woman. We've been together for so long and I want and she says she wants to share her life with me. It's a serious relationship. I've always had cautious feelings about threesomes, because I never really thought it was healthy for a relationship, but all guys will have to admit, the idea is a damn turn-on for our imagination. =P~ I'm not asking anything of her or expecting anything to ever happen. I would never want to jeopardize my relationship for something like this in a million years. But her comments were totally out of the blue and I'm just wondering if you think there might be something behind them? Or maybe is it just her being honest feelings, but also saying shes not interested in doing anything about it... or even just flirty or something? im a bit confused
  6. I was thinking today that for all my jealousy (well warranted for those of you that helped me through it) We will never be the first girl or guy in the bed...so to speak. There has always been someone before us. Human nature brings out the questions, was he/she better than me at sex, cooking, cleaning, driving, joke telling, dressing, education....don't want to go to far off here but I just wanted to remind myself and everyone else who may have some, er, valid jealousy issues....lets just think about who was in our bedroom, kitchen, car, heads before the current SO.... Stand in your truth
  7. I posted in this forum because I thought someone here might notice if what I'm about to tell you are signs of an impending break-up. My boyfriend and I have been in a long-distance relationship for 3 years now, and these past few months have taken a turn for the worst. All of a sudden I believe he's purposely trying to make me jealous. For instance, he jokes about how he would marry Paris Hilton for he money, tries to make me jealous of this maid in his building we have never met named Martha - how? well he wonders what she thinks of his place and what kind of person she thinks he is.. weird, but I just laugh. He also mentioned that a girl from his distant past, who he taught to skate, has emailed him and wants to get together - so he says. Oh, and he also mentioned, off-handedly that he would like to have a threesome with another girl. I laughed and said no way, and asked how he would like it if I wanted a threesome with another guy... he didn't like that too much. Now I understand that these things seem small, but over the 3 years we've been together he has never thrown anything in my face like this. I know I'm not a jealous person by nature, but he is making me feel insecure. Is it because he wants to scare me off and break-up with me? Obviously I'm not in the catagory of someone he wants to marry someday right? Is this the beginning of the end? I love him and this hurts a lot. Stasia
  8. I have a curiuos question for the women on enotalone who has experience threesome(M,M,F).Is Double penetration overrated or worth the experiences?
  9. I need advice other then my friends for this........because I need neutral advice. I'm in a long distance relationship. I really feel like I love this man. I'm pushing more for something, he goes hot and cold. The last time I went to visit him.........when i got home he'd said soemthing to the effect of .........."i wish Debbie hadn't came back to the apartment with us (he's not attracted to her) cause his friend Steve and him were gonna have a threesome with me. The thing that bothered me was that I wasn't included in the planning of this so called adventure, until a week later. Plus his friend has lots of one night stands and to me it;s actually unattractive. It's not that i'm even turned off to the idea of it....I would have a threesome especailly if the person I cared about wanted to try it. It's just how I wasn;t included bothers me??? He's very much the guys guy. He perceded to tell me him and his friend have done this before. He and I have this crazy relationship where the distance makes it hard but we have something so special we both hold on..........has anyone had this kindof thing happen to them?? Does it mean he doesn;t think i'm that special??? is it sorta degrading? would it ruin a relationship? I'm really wanting some advice or someone to just tell me how it is.......lol thanks guys!
  10. i am a 23 yr old bi-sexual women. For the last three years i have been involved in a serious and monogomous relationship with a man 10 yrs older than myself. We just had our second child in august of 06. This is, in my mind, the perfect man for me. A while after we began our relationship, i confided in him that i had been in a few lesbian relationships prior to my relationship with him. He, like most men found this to be a huge turn on. He never really brought it up much until a few months ago. During sex we like to talk dirty to each other, actually its more his thing, but i enjoy it too. Anyways, he started saying things in reference to a threesome. At first it bothered me and actually turned me off during sex bc although i had been with women and am attracted to them, i have never had a threesome or wanted to. I'm kind of a one on one kinda gal. I like intamicy. The only time he brings it up is while we are having sex. But he is sooo adamit about it. I have stsrted playing along with this in bed, it really turns him on and i am by nature an overly compensating pleaser, kinda passive type. sometimes he says he wants to have sex with the other girl,( when we're having sex) and that bothers me. So i guess my question is, should i do this for him? Or will it ruin our relationship. I really love him and i want our relationship to last. This is important to me also bc we have children together now. But even though i enjoy women, i don't know how i would handle seeing him with someone else. I would appreciate any male or female advice, thanks!
  11. how i found this Forum, i couldn't tell you but i'm glad that i did so.....my girlfriend and i both confessed to each other one fantasy that we've both thought about a couple of times, and that is to have a fmf threesome at first it was her wanting to hook up with another chic and let me watch then she said if all goes well with that then she would let me join, but i couldn't screw the other chic only my girlfriend then she said if we both are still having fun, she said that she would like to have a full 3reesome where i do it to both my girlfriend and another chic of her choice(of course) any experienced individuals that have done this with someone they were in love with?? i just want to know how it went, b/c i know it will happen soon or later, i just want it to go smooth is this a good idea??
  12. Okay - normally I'm good at working this stuff out, but I could use some outside perspectives. I was a happy bachelor when I met this great girl. I was reluctant to commit at first, but she is worth it. I've dated a lot of girls, but I've never been more excited than I am right now. A couple of weeks ago we were talking, and it somehow came up that she once had a threesome with one of her girlfriends and I'm assuming her friend's boyfriend. She said it wasn't bad, she was just kind of exploring her sexuality. I generally believe the past is past, but I'm jealous. Not of the fact she was with other people - I'd be a huge hypocrite, as I've been a little looser with myself than she was - but that she had this experience that I never did. I had a few opportunities that I refused, thinking I didn't want to mess up my current relationships at the time. Now I'm regretting it. I feel inadequate at some level. I even caught myself idiotically thinking that I could fit a 3-way in with some old hook-ups without her knowing to make myself feel better (I've never cheated on anyone and don't plan to). I'm not foolish enough to leave her over this, but I need to put this in perspective. She is falling for me despite my mistakes and flaws and yet I'm being shallow about this. Any ideas on how to move past this and avoid going the way of Ben Affleck in Chasing Amy?
  13. This is a tale with quite a bit of history, so I will try and briefly summarise first. However, I must warn that this is not a tale for people with conservative ideas about life and love! This whole sorry tale started when I was sixteen, I came out to my best friend and a few months later in a fit of drunken stupidity I told her I was in love with her. She let me down quite gently as, at the time she didn't think she could be in a relationship with another woman, and we continued being friends. However, I have never (even after six years) quite gotten over her. The friendship was fine, I still loved her, but knew I would never get to be with her and I gradually became able to deal with it. Things, however, were soon to change. Three years ago, on the night before I went to uni, I had a threesome with her and her soon to be husband. This brought all my feelings back upto the surface. Since then we have had quite frequent encounters and gradually, I was again able to deal with the fact that I should be happy she loved me enough to share something so intimate with me. Now, the pertinent part of the tale; on Saturday, I had a, drunken, conversation with her husband. He said it was plainly obvious that we both had feelings that went way beyond friendship and that we should talk about the situation when we were sober as he wouldn't mind if she had a relationship with me. I dismissed the idea as I thought I would never get what I wanted out of that sort of relationship. However, since saturday I havn't been able to stop thinking 'what if'? I spoke to her by text message yesterday telling her I couldn't stop thinking about it even though I know it's a bad idea. She said she was ignoring everything (just what is that supposed to mean?) adn that she didn't want me to get hurt as she didn't think she could give me what I wanted out of a that sort of relationship as her husband would always come first. I am not pleased with the outcome and I don't think she is either. I really don't know what to do next. I think she wants to make the whole thing go away as although she has feelings for me she is too scared of taking a risk and one of us getting hurt. So, my questions are: * Can this sort of thing ever work? * What should I do next? * If you are a husband who has been in this situation could you deal with the fact that your wife was sleeping with someone else?
  14. I ran a search on "threesome" in this forum and read as many posts as I could. I'm aware that most people are advising that a serious relationship not attempt a threesome because it may lead to the end of the relationship and/or hurt feelings. The thing is, the very thought of another guy (who is likeable and trustworthy) having sex with my girlfriend or fondling her and eventually going into a threesome with me included turns me on. I also know that she has an interest in mmf threesome as well because we've discussed it together. I think we have a strong and healthy relationship, we get along very well and love sharing our bodies with each other. I'm fully aware that sexual fantasy and reality are two completely different things. Neither of us have ever experienced a threesome before. I'm just very turned on when I know my girlfriend is feeling and getting lots of pleasure, whether it be from me or a sex toy, and now I'm thinking even as far as a threesome. It turns me on (in my head). My question is: With everything I've just stated here, is the idea of a threesome (for both the girlfriend and I) still sound like nothing more than a dirty thought (sexual fantasy), or has anyone been in a similar position as I am now who can tell me that yes they've been in a serious longterm relationship and have tried a threesome and has definitely enjoyed (or unenjoyed) it. I just want to know if we both should keep the thought of a threesome as just our sexual fantasy instead of exploring it in real life.
  15. Just as many guys do, my bf likes the idea of a threesome. He is my first, I am his second. I don't know that THAT has too much to do with it but it might. Anyhow. It has come up many times in the past year or so that he would like to watch me have lesbian sex and then have sex with me while the girl messes with other parts of me. This idea disgusts me because I do not, and never have wanted to mess with another female. I don't wnat him to look at another girl's naked body. I have issues with porn sometimes because whenever he looks at it I get the feeling like maybe i'm just not good enough for him? He keeps telling me that he just wants to watch me and a girl, and that it would be hott because I am in it - but it still bothers me a lot. I think sex is a holy act that is made to be kept between two lovers. Not three. Not four. He knows it bothers me when he brings it up so every time he does I try to disgust him by saying "That's like me wanting to see some guy pound you in the * * *." - but he doesnt seem bothered by it at all. He's like "I'd do it if you really wanted me to." but he knows I wouldn't like any of that at all. I'm not going to have lesbian sex, I am definitely not going to have a threesome with him ESPECIALLY if he has any chance to fondle another girl. Am I being too uptight? Am I letting it bother me too much? I know it's just a fantasy but I wish I could fill all of his fantasies myself. I suppose I want to be the only thing he ever needs?
  16. I really need some advice about this.I've been wanting to do this for a while now.I've mentioned it to my b/f but he's isn't interested at all.Which is very weird for a guy.The thing is,I want to experience being with a woman.I have fantasies about all the time.I find women very sexy and attractive.But my b/f doesn't want to.Have a threesome with another woman that is.Any advice?
  17. I think Ive previously been in an abusive relationship. In the first week, the guy treated me extremely well. He would call me many times a day and tell me he loves me and simply treat me like gold. Unfortunately, in the second week, he yelled at me four days in a row. He would blow up at the smallest things. One time I asked him, "did you miss me?" and he started to yell at me for asking him, "a pointless question". It progressed for a week or more until I decided to break it off. I gave him a note while he was at work in the mall stating how it was over. He contacted me again saying how he kept the note to remind himself that I was the one who had broken up with him, how I will "suffer for this break up as a punishment", and how his yelling at me was always "my fault". I was a bit shocked by his behaviour because he is 26 and thought that he would be emotionally mature enough to control his behaviour. About a week later we talked again and for some silly reason he managed to get me back. I was being silly but I honestly thought that things would return to "normal" and that he would treat me as well as before. Unfortunately, his behaviour only worsened. One time I couldnt reach him by phone, and when he picked up, I complained a bit, and then he accused me of yelling at him, and decided to cancel our plan of meeting up that day. I was a bit upset, but clearly he didn't care about my feelings. Whenever I tried to talk to him about my feelings, he would cut me off, saying how I was being stupid. He would say that I get frustrated easily, and would totally disregard my feelings. Everything was always about himself. Whenever he offered a suggestion and I didn't agree on it, he would accuse me of "cutting him off" and would threaten to hang up on me on the phone. Quite often, he would intentionally hurt my feelings and I would tell him to stop but he would continue. For some reason, he took pleasure in hurting my feelings, saying how I deserve this type of treatment because of my behaviour, how he was always right. Also, whenever he couldn't reach me by phone, he would get upset and complain, but when I couldn't reach him by phone and get upset, he would yell at me. Also, whenever he yelled at me, and I got upset, he would get even more frustrated, threatening me to stop getting upset or else he would yell at me even more. I started to worry about everything that I said and did in fear of upseting him. Whenever I saw him or spoke to him on the phone, I no longer felt the comfort that I once had. Instead, my emotional state depended on his moods and his treatment towards me. I always felt the need to win his approval, however, he would always purposely ignore me for days and not pick up on my calls as means of "punishing me". One time he did the ultimate scary thing when we met up one evening and he suggested that we find a random person off the street and engage in a threesome. I had told him several times before that I wasnt interested in a threesome, but when I told him not to pick up a random person, his facial expression suddenly changed and he asked me angrily if I was "saying no to his ideas". Somehow he managed to pick up a random guy off the street, and in the car he was laughing stating how it was his first time picking up a stranger off the street, and how happy he was of this success. I was so scared, but luckily the stranger was actually a nice guy, and I managed to tell the guy to leave by stating how my bf was "drunk" (clearly, he was perfectly sober). But this experience told me how he didnt care about my feelings. He said that he wanted me to "have fun" with another guy, so he in turn would want me more. What he said clearly told me that he wasnt picking up another guy in order to make me happy (I was clearly not delighted by the idea) but because he felt it would stimulate him and make him want me more. So again, I broke it off with him for the second time knowing that his behaviour would not change. What upset me the most was the startling contrasting differences between the first week he had treated me, and afterwards. Now I'm just wondering if I was in fact in an abusive relationship. Thank you for reading.
  18. I heard something funny today - that women who organise and engage in threesome are likelier to retain their partners than those who dont. Reason being, the woman offers so much variety to the partner that he doesnt need to find it elsewhere personally so he sticks around since there is so much fun to be had. And they dont mean bicurious or bisexual women sort of threesome, but one where the men are usually allowed to enter another woman How bizarre is that?!?!
  19. Okay,so I have been with my b/f almost three years now and I am not satisfied with our sex life.When we have sex,it feels good and everything but the problem is that he can't last long.We've never even had sex for a full thirty min.I've talked to him about this before and he says that he's sorry but he just can't help it.He said that he tries his best to hold back,but it never works.I know this is going to sound awful,but I've often thought about cheating on him.And that's something that I really don't want to do!!He is the only person that I've had sex with and I want to experiance that with a different guy.I guess to see what it's like with someone new.But I don't want to break up with him.I've brought up maybe having a threesome but he doesn't want to do that.I even asked him about bringing in another girl.But he doesn't even want that.And I don't know any guy that wouldn't want to have a threesome with two women!So I guess what I'm asking is,do you have any advice for me at all?Sorry this was so long by the way.
  20. i'm dating a girl that's bi and she suggested to me that we have a threesome with the other girl she likes. i was like awesome, i get two girls....it wasn't like that at all.. my gf liked making out with her gf more than she did with me.
  21. Ok, I'm not sure where I should post this but I just kissed my best friend. She is female and I am too. It was only a peck on the lips because we were messing around I was trying to get my b/f to kiss me and she's like ooh ohh I want a kiss too. Usually I would go up and pretend to kiss her but I actually did it. The only reason it's bothering me is because now I'm turned on. I am straight...as far as I last knew but I admitted to her once that I have looked at girls in the sexual way before, and I wouldn't be opposed to experimenting. But I have a boyfriend now. He mentioned the idea of a threesome before to which I was opposed to because she is my best friend and I don't want things to get weird between any of us. Really I was just wondering if this makes me bi... I mean I have even had sexual dreams about her before too, and now that all I did was peck her lips and feel this way I don't think I would be opposed to the idea of a threesome anymore... Is this wrong?
  22. WEIRD but SERIOUS question. The situation is this: I think my best friend in the world wants more from me. Me and my best friend have been so for over 10 years now. But we got really close this past 2 years because we had each had some VERY hard times. We encouraged each other, lifted each other up, laughed, went out to parties, hung out and just watched TV and everything. But a little over a year ago, she sort of mentioned trying a threesome but just laughed it off. But one night when we, and a good guy friend of mine got drunk, we had a threesome, then when it was over, she took me! I know this sounds silly, but she did...and we were both still slightly drunk. Then another night when we were drunk, it was just me and her and she initiated it. Since then, it has happened maybe 2 other times. The thing that worries me however is that this past weekend, when we were out and only SLIGHTLY intoxicated, she said "Since I'm drunk, I may as well say this: You bleep bleep bleep (*in other words "do oral sex really good")." Then she said that we should please each other when we got back to the hotel. So after we both showered and were in the bed, for some odd reason, I got so turned on to the point that I initiated it. This time we were FULLY sober. And after it happened, I thought OH GOD I JUST INITIATED SEX WITH MY BEST FRIEND.....MY SIS. And even now, 5 days later, I keep thinking that in my head. And I can't explain it, it feels incestuous and dirty. Please help me. Someone?? I don't want to do that ever again. I don't want to get turned on by my best friend who could easily be more like a sister to me. I don't want her saying I [do oral sex really good]. Should I end the friendship?
  23. Can anyone share their experiences with a threesome or foursome? How they felt/feel about it? Perhaps even giving the basic general details like whose idea it was, and how many male/female, and if it was with another couple? I'm bringing this up because I just had a discussion recently with my girlfriend about this and I'd just like to know if any other couple out there has even discussed it. I'm not sure what I'm feeling about it. By details, I don't mean a play-by-play of everything that happened, but just a summary of who was involved and what kinds of feelings you felt. Even up to the point of swapping partners?
  24. I have been separated from my husband for three months. I left him because of abuse... two months later, I find myself in love with my married girlfriend whom I have known for four years. I was always bisexual but she never knew that about me until now. She told me one day that she and her husband had fantasized about a threesome with another woman. That conversation made me hot as I realized that I wanted to be the other woman. That night, we went dancing, and then after a kiss we had sex with each other. We had sex the next day, amazed at the level of passion and depth... I think it was the second time sleeping with her that we began to give voice to a growing love between us. By the third time we were together, we were both scared about what it might mean. The feeling is deeper than anything I have ever known, and she says the same is true for her. She decided to tell her husband afterwards... I had wanted her to tell him from the beginning because if he doesn't know, it's cheating. At first she didn't tell him because she wanted me all to herself; but after feeling the love, she thought she'd better include him or we might end up running off together! So she told him... but she only told him half the truth... pretended we never did anything before, and that our first time would be the three of us together. He was excited... I was relieved. One problem: After the threesome, he told her that I behave more "like a man" in bed and has now pulled back from ever doing it again. I'm surprised, because I did things to him that woman do; I didn't leave him unattended, and he seemed to enjoy having sex with me! I feel that he is threatened by what I was able to do to her in bed; things he never was willing to do to her. Now I think he will slowly try to remove me from hanging around his family. He told her not to have sex with me unless he is there because it feels like a man is loving his wife, not a sweet, harmless woman (my words). In the meantime, we have not been able to keep our hands off each other (secretly, of course). I have never felt the love I feel before... the tenderness and the complete surrender and the unlimited passion; a spiritual connection that feels like I have been waiting my whole life for her. We constantly call each other and are so happy to feel this love, even though the husband disapproves. We fantasize about running off together; but I freeze when I consider the social impact that would have on our families (my boy and her two boys). She is still with her husband and she is not happy. The more we talk, the more I see his abuse and controlling patterns... the same patterns I escaped from in my own ex-husband. Although I make plenty of money for the both of us, he would probably try and financially bury me alive if she tried to leave him for me. Dragging the kids in would be so horrible for everyone. I would hate to fight him! I am scared!! Please shed some insight from any experience you have had in a similar situation. I would love to not feel so alone. ~me.
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